Srishty Chawla

@yug_verma9921 @TARUNspeakss Also brilliant idea on not marrying. Something a lot of women are moving towards. 10/10 agree with you on this. Love it too.

@SrishtyChawla @TARUNspeakss Then don't marry at all.. Sb apne parents ke saath hi rho.. Already people are living outside for work away from parents. The foundation of marriage is that husband will treat bride's parents same as he treats his parents and same for bride towards groom.

"Duty of daughter-in-law is to take care of the parents....parents of the husband" "Nowadays DILs are more interested in their own parents..." This boomer is a DU passout. No wonder in-laws are the prime reason for the divorces in India.

@mataramgaonwal @TARUNspeakss Because aise hota nahi hai reality mein mostly jaise aap keh rahe ho. Maybe you do it so to you it is very simple. But it doesn’t translate to action in our society on ground, unfortunately.

@SrishtyChawla @TARUNspeakss dekho pahli baat to ye ki aadmi har samay ghar par nahi rahta hai to wife ko khayal rakhna padta hai second agar meri wife ke maa baap akele hai to wo bhi meri responsibility hai I treat them like my own parents this is very simple why people are not getting it

@yug_verma9921 @TARUNspeakss The primary responsibility of serving of one’s own parents falls upon the self. That’s the sacred duty of a child and it aids spiritual growth. Outsourcing this duty to either husband or wife is outsourcing or bypassing your own spiritual growth.

@yug_verma9921 @TARUNspeakss Actually no. The foundation of marriage is trust, respect, communication, shared values and commitment, and spiritual alignment.

@NeemBhagabaan @TARUNspeakss Hmm. Okay.

@SrishtyChawla @TARUNspeakss Sure, it doesn’t happen every time, but would you like to be preached to about it by a Pakistani?

@indian_armada And yet the violence against women continues to rise in our country? Despite these beautiful teachings to men? How? Why? What must we be doing wrong?

सच कड़वा भी है लेकिन जरूरी भी है 🌝

@clark_kent_2023 @TARUNspeakss This nobody will have a response too, because this needs empathy to think through. Woh toh hai hi nahi internet pe.

@TARUNspeakss Who will take care of wife's parents if she's the only child

@NeemBhagabaan @TARUNspeakss Umm…no brother. That’s not how it happens.

@TARUNspeakss In India, in-laws treat their daughter-in-law as their own daughter, in Fahwad’s Pakistan also in-laws treat their daughter-in-law as their own daughter !!

@yug_verma9921 @TARUNspeakss Why can’t children just take care of their own parents? Why do we need someone to come from outside and take care of them? What sorcery is this?

@TARUNspeakss Doesn't she expects same care from her brother's wife for her parents? Take care of both side parents. Matter closed. And if any girl forces you to leave ur parents, then just run away from her

@mataramgaonwal @TARUNspeakss Agar sab apne ma baap ko apna Maan ke unka khud khayal rakhein don’t you think that’s a better system? And what if your wife doesn’t have a brother and is the only child, or just a sister. Toh unn maa baap ka khayal kaun rakhega? Woh ma baap budhhe nahi honge? Matlab, logic?

@TARUNspeakss isme kuchh bhi galat nahi hai ye ek system hai man lo meri bivi meri maa baap ko apna manti hai to mere bahan bhi to uske hasband ke maa baap ko apna manegi na what's wrong in this

@k__bayraktar @arrtnem Yeah for a moment it felt personal. Haha. I agree with you. That’s what my original comment is - as an adult we need to turn inward, take accountability of ourselves because if we don’t, nobody else will, and it will reflect in our relationships. That’s a painful way to live.

@SrishtyChawla @arrtnem Sometimes a person's "childhood trauma" that they need to resolve is over resentment towards their parents and feeling like a victim and refusing to do better. If you're -say- 30 and you're still blaming your dad your failed relationship.. Problem is you.

On paper it is gorgeous. Two toothbrushes in one cup. Tiny socks on the radiator. Someone whose face you know in the dark reaching for you at 3:12 and not leaving. A small person with your eyes and their laugh eating cereal too slowly before school. It sounds like the closest thing to safety we have ever invented. But a lot of people did not grow up watching love look like that. They grew up watching marriage be a war that never declared itself out loud. 19:40 on a Tuesday, plates not quite slammed, voices just quiet enough for the neighbors not to hear. A father sleeping on the couch for three years. A mother doing the emotional admin for five people and getting a wilted bouquet once a year as a receipt. The child learns quickly that forever can be a threat as easily as it is a promise. You say mini mes. A lot of people hear smaller witnesses. Witnesses to debt. To screaming in the car park. To one parent disappearing for six months and calling it adjusting. Some bodies carry the memory of being the kid who held the camera and took the Christmas photo where nobody spoke to each other for two days after. They do not crave that house. They crave never putting anyone through it. There is another layer no one likes talking about because it sounds too practical for a sacred topic. Mortgage rates that bite. Groceries that feel like a test. Friends burning out in two jobs and still wondering if they can afford a dentist, не те що дитину. Bodies that already wake tired. The idea of bringing in a small, breakable person is not just cute to them. It is a spreadsheet with red numbers and a nervous system that shakes. And then there are the ones who were never told they were allowed to want something for themselves first. To them, choosing no partner and no kids for now is not selfishness. It is the first act of self parenting. It is finally learning to feed the part of them that was always the one doing the caretaking. They are not missing the desire. Sometimes they are surgically removing the compulsion put in them by a culture that treated women as wombs and men as wallets. Some people hear spouse and feel warmth. Others hear spouse and feel a hand closing over their life. Some people look at a child and feel their chest widen. Others look at their own sleep schedule, their own untreated trauma, their own rage in traffic and think not yet, not like this. That is not nihilism. That is responsibility. The bravest thing some people will ever do is break the chain by not adding another link. Marriage and children can be the most beautiful thing. They can also be the most efficient way to hide from yourself. It is easy to call it forever if you have never sat with your own loneliness without a witness. It is easy to say mini me if you have not yet met the parts of you that should not be replicated without serious editing. Many people want to arrive to that altar and that nursery with less unprocessed violence in their hands. That takes time. That looks from the outside like drifting. If you are lucky enough to want it and still be soft when you picture it, hold that gently. Do not turn your hunger into a ruler you hit others with. The world has given plenty of reasons to be afraid of binding contracts and tiny hearts. Climate, war, courts, childhood bedrooms where love was conditional on performance. Not everyone has healed enough to gamble a child on their hope. Ask people what they want under all the noise. Some will say a partner and kids. Some will say a room, a dog, three good friends and work that feels honest. Some will say I do not know yet, I was never given space to ask. The distance is not as far as it looks. Everyone is hunting the same thing under different packaging. A place where their nervous system can stop scanning the door. A hand that stays. A tomorrow that is not a threat. You can stand in your dream of spouse and children without needing the whole planet to agree.

Dear ladies never forget that: The same world that shames me for being a single mother also shames you for not being a mother and shames another woman for having too many children..lt shames one woman for having a child at the age of 19 because she's too young but also shames another for having at 36 because she's too old..lt shames a woman who marries young as well as the one who marries old..It shames women who don't have beautiful bodies and shames those who go under the knife to get the bodies. This world shames all women, not a single one of us is spared, not a single one. So love and make yourselves happy.

No one is coming. Awaken and save yourself.

@nandiniv How do we connect, Nandini? I’d love to explore this!

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@Uber_India why do I have these random unfinished payments? Been seeing this pattern for a few months now, anywhere between ₹0 to ₹30 worth of such payments. Ofc I can’t book a cab without clearing these. Can someone explain these charges or are we in the dark payment era now?

@Swiggy what’s going on with your orders? Since yesterday, two orders have been cancelled and I got a call from restaurants saying they’ll fulfil the order directly. What’s the deal?

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Hello @airindia I seem to have left / lost my AirPods in a Del-Mum flight. Here’s hoping against hope that they can be retrieved while cleaning or something. Can someone try and help if it’s possible?

@Husband_Diaries playing Call of Duty on Saturday. Me: hey I’ve a couple of questions Him: (pauses game) Me: (asks questions) Him: (very conflicted; tells me how he is MVP third time in a row; has 14 friends) Me: (blank look) Him: we’ll talk, but right now Duty Calls… Me: …