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Dearest daughter

@Sunoladkiyon

Successful without being a feminist. Works full time, have a family too. You can win both worlds and be happy. Follow me for actionable advice for young Women

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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
There are a thousand accounts teaching men life skills, life hacks and survival tactics..For women,you see GRWM or makeup videos. Content for women is cringe and zero value. Who is going to tell women what to do and what not to. So, decided to take a plunge!! Let's see.
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Nalini Unagar
Nalini Unagar@NalinisKitchen·
One of my relatives has been a government school teacher for 4.5 years. Yesterday she met me and started lecturing me. She said why did you leave the teaching job, you were temporary, you could have become permanent if you tried, salary is good, so many holidays, life is easy, just give the exam and your future is set. No tension, salary now and pension later. I told her straight to her face that I just don't like government jobs at all. Many people in those jobs become lazy. There is no fear of losing the job. Government jobs should be based on performance so people actually work instead of calculating the salary all the time. She just left.
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ᴛᴡᴏ-🆁@Be_likeMango·
I will only marry a girl who is: - Virgin - Naturally beautiful (no makeup ever) - 5'2 perfect height - 45 kg exact weight - Knows cooking of all cuisines - Non feminist - Doesn't use social media - Has no male friends - Asks permission before going anywhere - Shares her live location 24×7 - No past - Takes care of my parents like her own Where would I find a girl like that? 😭
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@GabbbarSingh 100% true. Every species on earth, plants, animals, even single celled microorganisms, do everything in their capabilities to procreate and keep their offsprings safe. That's how we are where we are. The DINK couples are just ,raised lazy and irresponsible immatures.
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Gabbar
Gabbar@GabbbarSingh·
People who are averse to having kids and live a DINK life. It’s perfectly fine. But they are missing on one key thing in life: The purest form of love in the world is what a parent has for their kid. Their own blood. It may not be vice versa. Relationships, marriages often devolve into transactional setups. Love between a couple diminishes with time & becomes a most optimal peaceful settlement. But the affection for your kid is pure. If you are okay with not experiencing it, it’s totally fine. :)
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
To all #DINK couples.. Every species on earth, plants, animals, even single celled microorganisms, do everything in their capabilities to procreate and keep their offsprings safe. That's how we are where, we are. You are just lazy-don't want responsibilities- selfish sissies.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@PoojaPriyam_ Every species on earth, plants, animals, even single celled microorganisms, do everything in their capabilities to procreate and keep their offsprings safe. That's how we are where we are. Never heard of a lioness complaining of patriarchy.
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Pooja Priyamvada
Pooja Priyamvada@PoojaPriyam_·
Wanting child is made to be "natural" by patriarchy to keep the existing caste & religion based, dowry based marriage going, give more control to men's families on progeny & to keep women tied, it can be a biological urge but human babies need more than jungles to survive!
Saiswaroopa Iyer@Sai_swaroopa

Unpopular opinion about DINK choosing couples. I think wanting children is the most natural thing. Not wanting is a result of an unresolved childhood trauma or a heavy self (and ecosystem) doubt. These couples were deeply pained either at their parents' sacrifices or incompatibility or toxicity. At times it could be a messy combo of all. They don't want to bring a child into that mess that exists in their subconsciousness. Financial readiness is also a factor but we seem to be talking about affluent section today.

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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@Sritika_ Isn't that the whole point of being a human being.. Logically. Which so far I am sorry to say has proved that you couldn't comprehend. Read about the single greatest event in human civilization is to find the first healed bone. It mnt someone found a solution for someone else.
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Sritika ♌
Sritika ♌@Sritika_·
While people are telling DINK couples to consider having kids. ANYONE that plans to have kids should also consider that the kids can be born with mental or physical health issues and you can be their caretakers for life. You should not be a half hearted parent. We see numerous cases where parents kill their own children - we need better capabilities in people choosing to become parents.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@Sritika_ So, what is your solution for such people with such health issues. Do think about yourself in that situation before answering..
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Sritika ♌@Sritika_·
@Sunoladkiyon Even if you get health issues, your partner can choose to not stay with you. Your kids can be very small or incapable to take care of you. They could be abroad. They could die before parents. These are all situations we have seen around us, at least I have seen them all.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@Sritika_ Will there be anyone like a spouse or sibling for taking care of you..even half heartedly
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@Sritika_ And what if there is an accident and you get one of these health issues??
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Anand Sankar@saybwala·
- I am doing work that purely motivates me, it's not for raising a spawn - I pay only for my flight ticket & hotel rooms - Eat & drink what I want - I need to only plan my meals at home - Can travel where I want - We can live where we want, me and missus have homes with mountain and ocean views - I can plan my daily routine exactly the way I want or not plan at all - We need to plan finances only for ourselves - Zero expectations: I don't bother thinking about what will happen with the world once I am gone I don't have enough time! That's what bothers me now.
Vijay Thirumalai@vijaythirumalai

DINK - quick Q, what do u do with all the time you have & all the money you make? Sure you can travel coz u don't have constraints wrt school etc but how else is ur life better compared to the friends in same position with kids Name one upgrade, I'll wait.

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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@namanja140140 @CoachDanGo Question factual data Do a dharna if eggs are given in MDM Get all meat shops closed on your festivals Eat papda thepla and chill. Science and logic is not your high point.
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naman jain
naman jain@namanja140140·
@CoachDanGo Word barely moved for india is wrong , india has also been grown and will keep growing in next 20 years
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Dan Go@CoachDanGo·
Over the past 34 years the average Chinese man became, on average, 3 inches taller than his grandfather. But entire population can't rewrite its DNA in 35 years. So what made them grow so fast? The answer might surprise you.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@nehanagarr How abt citizens bribing to get up in the line,voting on the caste and freebies, ruining infra by gutka and stealing, putting up fake certificates for jobs, staying unemployed but don't get skills upgrade, no civic sense, or work ethics. Kabhi apni gireban mein bhi jhankein hum.
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Neha Nagar
Neha Nagar@nehanagarr·
What, according to you, is the biggest hurdle in India’s development? 🇮🇳 > freebies > reservation > corruption > bureaucracy > unemployment > infrastructure > or something else
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@NalinisKitchen You hate bureaucracy but love getting views posting about them.. Waah. Thoda padh likh lo, twitter kam chalao..tumhari bhi naukari lag jayegi
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Nalini Unagar
Nalini Unagar@NalinisKitchen·
This is IAS Aastha Singh. She cleared HPSC at 21. Rank 31. First attempt. She cleared UPSC at 21. Rank 61. First attempt. In 2024, she became one of the youngest female IAS officers at age 21. Every year 10 lakh people give this exam. But only ~800-1,000 recommended for services like IAS, IPS, IFS, etc. She was one of them. And she did it on her very first try. The minimum age is 21 to sit for the UPSC. She gave it the very first year she was allowed to. And she cleared it. WOWOWOW.
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Shrija
Shrija@plot_twistttt·
Imagine a wife wakes up. - Husband makes tea. - Wife goes for a shower, and husband gets breakfast ready. - Wife goes to the office and gives some money to husband for groceries. - Husband gets kids ready and drops them off at school. - Husband does house chores. - Wife works hard at the office. Husband sends tiffin to wife's office. - Husband watches TV in the evening, then goes to the vegetable market, then picks up kids from school. - Husband cooks dinner and has it ready before wife returns from the office. - Wife returns home tired, and dinner is ready on the table. - She enjoys it and then goes to bed while husband cleans the dishes. What a beautiful life.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@SushtejuK @abhmahajan @plot_twistttt Women cld work becoz of education and empowerment, some driven by female leaders but much also due to male leaders like RajaRammohan roy, radha krishnan, nd phule. Feminism/pseudofeminism r impossible to segregate . What is important is good intent, equality and grit not gender.
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Dearest daughter
Dearest daughter@Sunoladkiyon·
@SushtejuK @abhmahajan @plot_twistttt Yupp. Independent, earn more than husband, love him, think gender roles should be fluid but cannot be flipped. Definitely not in propaganda like why women wear sindur or why men don't get pregnant!! God/Nature has created each of us with a purpose. Thats it.
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