THizzle
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My boyfriend and I are planning to buy a house together after dating for 3 years.
He earns significantly more than I do, so he’d be contributing about 70% of the down payment. Because of that, he wants the house to be only in his name.
He says it’s just “fair” based on the numbers, but we’d both be living there, splitting bills, and building a life together.
I’ve been watching a lot of relationship content about equity vs equality, and it made me realize things don’t always have to be 50/50 but this feels like I’d have no security at all.
He said if we ever broke up, he’d “do the right thing,” but that doesn’t really reassure me.
My friends say don’t move in unless my name is on it. His friends apparently think I’m being entitled.
Now I feel stuck between trusting him and protecting myself.
Is this a red flag I’m trying too hard to rationalize?
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@AntiWokeMemes I’m sure others have said it but gas from being so full of shit
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@UcheMaryOkoli Yes, priests are allowed to smoke. I just have not seen one smoke a cigarette in many years. This could be someplace in Europe where people still smoke.
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@KefFarms @iky_fwjett Nah. A large part of a relationship is compromise. You don’t have to like it but if my lady asked me dozens of times for a gone kiss, ands more importantly, I knew it made her feel special? I’m giving her one. Simple.
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@iky_fwjett Also marriage is something you always have to work on. It’s not something you just throw in the towel on when there’s a big fight.
Neither should talk to the other that way. I wish you all the luck. I hope it works out for you
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@iky_fwjett There is a huge lack of communication. No one is a mind reader.
I am not a licensed therapist. This is my advice based on context.
Ask him to go to couples therapy with you and you both need it. Separately and together.
Everyone has their own childhood trauma to work through 🩷
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You think the Catholic Church is a cult because you've never seen real worship in your life.
You grew up in a church where the lights are flashing, the music is blasting, people are jumping up and down, crying, shouting, falling out, and someone told you that that is worship.
That is entertainment, that is emotion.
That is not worship. Real worship is walking into a space and immediately feeling the weight of where you are.
- The silence, the incense, candles,
people kneeling, heads bowed.
Not because someone told them to perform, but because they actually believe they are standing before God.
The entire mass is built around one thing, the Holy Eucharist. The actual body and blood of Jesus Christ. Not a symbol, not a memory.
God, physically present on the altar.
You do not jump up and down in the presence of God.
You kneel.
You are silent.
You receive him with humility because you understand what is actually happening.
The early church did not have hype men and a smoke machines.
They gathered in silence in homes willing to die for what they believed in.
That is the church Christ built.
So before you call it a cult,
understand what you are looking at first.
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@rallenac @clara_winslow @ComeHometoRome I came here to say this.
People choose abortion. They can slap a label on themselves and say they are Catholic. Just like any other denomination. And do the most horrible things to give the others a bad rep.
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@clara_winslow @ComeHometoRome You are confusing the church with some people who claim to be catholic on paper.
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@realCarola2Hope I would say I can’t take them seriously if they mae that statement because they are ignorant and need to do some research. They have come to a battle of wits unarmed
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Just an fyi for the people who are confused about what the Catholic Church teaches:
Prayer of worship (adoration, latria) is directed to God alone (Father, Son, and Holy Spirit). Saints and Mary are never worshiped.
When Catholics "pray to" a saint (e.g., "St. Anthony, pray for us" or the Hail Mary), they are asking the saint to pray for or with them — requesting intercession, just as you might ask a living friend or family member to pray for you.
Saints in heaven are not considered "dead" in the final sense. They are alive in Christ (see Mark 12:27 / Luke 20:38: "He is not the God of the dead, but of the living"). This is tied to the communion of saints (mentioned in the Apostles' Creed and Catechism paragraphs 946–962).
Catholics explicitly reject necromancy (conjuring spirits of the dead for information or power), which the Bible condemns (Deuteronomy 18:10-12; 1 Samuel 28).
They argue their practice is different: no summoning, no seeking secret knowledge, no two-way conversation — simply asking righteous people in heaven (who are closer to God) to join their prayers to God.
They also pray for the dead (especially souls in purgatory, according to Catholic doctrine), asking God to have mercy, purify, or forgive them. This is seen as supported by 2 Maccabees 12:38-46 (a book Catholics include in Scripture but most Protestants do not), where Judas Maccabeus prays and offers sacrifices for fallen soldiers so they might be "loosed from their sins."
Now I will await the bombardment of abuse saying this is wrong. Interestingly, they will say that the Holy Spirit revealed this to them, but will dismiss the idea that the Holy Spirit could have revealed this to the early Church Fathers.
Do you see the contradictions there?
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@NickVonUrlicht @Timcast You look like you'd come up as the dictionary definition of a modern cultist lmao

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Because you've been lied to
Its not a cult
Its a loose coalition of various ideologies that think democrats are nuts
David J Harris Jr@DavidJHarrisJr
How would you respond to him?
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@CatechismTony @AtheistTakes Yes!! And it could be the child trying to bring the dad to god
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@AtheistTakes My suggestion to the dad... Read and know the below even if you don't believe in it... If you Love your kids, you would adhere to it!

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@THizzle77168 @DrAlmarielao You’re good, I totally see your point & no worries, I’m not a name caller or hot head unless it’s politics, LOL!!! We can agree to disagree but from my position I agree with both of our comments, hehehe! Have a FAB night & try to stay away from those keyboard warriors! 🩵
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A woman shares a dating story that left her stunned. She met a guy online, they picked a restaurant, and she arrived early; opened a tab and ordered a drink while waiting. When he showed up, everything seemed normal. They moved to a table, had dinner, good conversation, no red flags. But when the bill came, the waitress asked if everything should go on the card already on file; hers. He stayed completely silent. She awkwardly said yes, he casually asked “are you sure?”… and still didn’t offer to help. Afterward, they exchanged numbers, and she assumed he’d send his half. The next day, she sent her Venmo. No response. No payment. But was ready for second date.
That’s not just awkward; that’s a lack of basic respect. It’s one thing to split a bill, but letting someone else cover everything without even offering or following up says a lot about character.
Would you give someone a second chance after this, or is that an immediate red flag?
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@Amelia558rs If that’s what you wanna wear, then that’s what you wear. It’s about you and your opinion not anyone else
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My maid of honor looked at this dress I'd spent eight months waiting for and said, "That's... not a wedding dress. It's a costume." The words hit like ice water. I'd fallen in love with the embroidery after seeing the seamstress's work on the Tedooo app - she specializes in traditional dresses, and I wanted something that honored my grandmother's heritage. Every flower was hand-stitched, every hummingbird placed with intention. It cost me three months of savings and countless late-night messages about thread colors and placement.
Now I'm two months from the wedding, and my entire bridal party is "gently suggesting" I find something more "classic." My mother-in-law offered to buy me a "proper" dress from David's Bridal. But when I put this on, I see my grandmother's garden, her stories about village celebrations, the culture she left behind when she immigrated. Yes, it's not a traditional white gown. Yes, people might whisper. But isn't a wedding dress supposed to make you feel like the truest version of yourself? I'm torn between keeping peace and keeping this dress that makes my heart sing every time I look at those embroidered birds.

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@cheryl444lynn @MbarkCherguia Facts don’t care about feelings.
Would you want to look like her?
Stop telling people obesity is beautiful when this can cause them to die. Encourage them to have a healthy weight.
Not too skinny and not too fat smh
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@MbarkCherguia She’s beautiful. What’s wrong with people
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@TammyGonza59756 @DrAlmarielao She didn’t mention closing it either so it was still on there. All I’m saying is there was a lack of communication there that could have solved a lot of the issue but she’s a red flag. Go check out her page. let’s agree to disagree. No name calling like the other person 😂
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@THizzle77168 @DrAlmarielao She wasn’t asking about paying for her bar tab prior to his arrival she’s talking about the WHOLE bar & dinner tab?! Some restaurants require closing your tab when transferring to dining room & some just carry it over!
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