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@stayaway_002 Has your logic taken a sabbatical? These are mutually exclusive issues, stop conflating them.

"Crime against women have more than doubled since 2010 Crime against children have risen more than sevenfold" On one hand, men demand gender-neutral laws. On the other, far too many women and children continue to face violence and abuse at the hands of men. The irony is hard to ignore. Brutal killing of 11-year-old highlights unrelenting sexual violence in India reuters.com/world/asia-pac…

@Crustology_ Living with woman like you is a tremendous ‘mental load’, but you don’t hear men whine about it. And please bring up this topic next time your dad brings a rishta for you, give the innocent an opportunity to dodge a bullet.

You can't spend years benefiting from someone's unpaid labor, emotional support and sacrifices, then suddenly label them "greedy" for asking for alimony after divorce.

@realsiff Nothing is free. If someone is getting something for free, someone else is paying for it.

Men, Stop being generous towards women. Are women showing any generosity towards men? Why free bus tickets to women at Delhi? F*ck politicians by demanding free bus tickets for both (poor) men and women. share.google/PRWtOay2nBctIn…

@IndiaToday @KDscribe @maryashakil The Abla Naari narrative is an even bigger problem.

'The Pati Parmeshwar idea is, I think, a big problem here': @KDscribe, Managing Editor, India Today Magazine, on consent. #Newstrack #IndiaTodayConsentSurvey #GDB | @maryashakil

@zebesquo @CatWomaniya

@The_Time_Bender @CatWomaniya Another incel hiding behind an account. Your father must be proud of you incel

9 men chased a family for 15 kms, threw stuff and broke their windows, causing them injuries - just because a female member didn’t let herself get sexually harassed by them. This is what resisting sexual harassment and rape leads to in this country.

@NRosclal @SamSiff It will be ready by 2047, don’t worry 😉

@SamSiff Is there a gpt app where the entire corpus of the BNS can be found for legal consultation ?

Advice for husbands fighting a maintenance case. Before spending lakhs on litigation, spend a few hours reading the Supreme Court judgment in Rajnesh vs. Neha given on 4 November 2020. This judgment gives husbands several important safeguards, including: >The wife must disclose her true income, assets, investments, bank accounts, liabilities, and standard of living through a detailed affidavit right at filing of the maintenance application. >The court is expected to consider the earning capacity of both spouses, not just the husband’s income. >Concealment or false disclosure of material facts can affect the credibility of the maintenance claim. >Maintenance should be based on verified financial disclosures and evidence, not merely on allegations. >The judgment aims to ensure fairness and transparency by requiring complete financial disclosure from both parties. Read Part B and the Affidavit of Disclosure of Assets and Liabilities carefully. Pages 30–37 are the most important—read them at least 5 times. Read the remaining pages up to Page 66 at least 2 times. If you understand these guidelines, you will be in a much better position to identify omissions, contradictions, or non-disclosures in the maintenance petition and raise them confidently before the court. Knowledge of the law is your biggest weapon. Many remedies available to tackle..! Stay tuned for more practical guidance.

@CatWomaniya Aww, someone didn’t like it when hurty words were used against her own bastard dad. 😂

@The_Time_Bender What part of this video triggered you? You’re probably you the son of one of those rapists.

@Erishuuu Remove alimony and maintenance and watch the divorce rate crash.

The divorce rate is so high because Men still want to live like their fathers did,but Women no longer have to suffer like their mother did.

@realsiff Nothing is free in this world. If someone is getting something for free, someone else is paying for it.

Men have to wake other men up. Men have to stop being generous. Be mean and rude. Oppose - Free bus tickets - Free money in bank accounts - Free tickets to sports & other events - Free sarees, phones etc to women - Special seats in buses/metro. Do not stop yourself by thinking about your mother or sister.

@RealAnshikaS Don’t fall for this classic gaslighting. When the💩 hits the fan, she will not hesitate one bit to squeeze you for every penny you have. These jeetas are masters at weaponising laws for their benefit.

A girl shared a video with a message for her future husband. She said, "Please work hard for our future. I'm not a very strong or independent person. I get emotional over small things, I lose patience easily, and I get hurt quickly. I don't think I have the ability to achieve big success in life. That's why I feel our future will mostly depend on your hard work. I hope you'll work hard so we can have a good life and not struggle in the future. I'm sorry, because I don't think I can do all of that by myself."

@PoojaPriyam_ And show empathy and kindness to Indian jeetas and they walk all over him and he becomes a henpecked husband.

In Indian families fathers are presented as law enforcers and highest form of judiciary- Papa ko bata dungi Papa ko pata chala toh? Papa nahin manenge! In the process men have been robbed of their humanity and feelings like empathy and kindness.

Men aren’t 304 rehabilitation centres.

@the_psyche_lab Of course it depends on individual cases. But when it seeps into public discourse and public policy, it’s a problem. Every unreasonable narrative paraded by feminists needs to be challenged, men keeping quiet and ignoring these rants has landed us where we are today.

@The_Time_Bender To be ignored or not not be ignored depends on individual marriages I guess. But I get your point.

A woman's mental load is real. A man gets an invite for his friend's birthday party. He knows his friend likes fiction books. He buys a good rated one, wraps it, and gives. A woman gets an invite for her friend's birthday party. She:- > Introspects how close she is with the friend. > Tries to recall what did that friend give to her in her birthday. > Takes into account how she feels about the friend > Takes into account what she means to that friend > Thinks about what that work that gift is supposed to do for their friendship > Ensures the gift value doesn't highly exceed or is lower than what she received > Tries to think the most unique gift which no one else would give, to avoid duplication. > Aligns it with her friend's hobbies, lifestyle, etc. Thinks what all she must already have. So, as not give something repetitive. > Checks with other friends what they are giving, so she isn't left embarassed if her gift turns out to be least desirable. > Puts a lot of thought in getting a nice wrapping + a handwritten card. I know. I know. It's evolutionary psychology. That's the wiring. It's not their fault. Not complaining. Just giving a sneak peak into a female's mind, and why her mental load is usually higher than a man. If you are a husband, don't fret over such things. She finds satisfaction in this process. Let her give it her own sweet time and find the satisfaction. Complicating the simplest things is useless to a man's mind. But, it's a journey of self created drama and adventure to a woman's mind. If you try to take away these components of satisfaction, it can backfire on you in worse ways than you can imagine.

This is the situation of 90% techie couples. And these incels think women work to have affairs and escape household chores! Losers! Also, ladies, don’t marry someone with below 40LpA salary, if you are not planning to work or have adjusting mindset.

@msmaureen90 @the_psyche_lab Relax, nobody is being jailed for missing the dates on kids friends birthdays and anniversaries of distant relatives. I have many friends whose wives are bad with dates, but are good at other tasks. The real ‘mental load’ is on husbands holding on to jobs in the age of AI.

“A man gets an invite for his friend's birthday party. He knows his friend likes fiction books. He buys a good rated one, wraps it, and gives.” No, he doesn’t. Now add his wife parents and kids friends’ birthday parties and family events like engagements and weddings. Men dump all this work for social arrangements and gift giving on wives. Why don’t you ask yours how it works?

@the_psyche_lab empathy and compassion is a two way street. It’s an unwritten rule to be able to comfort your partner at times of their distress. Reframing shopping lists and domestic schedules as ‘metal load’ is a cop out. And to make the claim that only women do it, is disingenuous at best.

@the_psyche_lab Women’s ’metal load’ argument cannot be ignored when they are now demanding financial compensation for it, especially when it comes to childcare and normal household planning. When empathy and compassion in heterosexual relationships is weaponised, society it fuked. By the way,

@the_psyche_lab 🤡 The same woman who pretends to be financially independent when single, will demand maintenance from husband after initiating divorce proceedings.

🤡 The same woman who calls out "mansplaining" and wants men to listen more, interrupts him, dismisses his opinions, or tells him his feelings are invalid when he tries to explain his perspective. 🤡 The same woman who demands that men respect her "no" in every situation, gets upset and calls him "not a real man" if a man she wants stops pursuing her after she plays hard to get. 🤡 The same woman who says traditional gender roles are outdated and oppressive, still expects her man to be taller, stronger, earn more, and handle all the physically demanding or dangerous tasks without complaint. 🤡 The same woman who wants 50/50 in everything and financial independence, still expects the man to pay for dates, vacations, gifts, and the majority of big expenses while her money remains "her money." 🤡 The same woman who says all bodies are beautiful and fights against unrealistic standards, has a non-negotiable list of physical requirements (height, fitness, looks) and won't even consider dating men who don't meet them. 🤡 The same woman who demands emotional vulnerability from men and calls them toxic for bottling things up, loses attraction or respect the moment he actually cries, struggles, or shows he needs support. 🤡 The same woman who wants men to do more housework and calls it "emotional labor" when they don't, gets territorial or critical the second he tries to do things his way or takes initiative without asking her first. 🤡 The same woman who doesn't want her in-laws to stay with her, doesn't mind if her parents stay with her. 🤡 The same woman who brands masculine things as childish, boyish, or toxic doesn't mind if that masculine trait is used to provide for her comfort & convenience, or protect her. Continue in comments....