Bruce McAllister@McAllisterBruce
Watching the NDP leadership convention in Winnipeg this weekend, I felt more sad than anything else, honestly, I did. It was so frustrating to watch - and tempting as it is to say a lot of disparaging things, let’s take the high road. What troubles me isn't just silly partisan stuff. It's how far we've drifted from the simple idea that every Canadian should be treated as an individual, not some demographic checkbox.
When they start handing out those equity cards and arguing over who gets to speak first based on identity, it doesn't feel like progress anymore. It's just dividing Canadians into groups - literally picking winners and losers. We used to judge people on their character, their skills, and what they actually do. I don't know when we decided to stop doing that.
I want every Canadian - Black, White, immigrant, Indigenous, gay, straight, man or woman - to have a fair shot in life. We can all succeed and thrive! That was the promise of the civil rights era and the Canadian dream. Why are we replacing it with this permanent grievance scorekeeping? It doesn't lift people up. It just tells them their future is already capped by the group they were born into.
If diversity is supposed to be our strength, why does this version demand that everyone repeat the exact same script? Disagreeing on policy or even basic biology isn't hate. It's called debate. Shutting people down with labels like phobia or privilege isn't progressive. It's just shutting down real conversation.
Look at what this means for regular folks. Girls losing fair spots in sports and safe spaces because of biological males. Qualified people getting passed over for jobs or training just to hit some quota instead of picking the best person. While we're arguing over pronouns and microaggressions, families can't afford groceries or rent, housing costs are through the roof, and kids are falling behind in school. Part of the reason for this is we have stopped being honest. This isn't leadership. It's distraction from the things that actually matter. Not everybody gets a trophy and that’s ok - it makes it more meaningful when you put the effort in to achieve your dream. We need to get back to teaching that.
A lot of working-class families, new immigrants who came here to escape real problems, and even some longtime feminists are walking away from this stuff for the same reason. They want practical solutions, not identity games. Most Canadians, no matter which party they lean toward, still believe in simple fairness and judging people on merit instead of skin color or identity.
Conservatives aren't against anybody. We just refuse to pretend that biology isn't real, that we should erase women's categories, or that every single gap between groups is because of systemic racism instead of things like culture, family, or personal choices. Facts aren't hate. Ignoring them to protect a narrative is. If you are not political and are confused by all that - just hear this one point. Conservatives don’t care what sex, gender, race, skin color, or high heels people choose - we just will not participate in someone else’s chosen narrative and desire. Live and let live - but don’t tell me what I have to say, think, do, and believe. A child calling him or herself a furry is never going to be supported or normalized by conservatives. If a family chooses this - they have every right to I suppose - but I am not living into it.
The NDP just showed us their path this weekend. The rest of us can choose a better one: treat every person with basic dignity, reward hard work and merit, and build real equality under the law. That's the Canada worth fighting for. Let's end the division and get back to what actually works for all of us. There’s a reason Canadians were revered on the battle fields in the World Wars. It’s our grit - it’s our heart - it’s our bloody can-do, get out of my way, and watch me figure out a way through this challenge attitude. It’s time we got back to that.