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hot take: friendship requires the same intentionality we give to (early) dating > go to their party even when you're tired > stop cancelling last minute > host at your place > drive your friends to the airport > support the wins & losses it's worth every ounce of effort!!

I only really like a nigga once every 2 years. So I’m out of likes until 2028

Wish you studied me the way I studied you

Sigh I love flowers

This type of energy>>>>>>>>

there’s a lot of layers to this but a major aspect of Jules is that her trauma makes her perceive love as forceful and conquering. Rue’s hesitation and shyness have felt like rejection or lack of desire to her.

you cannot see your reflection in boiling water. similarly, you cannot see the truth in a state of anger. when the waters calm, clarity comes.

prime situationship age lowkey

any stud who in they “i wanna be treated like a princess too” era don’t need to be in my dms #notdoingit

When you’ve experienced both at such a vulnerable time in your life, you quickly come to realize how important it is to have grace towards yourself while you’re navigating the turbulence of life. Both teach you a lesson but it depends which one you let propel you or hinder you.

girlhood

I’ve tasted crawling back to an ex, and I’ve tasted fighting to save a dying relationship. Skip both. Focus on your career, pray to God every day, and be asleep before 8PM.

I'll clap for others until it's my turn.

Cause I don’t wanna hear all that my ex shit

Stop dating while still grieving the last relationship.

There’s no perfect partner. But there’s a kind and considerate partner, and that’s just about it.

I just start spending immediately ngl

Now I understand why the old, old man said, "Trust the overthinker who says they love you. By now, they've thought of every possible reason not to, every doubt, every fear, every scenario where it could all go wrong—and yet, despite all of that, they still chose to stay." Because loving someone deeply isn’t just about the easy moments. It’s about staying when your mind screams to run, when every logical thought points to leaving, when your heart and head are at war. Overthinkers weigh every risk, calculate every outcome, and question every feeling—but when they commit, it’s a love that’s intentional, tested, and real. They stay because they’ve already fought all the battles inside themselves, and they still choose you. That kind of love is rare, and it’s worth holding onto.

I really want black people to stop thinking everyone should be business owners. Just because I can make dinner does NOT mean I should open a food truck or restaurant.

i’m emotionally exhausted from always trying to understand everyone.