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UteChap

@UteChap

Husband to @MrsUteChap. Dad to 2 boys.

Mentally in Moab Katılım Eylül 2010
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Kyle Harrison
Kyle Harrison@kwharrison13·
There is no greater joy in my life than absolutely launching my children into a couch.
Adam Lane Smith | The Attachment Specialist@AdamLaneSmith

New research indicates that fathers build bonds best with their children (and craft secure attachment in them) by "destablizing the child" in a "safe environment. Fathers in the study had a unique ability to make their children laugh and therefore create more perceived safety for the child which led to stronger attachment. Mothers made children feel safe too, usually with repetition and soothing, but the laughing and playing did not make the children as attached as it did when fathers performed it. Several things jump out from this at me: First, a father who is relaxed enough to laugh and play indicates a safe environment. Fathers are biologically the providers of safety, so if dad is relaxed, the world must truly be safe. Children may be picking up on this. Second, being worthy of a father's time and attention is a huge marker for kids. A father's attention may actually mean more in many cases, as we've seen in other studies. The bond with mom is equally as important, but sometimes the bond with mom is taken for granted, where the bond with dad is taken as remarkable due to perceived other demands on his time. What this means: Dads, you've got to be playing with your kids. As silly and disruptive as possible. They need this from you. It's one of the strongest ways they can bond to you. More about the research: psypost.org/laughter-plays…

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Paul Putz
Paul Putz@p_emory·
In grad school when I began reading critical sports studies scholarship, I became skeptical of claims like this from Seth Davis. Many scholars I read saw sports as either a symptom or a cover for all that is wrong in society. They rejected the idea that sports could bring people together in a positive way. There was always a nefarious purpose operating behind the scenes. And for a brief time, I moved in that direction too. But the more I’ve studied sports, the more I’ve come to have a deeper appreciation for sports and its place in society. It’s not that sports are perfect or that they can solve every problem. They can’t fix the serious challenges and divisions we face. There are clear limits. But while sports can’t do everything, they can do something—and I think that “something” is more important now than ever before. They are a space where the full range of human emotions, from joy to sorrow, can be experienced in a collective way. They are a space where community is enacted and formed, where people from a variety of backgrounds and identities actually share a common experience and a common story. They are an embodied activity highlighting and celebrating human creativity and possibility. All of that was on display in the Nebraska / Vandy game last night. And it’s why I still believe that, for all of the imperfections, sports still offer us something beautiful and human and real. It’s why I think this is exactly right:
Seth Davis@SethDavisHoops

That game is what sports is all about. It's why networks and streaming services pay so much to broadcast the games. So pure! So real! So joyful! Sports is one of the last things we have that truly brings people together. The happiness on those players and fans' faces! Rejoice!

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UteChap@UteChap·
@SchwarzAdam Cayenne’s are sick! They just come with a lot more risk reward. For an every day driver the R1S was a fantastic call.
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Adam Schwarz
Adam Schwarz@SchwarzAdam·
@UteChap Most pro answer in history. I did almost get a cayenne instead. The oil change cost gets me every time. 😂😂
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Adam Schwarz
Adam Schwarz@SchwarzAdam·
@UteChap bought a Rivian R1S on Friday. After a couple of days and more than a few miles- I love it. More than my Tesla Model S. This thing has quad motors and 835 HP. 0-60 in 3.2. Barely slower than my Plaid model S. Insane air suspension too.
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UteChap@UteChap·
@SchwarzAdam Just hard to beat when you want something to do it all. Not to mention they’re great looking. Glad you got you something you love! It makes ownership so much more enjoyable.
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UteChap@UteChap·
@SchwarzAdam Awesome! Im not surprised at all. I always think back to Doug Demuro naming it his car of the year a couple years back because it simply is the closest car in automotive history to giving you everything. Comfort, efficiency, low maintenance, power, speed, off road capability, etc
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Mark O'Neill
Mark O'Neill@markjohnoneill·
@de_havas It’s a properly lovely car and only covered 19k miles.
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UteChap
UteChap@UteChap·
12 years ago today I married @MrsUteChap. Every good thing I have in my life came from that decision.
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Giga Based Dad
Giga Based Dad@GigaBasedDad·
He finally figured it out
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Sahil Bloom
Sahil Bloom@SahilBloom·
It's Friday and my parents are coming over to hang out. They'll play with my son. We'll have dinner. I'll sauna with my dad. I wish someone had told me sooner: Nothing improves quality of life more than proximity to people you love. It’s worth more than any job will ever pay you.
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UteChap@UteChap·
I relish every time I get to grab my son in the middle of the night and put him in our bed in between me and my wife. Happens every night and there’s not a thing I’d trade it for.
Mr. Star Spangled MAGA@4thOfJuly365

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Keith Humphreys
Keith Humphreys@KeithNHumphreys·
It's really okay to marry someone, stick with them, and raise kids together. No journalist will write an edgy magazine piece about your lifestyle, but you'll have a great shot at a fulfilling and meaningful life.
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UteChap@UteChap·
I have three cars, each with an average of 150k miles(!) and over 18 years old(!) as well as one of the tiniest camp trailers you can buy and as it currently stands in Q1 I owe/paid $890 in just registration state tax to operate them this year. This is highway robbery.
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UteChap@UteChap·
@itschappy I turned mine on simply to make sure it works. I’m at 29 years old for my HVAC unit so I’m just a dead man walking. Miraculously it still turned on. Just keeps pumping.
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Chappy 🇧🇷
Chappy 🇧🇷@itschappy·
I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March. I will not turn the AC on in March.
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Carrie Severino
Carrie Severino@JCNSeverino·
⁨Families are a true gift to society, and embracing pro-family policies sends a strong message to future generations that the sacrifice of raising children is worth it. Allowing families to flourish should be at the forefront of our minds. Thanks for having me, @Heritage!⁩
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Justin Baker
Justin Baker@JustinBakerLife·
@UteChap If you ever come down to St George, let me know and I'll take you on a ride. 🤣
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Justin Baker
Justin Baker@JustinBakerLife·
Happy St Patrick's Day!
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De Christian Life
De Christian Life@DeChristianLife·
What goes into being lucky?
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UteChap@UteChap·
I’m always shocked in the workplace when I tell somebody something is simple and not easy and somehow they are completely lost on how those two things are different.
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UteChap@UteChap·
Every single night my five year old falls asleep with his head on my stomach in his bed. Of course tonight as I type this. “He who has a why to live can bear almost any how.” -Friedrich Nietzsche
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