
James Clary
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James Clary
@VirginiaJim
Math and History teacher living in RVA





What happened in the 1550s when the government capped the price of fish. Sneak peek from my book draft.



50% of all relationship advice on Reddit is “leave.” 15 years of data, 52 million comments, and the trend line only goes one direction. A researcher filtered r/relationship_advice down to 1,166,592 quality comments and tracked what people actually recommend. In 2010, “End Relationship” sat around 30%. By 2025, it’s approaching 50%. “Communicate” dropped from 22% to 14%. “Compromise” collapsed from 7% to 3%. “Give Space” fell from 25% to 13%. Every category that requires patience lost ground every single year. The one category growing faster than “leave” is “Seek Therapy,” which went from 1% to 6%. The subreddit is slowly learning to say “this is above my pay grade.” Train a model on this dataset and it would absolutely tell people to break up. The training data is 50% “leave” and climbing. The model wouldn’t be broken. It would be accurately reflecting what 52 million commenters actually believe about your relationship. A 50% prior that you should leave, a 14% prior that you should talk about it, and a 6% prior that you need a professional. That’s not LLM psychosis. That’s the median human opinion on your relationship, backed by the largest advice dataset ever assembled.

Hate to break it to you guys but sometimes you have to do things you don’t like for the sake of having a community. Avoiding consistency with the people in your life is working against us and the data already shows it. If you think connections can be sustained on absence carry on



A ton of US bases are co-located in large urban areas. Does that give other countries (mostly 2) the right to nuke Miami & Los Angeles?



You won't like to hear this, but Saxon was the first math program that helped my struggling math student. It's not flashy, it's not colorful. It is slow, practice-heavy, procedural program. And it works.


What’s the one decision you’d reverse immediately from your team?



An idea I’m implementing in my life: The 1-6-4 Method. Popularized by entrepreneur and author Jesse Itzler, it’s a foolproof way to make sure you always have fun planned throughout the year. 1. Plan one big “year-making” event This is inspired by the Japanese concept of Misogi (a challenging annual endeavor). Pick one massive defining challenge or event for the year that pushes you to grow past your limits: • A long endurance event (like a marathon) • A big personal project (like finally starting that side business) • Something transformative (like a multi-day solo backpacking trip) This’ll act as the anchor for your year. 2. Schedule 6 mini-adventures for every other month Lock in one small, exciting experience every other month (6 per year): • Going camping at a national park • Traveling on vacation to a place you’ve never been • Attending a music festival where your favorite artist is performing • Hosting a group of friends for a dinner party and game night • Explore a new part of your city that you’ve always wanted to visit 3. Implement a winning habit every quarter Add one positive, compounding habit every 3 months (4 per year). It could be drinking more water, walking 10k steps per day, meditating, being on time, or any small routine that improves your life. These are your building blocks for long-term growth. — We’ve become bad at leisure. The digital world isn’t bringing as much joy to our lives. Having alternative choices (using the 1-6-4 Method) to look forward to throughout the year makes life so much more enjoyable. And remember: Put these on your calendar so they actually happen rather than staying as ideas. Cheers to more joy this year and beyond. 🥂 ♻️ Retweet to share this with your network. ➕ Follow @SystemSunday for more content like this.


They were digging a metro in Naples and accidentally found three Roman ships
















