World Wingman

Dating abroad is much better than dating in the west. But. To have a high volume of good looking girls or to find a girlfriend anywhere, you'll still need to be working on yourself, have game and have a system- but the ROI is usually much better abroad. What's worked well for me: -Working on myself no matter where I'm living -Staying in shape -Getting top tier, professional photos for dating apps and IG, and knowing how to mix in real life approaches -Screening for medium-high and high interest girls early and screening out low interest and timewasters fast -Going to dating markets where your value goes further -Developing a system and optimizing it And no, I don't pay prostitutes or simp and you don't need to either. Also, the majority of girls abroad are not desperate to leave their country or looking for a green card. The difference is your results will be even better than the West and the interactions will usually be with more feminine and receptive women. The photos below are some of my highlights from living and dating abroad- not to brag, but it's to show I'm not faking it and to show what's possible. If you do the work, improve your looks, get the right photos, and develop your game and personality, you'll almost certainly do well and your effort is rewarded more abroad. In my posts I share actionable, no BS game strategy and tips from my real world experience. Cheers!

@CleansedTweets That line is for the lemmings who aren't in the know 😏

The time to visit #Thailand 10–20-30 years ago. Now it’s like trying to join the best party… after they already called last orders and turned off the lights. Bangkok Airport Immigration Queue ⬇️

I am 100% stealing this hahahahha. 4D chess move!

@FrenchOG3 💯💪🏻

@WorldWingman Was good fun, noting that for the future

#28 Special Guest Edition: Dating Abroad From Lima to Manila with @WorldWingman Video: youtube.com/watch?v=0mLau4… 1) Dating success is not just skill—it’s positioning, environment, and calibration. 2) The same man gets radically different results depending on the country. 3) A small increase in your relative rank (top 10% → top 5%) changes everything. 4) Dating apps are skewed: photos decide, and a minority of men dominate. 5) In the West, small mistakes kill attraction; elsewhere, you get margin for error. 6) Women read social cues and neediness far better than most men think. 7) Hot women don’t want admiration: they want non-reactive behaviour. 8) Chemistry and vibe matter more than pure looks in real outcomes. 9) High-level dating is about selection, not chasing or “closing everything.” 10) Everything is a trade-off: better lifestyle = more competition, easier dating = fewer perks.

Great chatting with FrenchOG on game and dating around the world. Watch below 👇🏻

@LOVEBOMB304 Well said man. Game recognizes game!

@WorldWingman 100%, did exactly this in Vietnam. Can confirm it works very well. Convert rate much higher on 2nd date than 1st in these markets

2 date model is a solid play when you sense a girl is genuinely conservative and won't close quickly or you're in a slower burn dating market like Vietnam, Ukraine, etc. Here's what I've found works well: Date1: quick 45min coffee date. Sit next to her, focus mostly on building comfort, still touch her a bit. Do not try to kiss her. The key here is you end the date first. "Been great seeing you, I gotta run but we'll catch up soon". Date2: drinks and pull at the end.

Sometimes w certain girls/countries it's just better strategy to run 2 dates vs frustrating yourself and striking out on most of the 1st ones. I will say I'm usually a guy who goes for the close fast. 2 date model is a bit unnatural for me but it's a good tool to have in your arsenal at times

@WorldWingman I never ever end the date first unless I genuinely have to be somewhere. I try to build as much rapport as possible. Am I leaving points on the table?

@aruvinchan Good idea. Just made a post on it. Cheers

Maybe this is where guys like Wingman got the idea for a 2-date close. Any comments? @WorldWingman

This is why some guys have developed a 2-date model. Get the 1st date out of the way with a very short and simple coffee date. Then plan the 2nd date correctly with logistics leading to sex. All because women have this dumb slut clock in their mind: Sex on 1st date, slutty as hell. Sex on 2nd date, okay.

@FWPlayboy Cheers brotha

@WorldWingman THIS is GOOD stuff Brother.

I went on 2 dates last night and they were completely different than each other. The first date I went to a chill rooftop with a 7/10 and she shows up dressed very elegant and conservative. Quite feminine girl. My guess is she had a low body count from reading her vibe and talking. Anyway, almost ZERO chemistry together. She was very reserved, there were multiple 10-15 second silences(extremely rare for dates as I'm talkative and extroverted and flirty- I was also slightly lower energy than usual), she wouldn't touch me at all, it's like she just had a boring personality and was very logical, rule based on dating and not a fun, interesting personality. I ended the date respectfully 30min in, and left first. Probably a LTR material chick, but very very boring. No spiciness at all even if she's a bit of a slightly slower burn type usually. I have another girl lined up for later. Girl 2 shows up, we meet outside my building and walk to a bar to play pool and drink(usually the girl ends up watching me play 2 or 3 games w other people and me and her just drink a bit and a talk). The vibe is instantly better within the first 15 seconds of saying hi. She obviously wasn't rule based and was open to chemistry unfolding. We also had a good energy. We go back to my place and have a great night. ------- Lessons: -Dont be afraid to "cut your losses" quickly, within 30min, if you don't sense a connection/vibe with a girl. If it's a really lame date, bounce. -If you're good at reading people the first 20 seconds with a girl will usually tell you everything. -The power of volume. Having multiple dates stacked in one night a couple/few hours apart can be the difference between a lame evening where you wish you were alone or with friends vs a great date you truly enjoy. -Even if you have good game, you just won't "click" with some girls. -The best dates are when you invite a girl to join what YOU enjoy doing and the places YOU enjoy most. Nothing wrong with a rooftop drink, but I enjoy the relaxed energy of a normal bar that has a pool table more. -Girls usually pre-decide before the date and a bit within the first 20 seconds if she's willing to let the chemistry flow or not.

@Trajan230970 Facts!

@WorldWingman Big point: First date you weren't feeling it and ended it. Most guys would force it and game her to get her validation. Maybe even get it with a kiss or a "good night" back at your place. Then move on. Evolve past the validation seeking. It's liberating

@cato_porci16524 Who said I wasn't touching her 😏

@WorldWingman You were waiting for the first girl to touch you. Should've touched her first. You need to put in the work at the beginning to melt this type (eastern european girls are like this) but theyre quite passionate once you do

@aruvinchan Exactly! Game recognizes game

@WorldWingman Yup, chemistry is everything. The sex alone or even primarily isn't going to be how you're going to imprint her anyway. It's all about how you make her feel, and the sex is only a small part of that, dare I say.

Good points. Some lessons I've learned from my own experience: Even with hos, the emotional connection/chemistry together is the most important factor. Physical sexual skill is only 10-20% of it. Guys get too hung up on this. As long as you are decent in bed, it's more about how you actually connect with the girl.

@whatsinitforme Haven't been to Saigon yet. But I've been to Danang and while it definitely wasn't impossible, it was NOT easy. 2 date model is the way to go. And go to a larger city. Girls can make for good girlfriends there if you're open to that

I am now in Manila, Philippines and it's different with dating than in Bangkok. Bangkok: -A lot more young, put together white guys passing thru or living there. Competition isn't the west, but it's not a complete cakewalk -Older population average age. Average Thai is like 38. Much fewer 18-23 girls on apps. Most of the girls you get will be 26+. -Harder to find more innocent types(can be done but not easy) -Girls are more punctual and don't flake that much -Girls are a bit more demure and reserved but some have really fun, playful personalities Manila: -Girls are MUCH spicier, more flirty and more expressive (due to Catholic culture, Spanish past/Latin blood, etc) -Much better English levels -Infastructure and quality of life can be ok in parts but much lower than Bangkok -You can get 18-23 age range at almost any age as a guy -Your SMV is sky high, especially as a put together guy with good photos -Can find girls for something more casual and for a serious relationship without issues -Girls are very touchy on dates and will often escalate on you first -ASD can be very high at times. Best to just keep it chill and meet up and escalate then, many girls will screen you hard but most of it is smoke and mirrors and cultural programming. In person they are almost always still open and expressive and fun to be around

@potlimitpilot Nice! Day game definitely works well in Bangkok. I'm mostly online but I do day game as well a bit and the "conversions" (lol) have always been good

@WorldWingman Were you only using dating apps in Bangkok? I approach during the day and fucking ANNIHILATE

@ted755680361192 I've done quite well in Bangkok(never struggled there at all). Manila is just another couple notches easier

@WorldWingman In Philippines they are after your green card or whatever shit country you came from. Bangkok girls are awesome, most have good jobs working for international companies and are generally fun to be with. It sounds like you couldn't even make it a low effort city like Bangkok. Sad.

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@WorldWingman i’ll be in manila next month too let’s see what i find since it’ll be my first time there i’d love to hear any recommendations

I know this is gonna sound crazy but I've found a slightly different experience. I see a mixed bag in Thailand. Guys with ugly chicks, plenty of guys with 6s and 7s(mostly simping or paying to some degree though from the vibe I pick up) though as well. In Philippines I've seen older guys with younger girls much more. But haven't seen many guys at all with girls above what I'd call a 6.5. Perhaps I need a bit more time in Manila to get a better read.

@WorldWingman Same experience, have you noticed how awful the average Thai woman / western guy looks match couple is? The Thai girl is usually fucking hideous. In Manila, you see guys dating up a few points. These Bangkok copers will never accept Thailand is over for civilian dating