World Wingman

Dating abroad is much better than dating in the west. But. To have a high volume of good looking girls or to find a girlfriend anywhere, you'll still need to be working on yourself, have game and have a system- but the ROI is usually much better abroad. What's worked well for me: -Working on myself no matter where I'm living -Staying in shape -Getting top tier, professional photos for dating apps and IG, and knowing how to mix in real life approaches -Screening for medium-high and high interest girls early and screening out low interest and timewasters fast -Going to dating markets where your value goes further -Developing a system and optimizing it And no, I don't pay prostitutes or simp and you don't need to either. Also, the majority of girls abroad are not desperate to leave their country or looking for a green card. The difference is your results will be even better than the West and the interactions will usually be with more feminine and receptive women. The photos below are some of my highlights from living and dating abroad- not to brag, but it's to show I'm not faking it and to show what's possible. If you do the work, improve your looks, get the right photos, and develop your game and personality, you'll almost certainly do well and your effort is rewarded more abroad. In my posts I share actionable, no BS game strategy and tips from my real world experience. Cheers!

@DongMcgee55 All depends if you want to screen for interest a bit vs playing it a bit safer and warming the idea up a bit more over text. I usually prefer the previous but both work. Just slightly different game styles

@WorldWingman That real game guy (he blocked me…pretty soft) says that asking to get drinks/hang out instead of just asking for number/IG can derail the interaction all on its own. I’d never thought about that before. What do you think?

Daygame tips: -When you get a girl's number, write down her name and 1-2 things from your convo in your phone notes. Now you have some material/call back humor etc you can use and you don't forget her/the approach -Approaching as it comes up naturally in your day to day life is better than dedicated cold approach sessions- but both work -After you get 2 numbers or so in a row, you'll get into "flow state" and feel unstoppable/in the zone for about 45min. Use this to do more approaches -Suggest meeting for a drink before taking down her number. Note her split second reaction. If she hesitates even for a flash of a second, 90%+ chance it won't go anywhere -Say "great, put your number in" and motion to your phone. Don't ask -If you get approach anxiety or nerves, don't sweat it. Happens even to me sometimes. Don't use this as a crutch, but having a beer or two before approaching can settle your nerves a bit -Dont get into a mindset where you always have to be approaching and where you beat yourself up if you miss an approach or hesitate sometimes -Approaching after the gym and a fresh shower is a great natural endorphin rush

@aruvinchan Goodness gracious I feel his frustration, but you can't do the dinner date before sex. Fuck first, then eat. Not the other way around.

This is why you NEVER ask a girl out to dinner for the first date. I've been hammering home "house dates" for years now, but FINE, you homos aren't ready. But at least do drinks then so you can screen out the foodie callers. Jesus Christ guys...

@cielo_pua Nope but still 100% relevant. But I would advice against using the AI section now

@WorldWingman Did you update the book? I bought when you first released it

A few changes on how to use your photos for dating apps: -Add 1-2 good selfies of yourself that aren't overly professional (reduces AI objections) -Dont use AI in your photos in 2026 (I've leaned away from this) -Professional photos from a real photoshoot are still the way to go. But try to make them more about you doing what you enjoy and in your environment, not purely staged portrait photos obviously made just for dating apps -Remember to use light FaceApp for your photos- only a bit. Don't overdo it and catfish or make the edits look obviously fake -Add 1-2 photos clearly in your city for social proof and to show you're actually real and there

Great observation. Another good reason to get long term visas/residency/passports in other countries. Another downfall, is if you're open to a relationship and you're 90 days or whatever is up and you have to leave. Something to think about

A huge bunch of BS I see how guys think of dating is that women are always going for "Chad" and going for alphas. Tons of girls, especially in the west, go for the "emotionally safe" golden retriever type guy that they can control. A "trophy boyfriend" type that's a likeable guy but doesn't really know his value, doesn't demand much and is always there, often times like a puppy dog. Now these guys usually wouldn't clean up of they were single, but my point is, dont assume all the women are going for alphas while other guys arent getting any. A lot of women, especially white western women, dont want an "alpha" male type

@AposematicHate Exactly, day game is a huge equalizer

@WorldWingman I used to be 5'8 (health issues, now a bit shorter) and my only concern was taller than me. A lot of women set that as an arbitrary and often stupid number as it makes filtering on dating apps easier. Face to face shorter dudes have more success if they have charm.

I've been saying this exact thing for a long time. A 5' tall chick should have no issue with a 5'7 or 5'8 guy- that's significantly taller than her. She's absolutely trying to cancel off her own short genetics by "only" dating tall guys. Very unrealistic standards. And as a guy, remember this. If you're 6' and about to seriously date a 5' chick, good chance your son won't be above 5'9. I see this stuff even in Asia. Some 5' tall chick will ask me how tall I am. They have this big relief when they find out I'm 180(5'11), but I think in the back of my head "bitch, you're 5'1. You should be happy with almost any guys height"

@LazyN0mad Facts!

@WorldWingman yeah, that's what I keep saying, all countries around SEA has their own advantages and disadvantages

Thailand vs Philippines… Unpopular take 👇 Thailand is optimized. Easy. Predictable. Almost too polished. Philippines? Messier. Slower. But way more personal. One feels like a system. The other feels like real interaction. Most people choose Thailand first… but some never leave the Philippines after trying it. Which side are you on? 👀 #ThailandNightlife #PhilippinesNightlife #LazyNomad

@wilson911021 From my experience, they're all just a little bit fake looking and you can tell they're AI. Don't want too many girls to be thinking you're fake. I've also seen a lot of girls using AI pics now and it's a bit disingenuous

@WorldWingman Mind elaborating on don’t use AI in photos ? With adjustments you can still get realistic pics with AI in my experience

@aruvinchan It's also a big thing in Bangkok, Thailand. People constantly going out and posting their nights out. Just keep doing you. A couple nights in by yourself, cooking a nice meal or watching a show is a great reset

I don't know if this is a Europe, Spain, or Barcelona thing. But there's actually strong social pressure here to constantly show that you're "living the life." It's very similar to the "keeping up with the Joneses" or flexing culture in the US. Except instead of comparing homes, cars, job titles, and trophy wives, you're comparing vacations and nights out via Instagram stories, reels, and photo albums. I often feel compelled to do certain things that I don't really care for. Just so that I won't be the idiot who, when people ask what I did all weekend or summer, says, "Not much. I just chilled at home." Is it really such a crime to do nothing? I actually enjoy my home, my Netflix, my cooking at home, and my not going anywhere just because it's a long weekend, the summer, or whatever stupid public holiday. My home is actually very comfortable. But no, "I must" pack my entire summer with as many activities and trips as possible, otherwise I'm letting life pass me by! I'm so sick of this FOMO culture, and I'm actually starting to embrace JOMO culture (joy of missing out). Almost like an act of protest against this "hedonism for its own sake" mentality that many people in Europe seem to have.

All my tips for getting good pics, doing photoshoots, what types of photos to NOT use, etc. wingmanworld.gumroad.com/l/photogame

@BradleyGrey_ Yep, as long as the body count isn't too high, I'd agree

@WorldWingman Exactly I'd rather deal with a girl whose had the occasional casual hookup or fwb than the one who went through a traumatic breakup after 5 years when the love of her life cheated on her with her best friend.

Excessive casual sex absolutely damages girls (and in some much lesser ways, can with guys too). But I agree with the macro point here. Bad breakups (being cheated on, alpha widowed, toxic relationships, etc) cause girls to have a lot of trauma. If you're going to keep seeing a girl, it's good to get a read of her relationship past. -How long she's been single for -Does she miss/still have feelings for the guy -How they broke up Etc etc. A woman who's been cheated on a bunch and kicked to the curb by multiple guys will usually be harder to have a healthy relationship with.

@BradleyGrey_ 💯

Hyper masculinity is overrated. Too many guys think being dominant, serious, and intimidating is what attracts women. Sometimes. But it’s a limited game. The most magnetic men I’ve seen in the field are fun, free, and expressive. They smile. They dance. They’re the life of the room. And they’re also grounded, confident, and masculine underneath all of it. That combination is unstoppable. Get on the dance floor. Stop taking yourself so seriously. Let yourself be a little ridiculous. You’ll pull more women being genuinely alive than you ever will being aggressively alpha.

@AugustLapine Largely agree. Good post!

Dating Filipinas vs Brazilian women • In Brazil you aren't competing with other foreigners, you are competing with Brazilian men. The most romantically aggressive dudes on the planet who are good looking, speak the language, and have been doing this since they were 12 • If you don't have tan skin, dark features, and a ton of tattoo's / piercings you aren't meta there • Dating app usage in Rio/SP is EXTREMELY low compared to cities with similar populations • Ph has highest dating app usage in the world (our data supports this), if you are even decent looking you'll open bumble to 2k+ likes • Filipinas are family-oriented in a way that means you get fed dinner, not audited for assets • If you take care of yourself you'll have access to the top 10% of attractive Filipinas, in Brazil you'll never have a chance with that group Stop making things so hard for yourself

@tom839027438r71 You'll love it. Going during the low season was a smart call

@WorldWingman sounds good im heading out to asia this summer really cant wait!!!

Since being back in Asia, I've closed 30 out of 36 1st dates I've been on. That's an elite close rate and I attribute it mostly for one main thing: Screen game. I screen girls before I meet them to see how open/DTF they are and I have 2 main screens I use with almost every girl. 1)The curfew screen A couple hours before the date, once we're already confirmed, I ask them in a light way if they have a curfew for the night. Good responses: "Nope haha" "I have all night, no curfew ☺️" Meh responses (sometimes I'll screen these types harder at this point and am okay losing some leads): "Why do u ask?" "What do u mean? 🤔" "Umm. It depends. Why?" Bad responses (I'll usually just cancel the date if I get one of these): "I have work early in the morning so I can't stay long" "We're just getting to know each other. I have until 9pm" (ie- the date is for 6 or 7) "I have my friend's bday after haha" The beauty of the curfew screen is that it basically gives you a good insight into how open/DTF she is without showing your cards completely or raising her ASD. --- Then the next screen I'll sometimes stack on, while she's getting ready, is the sexual screen. "Are u ready for a fun night? 😈" When you send it as they're getting ready, it raises the chances they say yes since they're already 'bought in' and more invested. I usually only use this screen if I have 2+ girls confirmed for the same time and I get a positive response first from one girl before sending to the next girl- if you don't do that, you can risk shooting your own dick off for the night and having no dates if they both say no. From my experience, about 50% of girls are cool with this screen. Many will question it slightly or want clarification, but then pass if you stick to your guns without explicitly saying you're wanting to fuck them. Sometimes I'll still use this screen even if I have 1 date planned for the night, if I don't really care that much about investing the energy into a date that night unless she's super DTF. ------ I also have solid date game from going on 400+ 1st dates in my life, so that helps a lot too. But I've noticed my close rate has gone noticeably up since implementing these screens. Sure, you'll "lose" some girls from doing this (with the hottest ones generally better to play it a bit safer and not screen too hard) but you'll also save a massive amount of time, and most of all the annoyance when sometimes you'll get a girl back to your place and she blue ballses you.

@aruvinchan Definitely do sometimes, as long as you're willing to throw the lead away (which guys should be able to). Well said brother!

@WorldWingman Yeah, because she's not playing ball like an obedient little lead, so you just have to push her further. I'd imagine you need to be more explicit or direct to force her to take a position. Good stuff.