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@Yk__Mariam
🧕🏾/REALIST | Financial advisor/Insurance | introvert | I love reading📚| kdramafangirl/I don’t believe in zodiac signs
Katılım Mayıs 2024
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Why do most married women don't post their husbands but only their kids.
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@ButterBibi I disagree o, I don’t think a lady earning 100k should get married too, except she’s getting married to an odogwu, it’s not even enough to Take care of one person now imagine parents siblings and extended families.
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If he is hardworking
You both can grow together and build wealth
Ifediche@esther_stan
Guys get mind oh . You dey earn 100k dey find wife . Wife to do what?
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@Toniatuslim They’d rather have their sons be rapists, Terrorist, kidnappers, armed robbers and fraudsters than Have daughter who smokes.
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Whenever women dress indecently, twerk online, smoke, or have their nudes mistakenly leaked online, men will rush to say, “ to born girl, they fear me,” “I pity who will marry this one,” and all sorts of nonsense.
But when it comes to femicide, rape, armed robbery, and all the evil abominable things men do, many of you suddenly go silent.
How does a lady who twerks online without hurting anyone become worse than a man who harms, steals, or violates women? Society always has energy to police women, but no energy to confront dangerous men.
Seunfunmi T. Fash@Seunfunmi_mi
I pity guys that will marry all these girls born from year 2000 upward.
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@ThatJuDaH @Dr_statesman Nope, i was given malaria medicine even tho i tested negative for it, and was asked to manage my stress and hydrate well, I got a little bit better after but I’m not completely fine 😥
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@Yk__Mariam @Dr_statesman Yeah, I totally get you.
I hope you got to find out what was wrong?
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Why is it that when most Nigerian do test in the hospital and you tell them the result is normal, they get sad? Like, guy, because you spend money, you want to find one sickness by all means?
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@silvanus_03 After you’re done cleaning his semen from your mouth
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Well I hope you know your female children won’t be spared from thought processes like this 🤝
Arojinle@arojinle1
In most cases (not saying that's her own case), salvaged cars get refurbished in order to find new owners. IYKYK.
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Who is feeding you people this divorce information? You people thrive on bad news.
big_tiphe✨@tiphe_j
The way women glow up after a divorce is mind-blowing.
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@homowasanjor The one where he said the man that gave birth to him failed as a father?
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@IbnLMubarak A lot of children actually look like their fathers, fathers should make sure they aren’t ugly too
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@MedicToriq @udeochusp Not the kind of impression i would look forward to, but anyways 😂😂
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@Yk__Mariam @udeochusp You have impressions now 🥲
Congratulations🎉🥳
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@udeochusp @MedicToriq I don’t defend women blindly, the lady in question didn’t even harm anyone. All she did was post a picture of herself and she got compared to cars
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@Yk__Mariam @MedicToriq You people defend everything women do .. even when they are wrong
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@MedicToriq It’s actually a pattern Toriq, it happens here a lot of times, it’s really sad, slut shaming divorced women, and to think he’s one of the accounts I respected here. Comparing women to a car forgetting he’ll also have grown women in his house one day.
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@Yk__Mariam You're taking it personal 🥲
He said in "most cases"
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@MedicToriq @Yk__Mariam No mind her.
Everything is always about them.
Brokenness is a terrible thing.
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@ThatJuDaH @Dr_statesman This is it💯, cus I had this experience last month, I just want to know Whats wrong with me and get the necessary help I need 🤦♀️
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@Dr_statesman They want the relief of finally knowing what's wrong so it can be treated
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@MedicToriq He thinks it’s ok to compare women to objects without knowing their story it’s totally unfair to women who actually struggled before they found the courage to get a divorce. It’s all fun and games until it happens to someone close to him.
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@OgbeniAyoola @SEN_OLUBASH Alhamdulilah, congratulations to you and your family, may almighty Allah perfect her healing
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A day to her surgery, they came to take consent from me as husband and it was the most difficult signature I’ve ever signed.
I was told due to the nature of the surgery, she could go blind, mentally impaired, stroke, and ultimately, death. Due to the location of the aneurysm.
That was the moment everything came rushing, strong man shook! When we were told the many millions of Naira that will be required for the surgery, I was not that shaken but when those things were listed and I was asked to sign, my hand became heavy, my legs were numb and I was almost brought to tears.
It was as if I was signing my wife’s death warrant. Because everything had been left to the hands of Allāh. I signed and went to a corner of my car later that night to reflect, cry, sob, pray and ask Allāh to grant us victory —indeed, it was a war!
The night to the surgery was longer than ever. I couldn’t sleep. I was counting the minutes, ut was excruciating.
More excruciating was the next 12 hours. She was wheeled to the theatre past 7 am in the morning for some anaesthetic preparation and into the neurosurgery main theatre around past 9 am.
The next 12 hours were horrid. They’d come out again to say I should go pay for them to get more Propofol. I was just praying. At a point, I couldn’t feel my legs. They were numb and immobile. It was hard.
After 9pm, surgery was over and I was still at the masjid where I went to observe my Ishai prayer when my MIL called me that the surgeons were out of the theatre and it was a successful surgery.
I screamed in my mind and fell to my knees. I was surrounded by my brothers. They stood with me and we ran down to the theatre.
When we got there, we were informed that she had been moved to the ICU where she would spend the next three days for adequate monitoring and evaluation in any case of emergency.
All I’d say is AlhamduliLlah. Tens of millions later, Allah accepted our prayers and the surgery was a success. AlhamduliLlah.
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Fatteh Hamid, MON@OgbeniAyoola
Few weeks ago, my wife underwent a 12 hours brain surgery (craniotomy +clipping of aneurysm) after being diagnosed with cerebral aneurysm months earlier. Longest 12 hours of my life, standing outside that theatre, not knowing what to expect. And it started with a mere headache. These past months have been the most psychologically, mentally, emotionally, and financially challenging, and exhausting months in all my years. Be thankful if you don’t have any health issues to deal with. You don’t know what Allah is saving you from. I almost ran mad. She complained of headache, saying it was the most painful headache shes ever had. I brought out paracetamol and gave her to take. Before I got back, she could no longer turn her neck, it was stiff. She could no longer move her head up and down, nor sideways. Amidst that confusion, she started vomiting. All of these, happening in split seconds, at midnight. I was confused. I opened all windows hurriedly, thinking maybe she needed air; no, she was almost dying and I just was confused. Ran to the third room to get small bucket and she was still vomiting. I carried her bare in my hands outside to the main door of the house believing she needed more air and she calmed down. And said she felt better. Suddenly, she started feeling it again and what we thought was a jinn attack. We were both reciting ayat qursiyy and amana rasul in accordance with the sunnah when jinn strikes. She was able to also recite it through so we knew it wasn’t a spiritual attack. But no, the headache was persistent and she could no longer move her head. This time, she had vomited for the second time and we just sat there at the door. A few minutes later, she was calm and relaxed. Felt she was okay to go back inside and we did. By now, it was around past 1am midnight and immediately she lay down, the headache came back, she had to turn around different ways before she could find a comfortable position. It wasn’t up to 30 minutes that she shouted from her sleep complaining about the pain from the headache again. Omo! I hurriedly carried her in my hands and placed her inside the car (this is the day I’m most grateful I owned a car). Drove her to the hospital and got there around past 2 am. It was hell. I’d told my friend and neighbor to please help move our son, Unays, to their flat due to the emergency before driving out. I’m not sure I’ve accelerated with a car with that speed I used that morning. Got there and she was stabilised by the doctors and nurses at the emergency. She was tend to and around 4 am, she had completely slept off. 1/5
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