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@elonmusk The weird thing about modern life is that one of the wealthiest men on Earth (Elon) spends his free time shit posting in the digital town square he personally purchased. Its so surreal.

Chris Nolan desecrated the Odyssey so that he would be eligible for an Academy Award …

@rikkipramheda Oh gosh! You are in the thick of it 😩 just know it definitely gets better! Some days are still hard, but for the most part it DOES get easier (: you got this!💜

@anemonemalee I’m glad I’m not the only one lol I feel so mean but I’m not exaggerating that extreme sensitivity and pain rn, only 8 days PP myself.

Even shower water hitting my boobs hurts rn, A SHIRT?!?? please say sike

@mehmetbekirsen My OB did a wonderful job, but it was scary. I had no time to mentally prep myself, I was awake while being opened and I could feel the tugging just no pain. I didn’t get that beautiful skin to skin moment with my baby. I still feel a bit traumatized 9 months later.

@mehmetbekirsen I had a man tell me (while I was pregnant) that a c section is easier, safer, and more efficient than natural birth. I strongly disagreed & said I’d be upset if I needed one. I ended up having an emergency c section and it was awful. Worse than natural birth would’ve been.

Bir jinekolog olarak net söylüyorum: Sezaryen aslında düşündüğünüz gibi hiçbir zaman kolay yol değildir. Deri. Yağ dokusu. Fasya. Kas dokuları. Periton. Rahim. Bebeğe ulaşmak için kat kat yedi anatomik tabaka dikkatle geçeriz. Aynı anda kanama kontrol edilir, organlar (bağırsaklar ve özellikle mesane) korunur, adeta kadının geleceği emanet alınır. Bu aslında büyük bir karın ameliyatıdır. O kadar da kolay değildir, çoğu zaman bir kurtarma operasyonudur. Sezaryenle doğum yapan kadınlara saygı duymak gerekiyor. Her zaman.🙏

@EmbracingTara It’s weirder to me that there are women who breastfed that wore bras and shirts in the early days. During the first month my boobs were so sore and sensitive that anything touching or rubbing irritated me. Not to mention having them out just made it easier to feed my baby LOL

Laugh all you like. Skin to skin contact and breastfeeding are vital in the early weeks. This is a fact of physiological labor and birth. Yes, in my own damn home, after birthing all my babies at home, I was in bed mainly topless snuggling my baby and breastfeeding them to give them the best start in life. So, you can go ahead and shove that condescension directly up your ass and wait on your mother-in-law postpartum like the handmaiden pick-me bitch you are while your sister wife (your husband) is too much of a pussy to choose you and your newborn's wellbeing over his mommy. Now, that's laughable.

@LuckyDuck2121 @KaeleyT Ahhhh, I gotcha, lol that makes so much sense now. My bad for jumpin’ on ya so fast, I just got hella confused lol

@anemonemalee @KaeleyT Sorry thought I was replying to the bigger thread. Didn’t realize I was in a comment-specific reply-box.

No, you are not being abused if your wife doesn’t want to have sex with you. Be serious. Maybe there’s an intimacy breakdown that’s partially your fault. Maybe she’s processing sexual trauma. Maybe it’s physically painful for her. Man up. Stop playing the victim like a petulant child. Tend to her heart and cultivate emotionally intimacy, and see what happens.

@LuckyDuck2121 @KaeleyT Can you not read? I literally said “unless there are serious situations”. A chronic condition would fall under the umbrella term “serious situation”.

@anemonemalee @KaeleyT What happens in the case where the wife has a debilitating chronic condition that makes it extremely difficult? Don’t vows include for better OR worse and in *sickness* and health? Unfortunately statistics show men are more likely to leave a wife in that situation. ☹️

@BrianAtlas I'm 25, and never would have thought she was my age 😳 she looks to be around 35 imo

How old do you think she looks?

@KaeleyT I’ve found that communication is always missing here when women or men (usually women) stop having sex with their partners. I’ve noticed they don’t communicate why they’ve become disinterested, and instead leave their partner to feel frustrated.

@KaeleyT I think that unless there are some serious reasons (illness, childbirth/recovery, etc), no one should deny their spouse sex for days on end (like 3+ weeks) because that can be the decline of a relationship especially in monogamy. But it isn’t abuse to withhold.

@Bethl820 @Bunchr88 @Ashleydoncare @FideiDefensorX There is some context missing. Of these women who already have kids, 86-88% of them are single mothers. When you realize that it makes more sense why they make up most of the abortion stats.

@Bunchr88 @Ashleydoncare @FideiDefensorX brookings.edu/articles/abort…

Raise your sons better. #AbortionisHealthcare

@downbadcomment This was a sexual boundary she did not respect. I’d be pissed off, too. Honestly I’d break up because you are not sexually compatible, and she has issues with boundaries.

@EmbracingTara I had an emergency cesarean and I couldn’t imagine having anyone over during the most vulnerable time of my lif. I could hardly walk or get out of bed and had to care for a newborn through the pain and limited mobility. That time to heal was for US, not them. They had to wait.

No. Nobody matters when I birth a baby except for the baby. What is best for the baby. And what is best for the baby is a mother who is rested, nourished, able to breastfeed on demand and be skin to skin - which means I am virtually topless for the majority of the first several weeks. So whoever *I'm* comfortable with seeing me in that vulnerable state is who can see the baby. Because again, what is best for the baby is a mother whose nervous system is calm and who doesn't have cortisol coursing through her, and a mother who doesn't have to devote mental energy and emotional labor to making others feel comfortable postpartum.

@Velvet_Coalmine @dimon1s @hyzontopclipx Yeah, Ik ppl get dysphoric with their nether regions, so sexual acts involving their genitals could be icky to them. But then I wonder how SHE’D feel any sort of sexual pleasure if sex would be a one way street for her (her giving and never receiving)?

@anemonemalee @dimon1s @hyzontopclipx Thats up to her. Many trans women dont mind it being tended to during sex. Oral, stroking, etc. But some dont want it touched at all. Its an individual preference

Hunter Schafer reveals some CIS women she hooked up with specifically wanted her to f66k them and “perform like a man” because she’s trans and has d66k, sparking massive debate online about sexuality, gender roles, and what people are really attracted to behind closed doors 👀💔 “And i’ve had hookups before but like Cis women were… they wanted me to like f6k them like a guy and it’s because i have a d66k and then like that coming up in a hookup, im like Oh God 😔,… it’s tough but then you would find people who would just get it”👀👀

This is the same community that is all about consent, and how children cannot consent, but then says they can consent to life-changing medication with long-term side effects. Idc about what adults do, but leave the children alone.

@Jackkk May this man never have a child 🙏

Clavicular explains why his future daughter won’t need to looksmaxx Mike Majlak: “If you walked in on your 12 year old daughter and she had a hammer in her hand, as a parent, would you take that hammer from her?” Clavicular: “If a girl was looksmaxxing, I would say to her we live in a very favorable society towards women and some betabuxxer will still take care of you” “There’s going to be someone in this dating market who’s desperate enough for just about any girl. So the burden for women to looksmaxx is a lot lower” Logan Paul: “That’s an insane thing to say to your daughter. Don’t worry honey, there’s someone desperate enough out there for you”

@Velvet_Coalmine @dimon1s @hyzontopclipx I see, I misunderstood what she was saying. Thanks for explaining! I'm not a lesbian, so I took it to mean she wants them to use a strap-on. But Hunter meant that they treat her as a man in bed… my question is either way her genitalia would be involved, no? Oral or otherwise?

@anemonemalee @dimon1s @hyzontopclipx

@Velvet_Coalmine @dimon1s @hyzontopclipx Yeah, but the thing is I think Hunter was saying she wants to be fucked?? But not a lot of lesbian women are into where that’d have to go..

@dimon1s @hyzontopclipx Cis lesbians have lesbian sex where no dick is involved. Wtf are you talking about

@Demon_Realms @sircalebhammer Unfortunately it’s cuz people live far beyond their means & like to get themselves into crazy amounts of debt. I read something that said there are people making 200k a year who are struggling to live because they are living beyond their means. It’s wild. Consumerism is evil.

Honestly don't understand how there are so many americans talking about being broke. You guys have absurdly high wages and low cost of living compared to the rest of the world. You're playing on easy mode and still losing