Avery
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Avery
@averylady85
Wife of an amazing man. Mother of several children, Christian, Desiring to live and encourage Healthy femininity and Masculinity in Kingdom families.
Katılım Şubat 2025
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@GiffLasta @iky_fwjett “It makes me so sad…”
Him: I know how hard it is for you to be without me 😉 I’ll make it up to you when I get home (make out sesh upon arrival home)
“Why is it so difficult….”
Him: I’m sorry is boring. Be patient, I have plans to make “amends” 😉
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This dude thinks he’s holding strong frame, but he’s stuck in hers.
Where’d he go wrong?
How should he have responded to “It makes me sad…” and “Why is it so difficult?”
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@GiffLasta @iky_fwjett He doesn't want to say "sorry" because he doesn't want to be locked in to kissing her every morning. It would be interesting to know how many men consistently kiss or hug their wives "bye" in the morning, if they aren't asleep.
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@GiffLasta @iky_fwjett He should have said "Why does it make you sad?"
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Men, you wonder why your wife isn't as interested in sex as much as you? Well sir...her testosterone is a sliver of yours. That expectation defies biology.
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If you’re a dad with sons, raising them under Christian values will cripple them significantly in today’s society, especially with respect to dating.
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If polygyny is such a problem, explain this: I can legally sleep with countless women, impregnate them, and even legally abort those babies. I can engage in every kind of sexual deviance society deems ‘acceptable,’ no matter how damaging or unnatural. But the moment I want to protect, provide for, and honor more than one woman in marriage, it’s illegal?! How is that aligned with morality, logic, or God’s design? The issue isn’t sin... it’s control. Make it make sense.
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@tardwife4life Every Mom needs a group of friends that will agree to mutually inconvenience each other on a regular basis. Especially if there is a lack of Grandparents.
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It's me.
Our ancestors raised 6+ kids with scarcity of resources and abundance of community.
I'm raising 6+ kids with scarcity of community and abundance of resources.
Neither is ideal. Maybe someday we will have both.
Clara Bow@uxorious100
I’m good friends with a mom of 6 kids - all grown and living incredibly well. Valedictorians, etc. I asked her how she got anything done when they were all little and she looked at me like I was stupid. “Put them in the playpen and turn on the tv.”
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@stephmurrayyyy I have 6 kids -( 15 - 3 ).
My advice -
1. be the kind of person you want your kids to be.
2. Visit with them a lot
3. Read to them
4. Don't over-Mother teenage sons
5.capsule wardrobes, not tons of clothes
6. Have lots of hot sex with their Dad and eat dark chocolate
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The sweetspot for parenting advice is mom of five or six+ but whose youngest is still under four. Also they can't have like a blog or be an influencer or anything. Gotta go full normie.
Romy@Romy_Holland
one of my top pieces of advice to new moms is to ignore almost everything they hear from someone whose youngest baby is now an adult. they just don’t remember. they think they remember, but they’re actually remembering in vague terms what it’s like to have a 9 month old.
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@mrsmeganeverly Paul most definitely held Sarah up as a model to women in the New Testament. Her husband made the "Hall of Faith."
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As flawed as all our passed Christian ancestors were (David, Gideon, Sarah, Abraham, Moses, Peter, Isaac, Jacob, etc) the Lord still used their imperfect lives to reach many for His glory.
Elisabeth Elliot was no different.
Avery@averylady85
@mrsmeganeverly @bebookled She wrote "Me, obey him?" And she obeyed Him. Maybe she learned "She is no fool who gives what she cannot keep to gain what she cannot lose." The world learned obedience in life and death from her and Jim
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Know what would fix that? Stop falsely telling men that it is a sin to marry more than one woman. If the men women want were actually incentivized instead of punished by an unbiblical restriction, the men with all the options would step up to the plate and start marrying women. Problem solved.
Melanie Notkin@SavvyAuntie
"Women aged 18-55 say the top reason they aren’t reaching their desired fertility is inability to find a spouse" Been saying this for over 15 years. In fact, I wrote a book about it. (OTHERHOOD, 2014)
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Wives need to know that husbands often need respect for the burden they feel, even when they are imperfectly carrying it.
A good husband feels the weight of responsibility for the household.
When things feel unstable, he often moves toward trying to create structure.
That can come out awkwardly or too bluntly, but the impulse underneath it is often protective, not hostile.
If wives can learn to ask, “What problem do you think we’re trying to solve?” it can transform the tone of the conversation.
A husband who is trying to lead may not yet have the right words, the right tone, or the right system.
But if every attempt is met with instant defensiveness, mockery, shutdown, or emotional escalation, many men will either become passive or harsh.
Neither helps a marriage.
A wife does not strengthen her marriage by forcing her husband into discouragement.
She strengthens it by helping bring out his best.
That means seeing and affirming what is good in him, even while helping refine what is immature.
Grace builds on nature.
Encourage the good movement already there, and help it mature into virtue.
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One of the unintended consequences of the false monogamy-only doctrine:
The very men capable of landing and leading multiple women well are forced to suppress it… until it blows up into a public scandal.
Or they skip the church entirely, join the manosphere, and whore around.
Either way, the church loses them.
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