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想了很久,还是决定和大家正式告别。
入圈挺早的,圈子里的规则和玩法,我自认还算有些心得。
发视频的初衷其实特别简单:想把自己摸索出来的经验分享给同好,大家单纯地交流 进步 也可以认识更多的同好小伙伴。
但现实挺让我无奈的,现在的环境里,目的不纯的人越来越多。看着自己分享的心得,被盗取另作他用,那种感觉真的很恶心,但是又没啥好办法,真的,这严重影响到了我的生活和心情。
所以在此声明:即日起,不再更新任何圈内相关的视频和图片。
以后,我会把重心放在圈子里的减脂与健身上。比起单纯的视觉分享,我觉得这种实打实的干货更实用,也能过滤掉那些不怀好意的人吧。
初心未变,只是换个方式存在。哈哈,江湖见。
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@jk_rowling I'm sorry for this happening to you. I read the translation of this post and even though I don't think I know enough to comment on any opinions or beliefs, I cannot understand how one can use an old friend like this and want to say that I hope everything gets better ❤️
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I'm seeing quite a bit of comment about this, so I want to make a couple of points.
I'm not owed eternal agreement from any actor who once played a character I created. The idea is as ludicrous as me checking with the boss I had when I was twenty-one for what opinions I should hold these days.
Emma Watson and her co-stars have every right to embrace gender identity ideology. Such beliefs are legally protected, and I wouldn't want to see any of them threatened with loss of work, or violence, or death, because of them.
However, Emma and Dan in particular have both made it clear over the last few years that they think our former professional association gives them a particular right - nay, obligation - to critique me and my views in public. Years after they finished acting in Potter, they continue to assume the role of de facto spokespeople for the world I created.
When you've known people since they were ten years old it's hard to shake a certain protectiveness. Until quite recently, I hadn't managed to throw off the memory of children who needed to be gently coaxed through their dialogue in a big scary film studio. For the past few years, I've repeatedly declined invitations from journalists to comment on Emma specifically, most notably on the Witch Trials of JK Rowling. Ironically, I told the producers that I didn't want her to be hounded as the result of anything I said.
The television presenter in the attached clip highlights Emma's 'all witches' speech, and in truth, that was a turning point for me, but it had a postscript that hurt far more than the speech itself. Emma asked someone to pass on a handwritten note from her to me, which contained the single sentence 'I'm so sorry for what you're going through' (she has my phone number). This was back when the death, rape and torture threats against me were at their peak, at a time when my personal security measures had had to be tightened considerably and I was constantly worried for my family's safety. Emma had just publicly poured more petrol on the flames, yet thought a one line expression of concern from her would reassure me of her fundamental sympathy and kindness.
Like other people who've never experienced adult life uncushioned by wealth and fame, Emma has so little experience of real life she's ignorant of how ignorant she is. She'll never need a homeless shelter. She's never going to be placed on a mixed sex public hospital ward. I'd be astounded if she's been in a high street changing room since childhood. Her 'public bathroom' is single occupancy and comes with a security man standing guard outside the door. Has she had to strip off in a newly mixed-sex changing room at a council-run swimming pool? Is she ever likely to need a state-run rape crisis centre that refuses to guarantee an all-female service? To find herself sharing a prison cell with a male rapist who's identified into the women's prison?
I wasn't a multimillionaire at fourteen. I lived in poverty while writing the book that made Emma famous. I therefore understand from my own life experience what the trashing of women's rights in which Emma has so enthusiastically participated means to women and girls without her privileges.
The greatest irony here is that, had Emma not decided in her most recent interview to declare that she loves and treasures me - a change of tack I suspect she's adopted because she's noticed full-throated condemnation of me is no longer quite as fashionable as it was - I might never have been this honest.
Adults can't expect to cosy up to an activist movement that regularly calls for a friend's assassination, then assert their right to the former friend's love, as though the friend was in fact their mother. Emma is rightly free to disagree with me and indeed to discuss her feelings about me in public - but I have the same right, and I've finally decided to exercise it.
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“I think she’s going to find that you can’t sit on the fence... The real win is when ordinary people can say these things.” @DerryBanShee speaks to @joshxhowie about Emma Watson’s comments about JK Rowling. 📺 youtu.be/r2OGEITYe2Y
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@Iggeh54077 我和我的dom相处时,顺从和归属感也是有的,只是和很多其他ds配对不一样。每个人的ds关系都是不同的,没有模板说ds应该就是什么样子。这样并不代表付出不平等。而且关系维持靠的是两个人,如果dom方真的完全没有乐趣,这样的关系真的能维持吗?只要在关系中的两个人找到了自己的平衡就足够了。
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@Iggeh54077 你好,我想解释一下我个人的理解,如果不想看可以删除,如有冒犯我提前道歉><
对规则没有感觉指的是,在玩耍过程中,我的dom强迫我遵守特定的要求会让我感觉兴奋,但我会抗拒长期的规则,如请安、侍奉等。对于dom,要求能够保证sub安全本身就是底线,在失控边缘是额外要求,但磨合后并不是很难的事情。
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@Iggeh54077 dom是一种特质而不是特定的人,我理解原po说的dom指的是玩耍时的主导方,对非自己dom说归属感没有意义,对于cnc dom来说,压制sub本身也是乐趣,所以不需要顺从(不包括最终强制得到的顺从),这种互动并不是只有dom在付出。我的一些sub好友是无法在玩耍时“反抗”dom的,在玩耍时也包括顺从。
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