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"My hot take is that masculine lesbians can be just as feminine as femme lesbians." It's called being human.

c-ent can stop testing the waters there’s already a market for it

"My hot take is that masculine lesbians can be just as feminine as femme lesbians." It's called being human.


Hate to break it to you guys but sometimes you have to do things you don’t like for the sake of having a community. Avoiding consistency with the people in your life is working against us and the data already shows it. If you think connections can be sustained on absence carry on

When I was 19, I convinced myself I was “anxiously attached” because I was so worried my bf would break up with me (which he did, several times!) Somehow, that anxious attachment disappeared when I started dating my now-husband. Therapy culture doesn’t really know what to do with negative emotions that are entirely rational. When you’re so used to thinking of anxiety or sadness as disordered, it can be easy to pathologize very normal, human responses to life's ups and downs.













