where are we buying our kid's clothes these days? I used to feel like target and old navy were my staples for decent/inexpensive but they have gotten so much pricier? I've seen play dresses for $35?!!
@sheilatebra People with more kids than others also do this… I only have one (wish I had more) and people with 2 plus are always making snide comments aboit how much time I must have . Oh brother
Anonymous
Your phone rings at 8:00 AM on a Saturday. It's your sister and she's already treating your weekend like her personal emergency overflow parking.
Sister: Hey, I need you to take the kids in an hour. Dave got called into work and I am drowning.
You: I can't take them today. Good luck figuring it out.
Sister: Are you serious? I'm literally having a crisis here. What else are you even doing? You don't have kids or plans.
You: I'm unavailable today.
Sister: Wow. So nice to know family means nothing to you just because you want to sit around and do absolutely nothing.
You: Doing nothing is my plan. My free time isn't a waiting room for your emergencies.
The Aftermath
She hung up. Thirty minutes later, she posted a selfie from the park with the kids.
Everyone survived.
The Insight
People with chaotic lives will weaponize your lack of children or traditional obligations as proof your time is worth less than theirs.
It isn't.
@BiblicalBeauty I am only part way through but it is pretty horrible..... I am wondering how true any of it is? It is REALLY bad!!! Is it true Addison flirted with her and kissed her while his wife was still alive? OMG
An update on my reading of Being Elisabeth Elliot…
I am still working away on the book as I have time, but honestly, it is a miserable task. Overall, I am thoroughly displeased with this author’s handling of Elisabeth’s life. It is a great shame that we waited for a biography of this influential woman for this long, and the job has ended up being so badly botched.
There is still a need for a good biography of Elisabeth Elliot to be written.
Every colored tab you see in the photo here notes one of my concerns or gripes!
@BiblicalBeauty 3- validating her concerts aboit Lars . It’s like we are totally left hanging . Omg. She didn’t seem to paint Jim in a good light either. I feel so sad she even married Lars. The fact alone he didn’t have a real job but used her basically. So so sad . She should have know he
@BiblicalBeauty Update: I just finished it . What a downer of a book . I thought it spent waaaaay too much time on how Addison didn’t “die well” aka with a good attitude throughout suffering …. Since she opened up the can of worms I felt like she should have spent more time validating
@hotnostril@TheGriftReport@suepeaceout What are some good things to say if a doctor ever asked this ? Just no way? I live in Oregon so legitimately scared this could happen
Shit like this is why I NEVER left mine alone with doctors or dentists
I left a pediatric dentist when he told me his policy was parents wait outside
I told him, I’m his mother and MY POLICY is to not leave my kid alone with strangers - told him I DIDN’T KNOW or trust him and frankly concerned that he wanted alone time with children - then WALKED OUT
THIS IS HORIFFIC!!
Paediatrician Earl Bradley raped and sexually abused 103 children, including babies as young as three months old, while their parents waited just outside the exam room.
The Delaware doctor filmed himself carrying out the sickening attacks on hidden cameras. He would force the terrified children to perform sex acts on him, molest them repeatedly, and sometimes abuse the same child for months or even years.
One victim was raped continuously from June 2007 to February 2009. Another was molested non-stop from November 2008 to November 2009.
Over 13 hours of horrifying video evidence was later discovered.
He has been jailed for 14 consecutive life sentences plus 165 years.
This is one of the worst stories I've ever read
@BiblicalBeauty Reading this one bothered me as well…I couldn’t quite put my finger on why. I definitely thought the authors “dislike” of Elisabeth showed..
As someone who loves reading biographies on saints who have gone before us…this one felt discouraging rather than encouraging 💔
@sweatystartup I take care of an Airbnb for a contractor I clean for. We live in a small university town & rent mostly to athletes families. I spoil them with plenty of everything! I even leave bottled water & bags of ice they’re welcome to use in their cooler for tailgating.
These little things add to the overall experience… so it’s a BIG mistake to ignore these basic, reasonable requests from the paying guests.
Maybe charge the stuff at cost price if your income margin is tight.
But don’t ruin the tourist experience over these things if you wanna stay in homestay business with ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️. Take the feedback and improve your services.
@sweatystartup Why the heck are you bothering the property owner about trash bags? That’s not how AirBnB works in my expertience!
If you run through their supply you go out and buy more or Instacart it. Takes 2 minutes of your time.
Is there a real complaint about the property?
@DoesteinJohn@sweatystartup Then I am definitely not leaving those items behind and definitely not staying at your rental . Those are basics items that should be Included especially if the renter is paying a fortune to stay there
@sweatystartup I rented an Airbnb in Norway in November.
Great house, enjoyed all of it, except:
Went to take a shower. No towels. Anywhere. Not even a hand towel.
I messaged the host.
I was told I could ‘rent’ a towel for 5 euros.
Left a two star review.
@sweatystartup When a host acts like this I will absolutely not leave anything behind that I buy that should be included like toilet paper . Omg . I will take it with me or throw it away before I do that
@AvbNear@sweatystartup it’s not being petty. These are basics that’s should be supplied if you are paying a small fortune in rental fees . What is petty is not supplying more than one trash bag if you are paying 3-5k for a rental
@sweatystartup TBH you are both being petty. You buy a bunch of trash bags for a couple of dollars. Get them delivered. Enjoy life.
Instead you humble brag on X about renting a mansion but not being resourceful enough to solve something so mundane
@SyndicateTrades@sweatystartup It's 100% your responsibility to provide trash bags. Do you make them provide toilet paper, paper towels, dishsoap etc? I'd leave the trash in the garbage can with no bag before I provided our RENTAL with basic necessities.
@sweatystartup As an Airbnb host, it’s not our job to supply you! Like the lady said you’re getting a starter kit once that’s gone you fend for yourself. You want housekeeping you stay at a hotel. People that get on Airbnb expect hotel hospitality, They are not the same.