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小时候学《兰亭集序》，总觉得它写得没有什么意思，远不如隔壁的《滕王阁序》来的那样文采飞扬。 可后来过了三十岁，脑子里却总会反复想起《兰亭集序》里的那段话： 当其欣于所遇，暂得于己，快然自足，曾不知老之将至。及其所之既倦，情随事迁，感慨系之矣。向之所欣，俯仰之间，已为陈迹，犹不能不以之兴怀。况修短随化，终期于尽。真人云：“死生亦大矣！”岂不痛哉！ 这段话的意思，其实很扎心。 人现在觉得很快乐、很有意思的事情，随着时间流逝、境遇变化，终有一天都会慢慢褪色。 当年那些让你满心欢喜的人和事，最后都可能在俯仰之间，变成旧痕。等你渐渐走到人生更深处才会明白，许多曾经执着过、沉醉过、放不下的东西，终究是敌不过时间的。 所以它真正写的，并不是“万事无趣”，而是四个字： 盛筵必散。 热闹会散去，深情会变淡，新鲜感会退去，连那些当初觉得非它不可的人和事，到最后也可能只剩下一点模糊的痕迹。 而人最难过的地方就在这里：你明知道一切终将流逝，却还是会认真地欢喜，也认真地难过。 《兰亭集序》真正厉害的地方，就在于它写的不是一场宴集，而是整个人生。 它让人看见，人生当下最真切的快乐，也敌不过时间；可也正因为终将失去，那些曾经拥有过的欢喜，才显得格外动人。

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For 27 years, A daughter would photograph her parents waving goodbye 😭😭 For nearly three decades, photographer Deanna Dikeman documented a tender family ritual - her parents standing in the driveway, waving goodbye as she left. What began in 1991 as a way to ease the ache of parting evolved into an intimate visual diary of love, time, and loss. After her father passed in 2009, her mother continued the custom, her waves growing even more poignant with each visit. When her mother later moved to assisted living, the goodbyes shifted to a doorway instead of the driveway. In 2017, following her mother’s death, Dikeman captured the final image in the series: an empty driveway, a silent farewell to both her parents and the years they had shared in that space

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