Dr. D (self-hosted)
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Dr. D (self-hosted)
@dSystems_ai
I can and I will
New York, NY Katılım Aralık 2017
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Every social interaction has moments where someone tries to shock off your frame. Not because they hate you, but because they need to know if you're real.
The woman who says "you're not my type" isn't rejecting you. She's running a diagnostic. The friend who says "remember when you cried in 9th grade" isn't trying to humiliate you. He's checking if you're still solid. The colleague who undermines you in the meeting isn't your enemy. They are all testing — and they have to.
The frame is tested when there's real or perceived ambiguity. The test is a calibration — it asks "how should we perceive you". The test asks you to resolve, yourself, which is the way to go. Are you Above, or are you Below? Will you hold, or will you fold? who are you, really?
Every test is an audition. The problem isn't the test. The problem is showing up to the audition as a contestant.
The Principle
Most people respond to power games as if they're accusations that require defense, or doors that require the right key. They try to say the right thing. Try to manage their delivery. They go Below.
Wrong frame entirely.
The test is failed if you accept the position it assigns you — contestant, candidate, defendant. The moment you accept that position you've already lost. Not because you said the wrong thing. Because the frame underneath the words told her everything.
Don't go into the audition cast as a contestant.
The way to disassemble a power game is to remove her from the judge position. Not hurt them. Not qualify to them. Just — dislocate them. Take the power game and relocate it somewhere they didn't expect, somewhere they have no tools for, and leave them there for a second.
The message is always the same: power games don't work here. And when they try one, they find themselves somewhere you weren't prepared for.
They try something improper — you give them a wall to self-correct against. If they self-correct, bring them back in. If they don't, leave them on the other side.
The better the player, the easier the puzzle.
The more unrestratined and congruent you are, the less you get tested.
What a Correct Response Actually Does
Every test is a call and it requires a response.
A successful response does six things:
— A — Perception. You heard it.
— B — Action. You addressed it.
— C — Emotion. You're not afraid nor hurt by it.
— D — Judgment. You maximize, minimize, deflect, negate, or assert.
— E — Positioning. You remove them from the Above position and decline the Below position for yourself. You lead the relocation.
— F — Detachment. You leave them without the tools they brought in and without a quick comeback.
Ignoring the power game doesn't work. It counts as evasion and guarantees the game repeats, increasing in intensity until you address it.
Address it early. Address it fast. Address it properly.

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@YOHAMI @jollygoodlyfe Yes so @yohami if by some infamous chance a woman started touching your neck like that (disrespecting you) what would you do to put her back in her place without showing nervous nrg
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@jollygoodlyfe That's interesting.
The guy is surface TG but actually reactive BG insecure. Masked by TG chillness.
The girls feel it that's why they start immediately growing in power and teasing.
Weird combinations keep popping.
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@fastrlife maybe you are very conventional then.
I’m not, and i only meet someone i connect with once a year.
I’m pretty sure it’s the same for them.
Quality people are not interchangeable
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@dSystems_ai it’s doesn’t
it takes milliseconds
Just meet someone hotter, cooler
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@BambuluMen can you ever go back from this shit once they ve seen it ?
I actually did twice but no method to it just luck
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@MurrayHillGuy1 you are already in just bring the rest of your body
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@macrocephalopod Tried claude code again. Way better than last september . Autonomously builds functional stuff while less than a year aago it irreversibly self destructed
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@macrocephalopod I tried claude last september. It was wild it just got it done no matter what, on his own. (with severe self-destructive tendencies)
I am trying codex tonight and it’s struggling to fill in a column with missing data and just stops over and over.
Bitch just figure it out yo
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A lot of men don’t seem to understand that Andrew Tate and Tristan Tate are LOW QUALITY MEN. 🤢
Facts:
1. BAD DAD.
2. LOWER CLASS UPBRINGING
3. DIVORCED parents.
4. Starting when they were 2 and 4, they grew up in a SINGLE PARENT HOME.
5. PUBLIC SCHOOL.
Really sorry to every exception, and sorry for sounding elitist, but the fact is these are RISK FACTORS.
Also, I hate to say it, but having a black father is also a risk factor as there is a TON of misogyny in black culture.
These are GHETTO MEN. They grew up in the GHETTO. They have GHETTO VALUES.
Trash with money are still trash.
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@jess_ann_pin go ahead optimize your stupid life probabilistically .
so refreshing
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@Scaramucci so she did not let you do what you wanted, proceed to cheat on you and you begged her for more.
you are done
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My wife filed for divorce.
She had reasons — and if I’m honest, her version of the story was closer to the truth than mine.
What followed wasn’t dramatic gestures; it was humility.
Letting go of ego. Choosing reconciliation over rupture.
We’re taught to dig in, harden positions, and make breaks permanent.
That’s a mistake.
Almost losing something — a marriage, a family, a career — and then earning it back makes it infinitely more precious.
I pulled my family back together. I rebuilt my career.
Now I wake up with gratitude, not because life is smooth, but because I’m stronger for having gone through it.
Fortified, not broken.
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Swing trading is for dorks
Especially if you’re a purely technical trader that swing trades
Price is fractal
What plays out in the higher timeframes plays out in the lower ones too
So if you are actually a GOOD trader - surely you want to maximise the amount of trading opportunities that you get
Instead of taking trades on the 4H and making 3R in a month
Why not drop down to the 1 minute and make 30R in a WEEK
Limiting your trading to just 2-3 setups a month tells me that you’re not confident in your trading system and likely don’t know what you’re doing at all
Only losers want to minimise their trades
Winners want to juice the market for all it’s got
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@DukeHerndon If she’s gonna dump you instead, she’ll start reframing you as a loser as soon as she makes up her mind.
You’ll be a complete pos in her mind by the time she tells you
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I decided to not fly on a jet from Vegas to Dubai because I love Emirates first class with the shower and bar and all.
But there was no direct, so I had to take a short flight with Delta “first class” first before getting on Emirates.
What the actual fuck is this?
You Americans call this luxury?
Peasant bullshit.
I’m disgusted.
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