Daisy Soutar

@Crumbuloni @laralfc @Raismango ‘found out what he was like in person and it wasn't for me’ as in she met him and knew it wasn’t a match. how does that suggest any other reasons at all?

@daisysoutar @laralfc @Raismango If that was the case then absolutely. The response I posted made it seem like it was for other reasons, that’s all.

still one of the craziest messages i’ve gotten after a first date

@Crumbuloni @laralfc @Raismango you seem to think she wasn’t honest. she was, as she stated that they are very different and she doesn’t want to waste his time! he was clearly going at a quicker pace than what she is looking for so she communicated that honestly.

@daisysoutar @laralfc @Raismango Which means… the attraction wasn’t there in person to continue it for any number of reasons? I just don’t see the point of calling it something else like moving too fast 🤷‍♂️

@7217Van @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc it’s not all men but is a large majority. also this is a very weak comparison, big differences in using someone for a meal (rare) and then expecting sex - very much rooted in rape culture (common). focus on the high statistics of sexual crimes against women instead.

@daisysoutar @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc That’s exactly my point it is a misconception just like it is with guys who expect sex because they paid for dinner that’s not all women and all men. Her having this date and having him pay for everything when she knows it’s not going anywhere is the reason for the misconception

@thesoldier5545 @7217Van @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc because if he is offering to pay, that shouldn’t be dependant on the outcome of the date. interesting you use the words ‘making him pay’. nobody is making him.

@daisysoutar @7217Van @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc why she aint graciously shut it down before making him pay?

@7217Van @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc the misconception that women are constantly trying to bag free meals out of men is delusional & misogynistic. you get to know each other during a date. the men who feel entitled to women bc they paid for a dinner are giving men a bad look, among many other awful things they do.

@daisysoutar @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc I don’t think that would be the case, if a woman I asked out didn’t like me I would rather not waste our time or my money and tell me you don’t like me at the beginning and we can both go on with our lives. Women who do this give all women a bad look by trying to get a free meal.

“You would hate Trump even if he found the cure for cancer, lol got you!” HE. LITERALLY. CUT. THE. FUNDING. FOR. CANCER. RESEARCH. AND. STOLE. FROM. A. CHILDREN’S. CANCER. CHARITY.

Just so we're clear, Israel is now the first state to have an ethnicity-based death penalty since Nazi Germany.

@7217Van @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc i actually don’t think there is any response that men like this would be satisfied with. then they would say she didn’t give him enough of chance! she did, he chose to pay and then he had a hissy fit when she graciously shut things down and wished him the best.

@daisysoutar @y2ikld @Olaf_2904 @laralfc Because she’s just using him for a free meal. Women know in the first 10 mins (if that) if they like a guy or not. She already knew the date wasn’t going to go any further than that way before they went out. But instead of ending it at that point she had him pay for shit for her.

@amaxggs @__mangobango @laralfc so you would prefer that she furthers things when she she doesn’t see them as compatible? no bc that would be leading him on. agreeing to a first date is not agreeing to a relationship, so no he is not right at all.

@__mangobango @laralfc No I meant like furthering the relationship to like boyfriend and girlfriend. Not sex. Sorry for not clarifying.

@Crumbuloni @laralfc @Raismango it says a lot that you perceive this as ‘no attraction’! that is her saying she went on the date, got to know him a bit (which is what first dates are for) and discovered they weren’t a match.

@laralfc @Raismango “I was honest” Moving fast vs no attraction are very different things, Lara.

gay guy here, i don’t care about this, she was 15. you are ~40 and posted this in november. let’s talk about that

i havent shaved my legs in a really long time and while i was babysitting my skirt edged up a bit and the seven year old i was watching said "ew you should shave that hairs not supposed to be there" and i said "well if its not supposed to be there then why does it grow there?" and he was really silent for a long time and then finally said “lets watch sonic the hedgehog"

fleabag is one of the most magnificent works of art and introspection into the human mind ever put on screen. phoebe waller-bridge the woman that you are, the mind that you have, I love you

one last act before i wipe my ass xxx

being a nerd dating a hottie is so fun bc I just called her at 5am while she was at the gym to show her I learned the spongebob theme on ukulele and when I finished, she said “wow thank you, baby” like yes of course my goddess I will dance and be ur jester anytime convenient to u

One of my students brought this heartbreaking poem to class to today

First and last entries from a notebook my grandpa maintained for 67 years