Ada David 🤎

I'll not share the DM because he's a subscriber, & he has not given me the permission to share it. But let me just do a summary of the story. The screenshot below are my replies to him, which indicates that he has read it but he has not replied yet. Two years ago, this young man came to my DM to say that he was dating a lady that is 3 years older than he is. He was 28 at the time, and she was 31. I simply told him that I wouldn't advise him to marry her. He asked me why, and I told him to go discuss it with his father and be honest with him about the lady's age. So yesterday, he subscribed to my page, saying that he wanted to have a conversation with me and that he would prefer to send a VN. I told him to type it, which he did. It was a very lengthy message, but I took my time to read it (after all, he paid for it). What he said in summary in his lengthy message: 1. He met his father but never opened up to him about her age. His father said if that's who he wants to marry, no problems. 2. He has an elder brother who repeatedly saw in a dream that he wanted to marry someone older, but he wasn't sure. 3. He never told his mother the truth about her, and the mother said since their father says he has no problem with her, he can marry her. 4. In October of last year, he decided to deliberately impregnate the lady. He said he was happy when she told him she was pregnant, but quickly came back to his senses. He called his mother, & that was how the family quickly organized a secret marriage for them. People and his business partners do not even know that he's married. 5. He is living in regrets for marrying an older woman. But his guilt of leaving her because they dated for years was stronger. He couldn't summon the courage to break up with her, and leaving her single at 33. That's why he married her. Now she's his wife and pregnant for their first child. End.