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@DearAbbysAbby

@dearabbysabby

Unlicensed advice column, humor, women's corner, cautionary tales. I've seen the dark side. #askmeanything #somerealadviceplease #ohiwentthere #yourewelcome

New Mexico, USA Katılım Ocak 2020
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@shuerta1940 @QasimRashid No. They want more white babies for the military. They don't trust POC to serve in battle. And keeping those babies poor ensures they are without opportunity and more likely to enlist. It's not about paying into social security, b/c immigrants and naturalized citizens fixes that.
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Hueser
Hueser@shuerta1940·
@QasimRashid We want women to have more babies because birth rates are down while simultaneously trying to take citizenship away from millions of babies born in the US. Somebody should ask him on camera if he meant more White babies. I'd like to have him answer that question
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Qasim Rashid, Esq.
Qasim Rashid, Esq.@QasimRashid·
MAGA: We want women to have more babies! So, child tax credit to prevent child poverty? MAGA: Nope Universal healthcare because having a baby costs $35K minimum? MAGA: Nope Tax billionaires & raise the living wage so parents can afford to have kids? MAGA: Nope Gun safety laws as guns are the leading cause of death for American kids? MAGA: Nope Then HOW do you expect people to have more babies? MAGA: Ban abortion, contraception, & teaching about repro health So...fascism? MAGA: YES, FINALLY
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jezz@JezziiB·
Men: “Women trap us with babies.” Also men: Don’t want vasectomies, condoms, or accountability.
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@mildewymelon @_nomadic_soul I work in one of these jobs and every single male in them complains about the pay. I'm like, yeah, thats what women have been saying bro. You can be a feminist too. And this is a "good" paying "women's" job. And bro, you're still driving a corvette with no children. Puhleez.
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Mel 💓
Mel 💓@mildewymelon·
@_nomadic_soul They only reason they said nursing and teaching weren't pointless is because men don't want those jobs. They think of women as their competition
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Meg | The Feminist Motherhood
Meg | The Feminist Motherhood@_nomadic_soul·
Would you say the same about the men who hold these jobs? That they’re choosing made up careers over their family? No, because when men hold a job, any job!, they’re great providers. But when women hold a job, they’re abandoning their family. Gender roles are so toxic. 😭
♡…Mrs H...♡@NatureGirl_21

Other than nursing and teaching, all of these jobs are pointless. I cannot fathom why women are choosing these made up careers over family. And I dont just mean single women, I mean mothers who could stay home and opted for daycare instead so they can rush back to the office. Its insane.

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@madhavator @_nomadic_soul Women end up with all the dependents: children & aging parents. Until women are paid a "family wage" they can't provision 1 more dependent husband at 70 cents to a dollar. And men need to figure out that being a stay at home husband is more than smoking weed & playing video games
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Madhav Mohan
Madhav Mohan@madhavator·
@_nomadic_soul Provision means paying for a man at home if she is working ..like a man would do to a woman and while dating actively searching for men she actually likes rather than looking at whether he is a finance bro or a CEO. Then men will start adjusting themselves
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
@madhavator @_nomadic_soul Women end up with all the dependents: children and aged parents. Until women get paid a "family wage" they can't afford one more dependent husband at 70 cents on the dollar.
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Madhav Mohan
Madhav Mohan@madhavator·
@_nomadic_soul Well that's not how the world is. Even in progressive scandinavia women seldom marry men who are earning much lesser than them. It's a fact of life.
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@StiltonGer74577 @cleobug101 Women carry the majority of burden in raising children. Nursing and education offer schedules that can balance the demand. They are paid less than men's jobs, but most men are not worth marrying, so women settle for less pay to be able to get away from being married to assholes.
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Gerry Stilton@StiltonGer74577·
@cleobug101 Instead of asking why nurses are getting paid less and blaming it on genders, ask why so many women keep going into nursing knowing they will get paid less
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Cleobug101@cleobug101·
people say “women aren’t paid less, they just pick empathy careers.” ok… but who decided nursing and teaching are worth less? like we’ll pay a sales guy 150k to move numbers around, but pay a nurse pennies to literally keep people alive, or give a teacher crumbs and wonder why future generations are failing every test. it’s not that empathy based work is less valuable it’s that we’ve normalized underpaying it because it’s “women’s work.”
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These are the people that should get Six figure bonuses

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Onion Cider
Onion Cider@abbietayo·
Thankful for feminism. I just saw a movie where women weren’t allowed to sit at the bar alone without a man. Like, what kind of life is that 😭
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
@iAnonPatriot That is some straight up excellent dancing and stage choreography. Long sequence excellence. #BusbyBerkeley level shit. OMFG what an uncultured and snottynosed commentary you have provided. #GetCulture ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️
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American AF 🇺🇸@iAnonPatriot·
GAP released an ad in retaliation to Sydney Sweeney’s American Eagle ad…but nobody even noticed. Because it looks like EVERY single woke garbage ad we’ve been seeing for the last 4 years.. 💀💀
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
Neighbors keep using my garbage/recycle bins outside, which I wouldn't mind if they knew the difference between recycling and trash. Don't make me look dumber than a fourth grader just because you are.
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
Anyone else notice Elon's "The Dogefather" t-shirt? If we didn't already assume he was a narcissist with a harem of wives, gross potbelly and ugly face....
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@tradmother Tell the family member that affection is not transactional. You are not raising your child to think that they are obligated to share their body with any person that they don't want to. If the family stills insists, tell them you didn't think you came from a whorehouse until now.
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
@TheEcho13 The problem is the 5 day work week that is based on women being at home and men not. The change needs to come from men insisting on having a schedule that allows for being a father instead of just a piggy bank. Capitalism is what is mandating women's labor expectations. #mentoo
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Echo 🔆
Echo 🔆@TheEcho13·
Make women believe that motherhood is important by treating motherhood like it’s important and this will all go away. Women are told that all they are good for is having children, but also that it’s not enough to make women important. Women are told that they must reproduce to benefit society, but also that they’re ugly, useless and ready to be discarded by the time they reach 40. Women are told to take on the overwhelming majority of work in the home, to sacrifice the most to care for their family, but if their husbands don’t treat them well enough to keep them, then they are a burden to society and deserve nothing as a result. Women see all of these talking points every time they open social media or scroll a timeline. Even women who sought a more traditional dynamic are being turned off and reconsidering their desire when they see how men talk about them. Men asking for stay at home wives and mothers while also saying that her contribution and sacrifice is so minimal to the point of being worthless is abhorrent. Women know that having and raising children is going to be hard, that they will be living their lives in servitude, and majority of women are happy to do it, but not for men who tell them that it’s all they’re good for. Not for men who tell them that once they’re done having children they’re ‘used up’, that if the marriage doesn’t work out then everything belongs to him, and that doing all of it still doesn’t make them important to society. Despite pleas for women to start having children again, women don’t want to have children with men who don’t value them, so they’re not. In a world that doesn’t value mothers while telling women that that’s all they’re good for and reiterating that doing so still doesn’t make women important, women won’t become mothers.
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
@paullistman @liliaeth @DoomScroling Sounds like your entire twitter is just bullshit you don't really believe in. Waste of air, time, & life. Only assholes laugh when others are talking about real problems. Sign of privilege w/o experience. Not worth listening to. Why you're even speaking is a mystery. Get a hobby.
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Miranda@DoomScroling·
Women absolutely should be in leadership position, and everyone should have accommodations in the workplace that allow them to recover after major surgeries and medical procedures. That's not "grotesque" or unique to women, yet these misogynists wish to pretend that if a man needs time to recover from surgery, it's a given, but if a woman needs to recover from surgery.........it's "grotesque" special treatment.
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@RetroAgent12 Republicans like to pretend the constitution is a legally binding version of the Bible, using laws to back up religious beliefs, but also pretend their interpretation of Bible supercedes the constitution when it suits political interests as if gun rights are written in the Bible.
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@DearAbbysAbby@dearabbysabby·
@Walkabilityadv This is also common in Mexico, women and children onoy coaches. Not only for protection from assault but also rampant pickpockets. If men had any self-respect not to steal from children, they wouldn't be in the position they are in. #notsorry
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