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@docneto
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@Babajiide Society is failing as a whole if we're being honest. Not just boys. The way society will correct itself and traditionally has done is by sending boys to war to d1e. This is the path the world is currently on.
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Because I greet you Bonsoir, you wan use French wound me on 6 hour flight 😭
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@Ayomidejoe I played in an amateur league in my late 20s. One of the teams in the league was a high school team. Bro! Those kids had energy for days! Na from there I know say I don dey old true true. Can't even imagine it now.
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E no get anything wey we no dey see for this our Uyo because wetin be this😳😳
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@Babajiide I don go use my pension play kalo kalo. Na God get me for retirement 😭
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Nigerian governments especially the state governors need to wage a STRONG war against exam malpractice, cheating and sorting in our education system all the way from primary school till university.
You cannot enforce standards and the amount of effort required to build a strong workforce if people can bypass it through cheating. It shouldn't be that people spend 15 years in our education system and they come out and struggle with basic maths, critical thinking, and reasoning let alone hard skills.
Private individuals and companies cannot be doing what your education system is supposed to do. A great schools system is an asset and the governors who are thinking ahead and fixing it will go very far and prosper at a scale we have never seen before.
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Govts don't understand value creation. They should support entrepreneurs who do via grants, equity or debt instruments. This Benue juice factory will fail in five years. A better choice is to give @AffiSupaStar money and mandate her to do work in Benue.
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@docneto It makes more sense when you know the question that triggered that response.
Jamilu is the ‘consensus’ candidate selected by the governor and a question was thrown at him that Jamilu ‘empowered’ more people.
•@AliyuOnX
So, this is the question that triggered Dr. Pantami. If these Hamza’s questions are “highly unprofessional”, Mallam is not ready for this politics. These are soft questions. He never even jam @ruffydfire of Arise. Please Rufai, invite Dr. Pantami to your show. I want to see something.
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This is a fascinating window into the philosophy of (northern) Nigerian politicians and a classical demonstration of Ekeh's "two publics" framework.
Where the morality Pantami himself mentions is in reference to the veracity of the govt jobs facilitated and not the morality of influencing public jobs.
By his own clear admission, it's immoral to lie but not immoral to corner government jobs for your people. Most Nigerians would agree with him and this is what's exactly wrong with governance in our country.
Ɗan Masani@Danmasani_Gombe
“The jobs we created are not merely about quantity, but about quality, in such a way that the quality of one person I provided with an employment opportunity is greater than that of 50 employees in other places.” — @ProfIsaPantami #GombeApcPrimaries #TrustTv
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One of the 4 horsemen of relationships.
1. Criticism
2. Contempt
3. Defensiveness
4. Stonewalling
All destructive communication styles that predict relationship failure with over 90% accuracy.
Neto@docneto
Silent treatment, known as "stonewalling", is emotional abuse and the fastest way to ruin your relationship.
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@Wizarab10 Giving the silent treatment is getting on a highway to relationship dissolution. Just know what you're choosing when you choose it.
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That you like addressing issues immediately doesn’t mean others have to. Your coping mechanism is personal to you.
A person choosing to be incommunicado till have have dealt internally with how you wrong them before choosing to speak to you, is valid like mad.
You clam they are being manipulative by ‘keeping malice’ but you’re the one being manipulative by wanting someone you offended to want to speak to you in your own time of convenience as against theirs.
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Tangential; I'd love to see a food delivery replay of the fun times Mark and Marek gave us in travel on these streets. 😁
Aubrey Darwin Niederhoffer@needaubrey
After releasing our new, improved routing algorithm yesterday, our average delivery time has fallen below 30 minutes in Yaba! Congratulations to Demola, Sofiri, and the @swoopappng operations team for making this possible!
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@DrJoeAbah Well, first off, 'gaslighting' is not a proper psychological term. It appears in no proper psychological frameworks or texts; it's a fuzzy popular psychology term people use at will to mean different things.
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Actually, you are a weak and inferior man if you come online to post things you did for your woman. “I bought her iPhone & bone straight.”🙄
And I suggest you learn the real meaning of “gaslighting.” Many pseudo “psychologists” here use the term without knowing the real meaning.
KingofIraq@Sagediobilo
You are not a weak man when you post your colorful wedding online, not a weak man when you bought her a car and posted it online, not a weak man when you developed an app for her and posted it online, not a weak man when you were taking care of her and all that and everything was posted online. Suddenly, you are now a weak man because you again, came online and told the whole world that saw your previous posts and didn't call you a weak man then that the woman you did everything for cheated on you in your own house. Haba! Let's think before gaslighting.
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I even understand silent treatment when we have a fight or something. Have you met someone that will just wake up & decide not to speak to you anymore, or both of you are laughing one minute, next minute, they demeanor has changed, & it’s pure silence. UNPROVOKED!!!
Neto@docneto
Silent treatment, known as "stonewalling", is emotional abuse and the fastest way to ruin your relationship.
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So, as a man, you came on Twitter to tell the whole world how your wife cheated on you or how you cheated on your wife. Please what exactly do you hope to achieve with that? What do you want a possible future wife to think of you, other than that you’re a weak and inferior man?🙄
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Here's a way to deal with conflict in your relationship without resorting to stonewalling.
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Neto@docneto
One of the biggest predictors of relationship success is knowing how to fight right. The challenge is people don't grow up with a model for how to fight right and never learn how to self-regulate their emotions in order to fight right. Your job as an adult is to learn this... 🧵
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@nita_ernest I don't think stonewalling is gendered; men and women engage in it.
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One of the biggest predictors of relationship success is knowing how to fight right. The challenge is people don't grow up with a model for how to fight right and never learn how to self-regulate their emotions in order to fight right. Your job as an adult is to learn this... 🧵
Lekzy Red@Lekzy_r
Sorry, I’m not saying I’m guilty oo.. but I want to ask a genuine question, how do you people now resolve conflicts in your relationship if as it stands, silent treatment is not an option🙂.. and of course, violence isn’t. So if say you are angry at your partner, you can’t take a few hours to process things and simmer down? You have to address it immediately? You and I know it’s unrealistic o, so how do you resolve conflicts? Educate me pls
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