drbrainz

@nottydesignss 🌷 9th house

This Mercury Retrograde is lowkey profound! A lot of us are cutting ties, finding our voice, moving with courage and in doing so, we allow momentum to occur. So, how can we come out of this unscathed? What other lessons Mercury Retrograde wants us to find out? Dm this emoji 🌷 along what house Mercury Retrograde in Cancer is happening in for you. Like this! 🌷- 1st House

@inhunenthusiast but venus in 12th. never had a chance

@inhunenthusiast nn in 7th… im doomed to be in relationships 💔

they clearly don't know abt ppl with north node in 1st house. born to be sexy and single

EXACTLY.

i imagine God sees me as a i see jimothy. beautiful and a little fucked up, and if i showed up at His door it’d be wide open for me

whoever invented beds was a fucking genius. i’m just all cozied up in here, like you don’t even know how cozy i am

how it feels to wait outside your friend’s house for like maybe 10 minutes

this is my favorite video in the world rn

morning.

No matter how you carry yourself, you will encounter those who are inherently energetically incompatible, or worse, abrasive. While empathy is admirable and appropriate in certain situations, a balanced sense of sober self-respect is paramount. You do not owe anyone anything. You do not have to allow their way of being to enter you, to colour and affect your energy. What good is discernment if you cannot execute compassionate ruthlessness to honour your soul? Trust your intuition. Certain souls are better as passers-by. Often their stark energy has more to do with their relationship with themselves - and you can sense it from a mile away. They are woven so deeply into their own intricate tapestry of self-appeasing lies that projecting hatred, resentment, and aggression outwards becomes the only way they know how to express and release that which twists and writhes within. If you don't like it, don't put up with it - you don't need a reason. Live and let live.

IM 23 AND ITS NOT OVER ???

charisma = power x warmth few realize the secret to winning in life is to literally just get in touch with what u most deeply want and go after it shamelessly w/ full force. everything u could possibly need (ppl, resources, confidence) will find u on the path

understanding that my mom was a troubled woman who taught me certain things i should not take at face value even if she loved me more than anything

@MEvsIRS def got a lil triggered, my bad hope u are just happy in the end!!

@drpepperbrain I’m a grown man and I wake up every day and make decisions based on lots of things other than because of an assumed reciprocity agreement me and my wife share How could i reciprocate I don’t give head but I’m officially recognized as the greatest head receiver of all time™️

1. All pussy is paid for The notion of “looking for the right girl for long term” is not entirely rejected by me I have been in lots of relationships If I continue to enjoy someones company then I will hopefully continue to see them and this is a relationship But the notion that this must be a contractual agreement which involves the state, my assets, and my full commitment through all potential scenarios and changes over time is ridiculous and unnecessary to me I try not to make decisions that my future higher self may find to be a constraint on growth and self development, that guy in the future knows more than me and I trust him to have the greatest possible amount of agency So the agreement of marriage is future self sabotage I don’t reject being with the same person for a long time I reject everything it implies from a societal perspective And in lots of cases, and places, a legal perspective Everything outside of the moments of company we share is what I reject Any additional agreements made by me and a significant other are purely out of present love and support not out of obligation or expectation and these agreements are usually never made with something left to honor or continue after the initial show of affection is made I can’t know that my partner is going to grow and change into someone that I want to spend the rest of my tiny sliver of human consciousness with. Because I am a variable for change as well, the odds we both grow over years and still think we are optimal for each others daily lives is highly unlikely there’s no one telling you that it’s sign the agreement or never see the person You don’t have to speak for your future self prematurely And there’s literally not a single benefit to you or the spouse So just don’t The subject gets forced in relationships which lack trust or include massive insecurities Marriage is a tool to ease uncertainties of faithfulness, resources, etc For example : You may want your girlfriend to give up her career and focus on family at home, half the reason is probably because she gets lots of male attention from coworkers (you are insecure abt this naturally) and half is because you actually want kids with her (she is less likely to leave you if you have kids as soon as possible.. an insecurity) , but this is risky for her to do because she would need to fully trust you as a breadwinner, roommate, and father, if you give up on any of these she is left in a vulnerable position and will have to restart, with baggage. So she starts talking about engagement. This conversation is only brought into this picture because it at least hypothetically deposits security so a further arrangement can be achieved that you think limits your own feelings of insecurity, and for this you traded her your promise you will not leave after she becomes fully reliant on you In this example and in most real life relationships I’ve observed marriage is used simply as a means to get what you need in terms of emotional stability in order to get what you actually want It is a prerequisite to a couples non existent purely mythical becoming of one, only required because one’s own fear of vulnerability 1+1=2 and 2 can always be halved I choose not to ignore the simple reality that 2 cannot exist as 1. A true symbiotic relationship can be observed in nature but this symbiosis is not fixed or forever. And its existence is due to necessary reciprocal value not due to pure willpower and commitment or desire for selflessness. A joining of two things is at the absolute sacrifice of the two things existence and the birth of something brand new. This is not how humans love Our love is a reflection of who we are, we are too aware of our own needs and wants to ever consciously sacrifice our lives entirely and completely, outside of dire circumstance, to create something novel

“billionaires do astrology…” as a way of convincing me to do astrology is so funny to me. like i really don’t care, they also do a lot of weird shit my God would not agree with either. such a non argument

@sneaknsneak this is so funny

when men say they want "a beautiful mid to call my own" I think women misunderstand this almost completely. It does not mean "she's a five" or anything like that. it means a woman who is clearly attractive, but presented as normal, attainable, non-celebrity, non-model, perhaps even specifically “my type.” in other words, a real person to fall in love with. a beautiful mid is exceptional. when a man takes the beautiful mid as his own he is saying: here is my own beautiful woman. she is not a remote cultural object manufactured for universal consumption. she belongs to my actual life and I belong to hers. in this way "a beautiful mid" is a phrase steeped in sincere devotion, even if cloaked in irony.

"It's impossible" Yeah, for you.