BONESAW 🕊️@BonesawMD
Men need sex a lot less frequently than they think in relationships.
You can’t even have real sex more than every few weeks, and most people will never experience it.
Just the gooey hump of carnal intercourse.
When men express how frequently they “need” intercourse on this app it’s a proxy for the deep validation that comes with it, not actual piping.
Most men have been despirited so do not experience recognition and validation in their normal lives for anything they do.
Women do much, much better in relationships being able to recognise and nurture him psychologically.
You’ll always see it in successful long term relationships.
The genesis of all good, consistent, and enthusiastic sex is found everywhere except the bedroom.
Sex can come, afterwards, sure — but the important bit is the mental aspect before.
Genuine respect is your most vital foreplay, and long term, you can only respect him in proportion to how much he respects himself.
So he’s largely responsible for it.
Enthusiasm has to be earned.
Can’t just fake it.