mariah-rose

Children were to be seen & not heard & now nobody wants to see them. Children being “seen and not heard” was a disastrous mindset. Which has led to a growing distain for children! People want solitude and silence. Their “peace” is more important than family formation.

When I was a kid I had chores, one of which was folding laundry sometimes. Do children fold laundry anymore? My children don’t and I’m not sure why. They have it too good. This post is not a joke.

I know far too many men who'd like to have big families but their women won't have more than 1 kid. Even 2 kids is a big ask, it's "so overwhelming" for them. If they do have a second one they tend to hate their husband for it. Before you ask, it's not really about resources or even help. That would be understandable, and could be reframed as a timing issue. But they usually have help from in-laws or nannies / daycare. It's also not about the man's laziness - these guys are very involved husbands and fathers. It's basically just "too much" for these women emotionally to be moms, period. If they even take the plunge, they tap out at one. We talk a lot on here about men being weak, and how they don't live up to their forefathers' courage. I obviously agree with this. There is a clear effeminacy and hopelessness among your average guy that didn't exist in prior generations. Living in their shadows, we look pathetic. But honestly, the women are in many ways even more embarrassing. Just try putting them up against their grandmothers and great grandmothers. It's humiliating. They have never had it easier... and yet somehow they have never struggled more. In other words, they are weak. I understand the frustration many guys have, because besides sex I don't even know what many of them contribute anymore. Life with these women revolves entirely about their incessant, negative feelings. They are not dependable and can't seem to carry any societal burdens. I hate the gender war slop, and I know all women aren't like this. There are a lot of amazing women and wives out there (including my own). But it's gotten to a point where societal norms seem to exist entirely to cater to women's feelings. And we wonder why things are falling apart. Women are free to make the choices they want, and I don't think we should ever change that. But we should not be praising women who are unwilling or incapable of living for anything besides their own gratification. These women are as big of losers as the guys who sit around playing video games, and should be called out as such.

Do you guys agree with the statement: "Don't have kids if you're still poor."

Do you think children should be forced to say "please" and "thank you"??

as someone who loves cats and dogs equally I love that you can train a dog to do stuff but cats will find their own skills by themselves and often the skills in question are evil