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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
>want gf >quit playing video games >eat healthier >become more productive >go to gym >join group sport >become regular at coffee shop >become regular at bar >go to art showings >find a girl you like >initiate and pursue >plan elaborate date >14 bodies, 40lbs overweight, has nose ring, goes clubbing regularly, swiftee >give up >go back to playing video games with the boys
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Liz Is Amused
Liz Is Amused@lizisamused·
I've met plenty of men who struggled with dating well into their 20s. In my day, we called them late bloomers & didn't worry about them. They usually found success later. A key difference between guys who started getting laid or got a girlfriend vs. those who didn't: social isolation. Guys who go home & play video games after work are a stereotype for a reason. If you're not out among people, you don't gain social skills. You don't get better at talking to women. You don't meet new people who invite you to the BBQ where you meet your girlfriend. You...stagnate :/ Guys who kept trying? They got better. They found women less confusing. One day they met a girl & sometimes to their very great surprise, they hit it off. Don't just hit the gym. Join a group sport. Take a cooking or dance class. Go out to your interests: live music, wine or whiskey tastings, art gallery openings, bookstore events. Become a regular at a local bar or coffee shop. Make yourself go out as much as you can. It's rougher for Gen Z though. Many live with their parents or can't find a job. Most struggle with rent. If you can barely pay rent, how the hell are you supposed to afford going out? But a Gen Z guy once complained to me that dating was expensive. 15 minutes of me Googling produced an extensive list of cheap & free legit good dates in our city. It's not all about money; creative dates show you tried. That's the main thing: try. Dating was never about instant gratification before dating apps. In college, I HAD to go out to meet boys 😂 Took many outings until second semester of my freshman year to meet my first boyfriend. But everyone spends more time alone at home now. Fight the urge. Get out there.
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@CS2_Confessions This is wildly disproportionate given the population of trans people in the United States is <1%. If your post is correct this means trans individuals are over 5x more likely to commit a mass shooting.
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CS Confessions
CS Confessions@CS2_Confessions·
"Most of the Confessions on this page are by either lesbian, trans or gay people , really shows how much they like guns and killing people 😭✌️"
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@kskskspspspwk @rattecs What are you talking about bro you don't know how good you have it 💀
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cam@kskskspspspwk·
@rattecs valorant? bro theres so many cheaters in val its honestly insane.
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ratte 🟪@rattecs·
I'm looking for a game with: - The gameplay loop of CS2 - The optimization of Doom Eternal - The story/lore of Elder Scrolls - The kernel anti-cheat of Valorant - The update frequency of Deadlock - The community of Warframe Who's gonna build it? 🤔
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Dan Madesclaire
Dan Madesclaire@Vitality_apEX·
Another tournament, another trophy. I’m speechless. Gg wp @natusvincere, that was a tough one.
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ropz@ropz·
Another trophy added to the cabinet ✅ BLAST Rivals Champions 🏆
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Hunter Mims
Hunter Mims@SicK_cs·
Here is @florscnt throwing my ranked game on purpose and shock darting me multiple times. Not only that but this genius reports me after the game with actual false information. After breaking the rules just minutes ago! Unlike him, I don't have any proof out there of wrong doing.
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@Linahuaa There is not one single girl in this picture that's 7/10 or greater.
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LinaHua
LinaHua@Linahuaa·
This is what an above average group of 7/10 American girls looks like. They're business students from a very good school (which already raises the average by a lot) They also have significantly below national average BMI. They gonna be top 15% earners. So, in order to looks and status match with them, you should be about 6 feet tall, be in decent shape, dress well, and earn about $150k. The numbers don't lie.
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Ambar
Ambar@Ambar_SIFF_MRA·
>Jocelyn Sanroman, 27 >Teacher at Oakside Scholars Charter School, Michigan >Had s*x with her 16-year-old male student while tutoring him at his house >Filmed the s*xual encounter on video >Admitted the relationship to a coworker >Pleaded guilty to third-degree criminal s*xual conduct >Sentenced to 4-15 years in pris0n >Placed on the Michigan S*x Offender Registry for life So many such cases are coming out almost daily. Save boys from such females.
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@VWAPmag Go back to Shanghai silver baiting please twin 🙏
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@JackD_Vol @samson_samsen I'm certain that's exactly what it is. If you're incapable of harm, then being unforgiving is not virtuous.
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Jack D. VoL@JackD_Vol·
@samson_samsen This seems like one of those things weird dudes say just trying to appear edgy when in reality, you’re just mildly retarded.
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Mr Sergio
Mr Sergio@samson_samsen·
The unforgiving person is the closest thing to a “good person,” even more so than the forgiving or empathetic person. A forgiving person is capable of forgiveness because he finds it easy to understand the behavior of those who offend him. This understanding is a function of possessing the capacity to act in a similar manner as those who offend him. He too is capable of hurting someone, and he knows it. However, a man who is incapable of forgiving people is equally repelled by offending them. He has a rigid but consistent ethical stance: he will not hurt, and he will not forgive when he is hurt. His lack of agency to be cruel to people mandates his lack of understanding for cruel character and thus makes him unforgiving of it. He will not forgive you for doing unto him what he cannot do to you. Right there is a good person.
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What opinion will get you in this position?

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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@shedrinkswater Women will say this and then get their heartbroken by a nigga with a tote bag.
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smoothie
smoothie@shedrinkswater·
Men being performative when it comes to love evokes a kind of visceral disgust in women who possess real discernment. This is what we call performativeness, and in a broader sense, everything we do contains an element of performance. But from the standpoint of mate selection, there is a critical distinction. If a man is enacting gestures of love for his partner while simultaneously directing them toward an audience, it begins to fracture the authenticity of the act. The gesture is no longer purely for her; it is being mediated through the gaze of others. And at that point, what is being built is not an intimate bond, but a display. A relationship that is constantly being externalised in this way starts to feel as though it exists for spectators rather than for the two people within it. Claiming a person as your own, in the quiet, serious sense, is entirely different from exhibiting acts of love for the sake of validation. One is rooted in depth and possession of meaning; the other risks becoming an aesthetic performance of something that is no longer fully lived.
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my type

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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@realgeerrivera You don't know the context? His life is basically one big doxx, there are constantly people like her outside his house. The cops were called constantly and did nothing. This was when he couldn't afford private security.
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psychosis
psychosis@feelpsychosis·
Hypergamy has always existed Woman want to mate with superior men Then why do women date well rounded, nice, wealthy but average looking guys? Because women don’t need to marry the gentically superior man, they just need to mate with him The genetically superior man is desired by many women, making it impossible to make him “settle” So the next time you hear someone say “he’s good looking but he doesn’t have a wife” Your kids may have his genetics🧬 Because women will ALWAYS choose the best mate they have access to Even if they can’t make him settle
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Benonwine
Benonwine@benonwine·
A 25-year-old teacher spent three-and-a-half hours having sex with a 17-year-old boy at her home while her husband was away hunting, with newly unearthed text messages detailing their disturbing relationship. McKenna Kindred, who is now 27, flirted with the boy for months before sleeping with him at her home in Spokane, Washington, in November 2022. Gossip about the encounter spread around Central Valley High School, where Kindred worked and where the teen was known among friends as being 'addicted to sex.' An unidentified friend got into one of the boy's Instagram accounts, where they discovered Kindred saying: 'I was sad when you had to leave my room... when other girls talk about you in my class I could feel myself getting mad.' Kindred also alluded to encounters at school with the boy, texting him to say: 'We almost got caught. I was sad when that student walked in when he did. I wanted you to hold me. I really like being touched by you.' The friend who hacked the teen's Instagram account took photos of the messages and reported it to a teacher, who called Spokane Valley Police. Kindred was arrested and admitted first-degree sexual misconduct in March 2024. The age of consent in Washington State is 16 but authority figures can still be charged with sexually abusing children up to the age of 18 who are in their care. Kindred was sentenced to 24 months' probation and ordered to sign the sex offenders' register for 10 years. She is still with her lawyer husband Kyle and the couple live in a stunning $500,000 home, the Daily Mail revealed earlier this month. Kindred's phone underwent a forensic examination after her arrest. Around the time she had sex with the boy he sent her a message saying 'Mom glad I can satisfy you' Kindred liked the message, with the teen then asking if she had used a sex toy while thinking about him. She replied: 'I did.' He texted her saying 'U should have video it and save it' so he could watch, with Kindred replying: 'Hm next time I need to relearn Snapchat haha.' After Kindred's crimes were reported to police, the boy's mother Ashley Beckley provided investigators with further evidence. She said she had seen an explicit video her son had sent Kindred of himself and photos Kindred had sent him of her breasts. Ashley also told of how she had seen a message Kindred sent to her son where she talked about using a sex toy on herself. The boy was subsequently interviewed by police who told investigators that he started following Kindred on Instagram in June 2022 and that they'd exchanged messages. The pair sent each other photos of their privates, with Kindred inviting him over to the house she shared with her husband Kyle in November 2022. The teen says he got there between 6.30pm and 7pm and that he and Kindred began watching a movie, then kissed. The boy and Kindred went on to have sex on the couch for 10 minutes before moving to Kindred's bedroom. There, they continued having sex until 10pm that night. He said that they eventually 'finished' and returned to the living room where they 'hung out', before having a shower. He ended up leaving Kindred's home at 11.30pm that night. What are your thoughts on this story?
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@makeitharderr @stelzner_n1150 Guy put all the slop for masculine, this is why men are so feminine now, their fathers drank highly estrogenic beer while working an office job and sitting all weekend watching the game. Get rid of the sports and add some shit like "church leadership" or "business owner"
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Scour@makeitharderr·
@stelzner_n1150 get rid of the sports completely and we are good. watching sports is the most low iq thing ever
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Nicholas J. Stelzner@stelzner_n1150·
Masculine: 1. Beer 2. Fishing 3. Hunting 4. Football 5. Hockey 6. Golf 7. Nicotine 8. Grilling 9. Lawncare 10. Driving Feminine: 1. Shopping 2. Laundry 3. Cooking 4. Baking 5. Cleaning 6. Raising children 7. Wine 8. Gardening 9. Reading 10. Yoga
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@AFpost There goes my hero Watch him as he goes
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AF Post@AFpost·
Footage has been released of Nick Fuentes ejecting a leftist woman from his porch. Follow: @AFpost
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Ben@ibitenjoyer·
@SydneyLWatson Can you really call it a "free market" when you have no other options?
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Dr. Sydney Watson
Dr. Sydney Watson@SydneyLWatson·
Seen a lot of conversation about how predatory the American medical system is. So I will weigh in. I ended up going to the ER about 2 weeks ago for crippling pain. Turned out to be a ruptured ovarian cyst. I was there for MAYBE 4 hours. My bill? $13,500 dollars. Because I'm uninsured (by choice, that shit is a SCAM), the hospital dropped my bill down to $8,100 and some change as an "uninsured" discount. For starters, $13,500 for a 4 hour hospital visit is insane as it is. But the fact the hospital can wipe $5,000 off the bill "just because" should show you how utterly fucked this system is. And to be clear - $8,000 is still an absolutely insane sum of money when all these people did was scan my stomach and give me some pain killers. On my itemized bill, my CT scan was 7k. The iodine they used was $900. Just being in the ER room alone was $2,500. We phoned the hospital to haggle. They dropped the price by $20. Normal people can't survive this shit. I do okay and $8,000 is still an INSANE chunk of money out of my savings. Anyone who argues this isn't a disgusting, predatory system is crazy. And it is even crazier that Americans accept this. And for those of you who argue this is the free market, I need you to be quiet. There can never be a true free market here when government and insurance have their creepy little fingers in this pie. People shouldn't go bankrupt trying to pay medical bills. This has to change.
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