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That you like addressing issues immediately doesn’t mean others have to. Your coping mechanism is personal to you. A person choosing to be incommunicado till have have dealt internally with how you wrong them before choosing to speak to you, is valid like mad. You clam they are being manipulative by ‘keeping malice’ but you’re the one being manipulative by wanting someone you offended to want to speak to you in your own time of convenience as against theirs.

@FrenchOG3 If the intention is not to divorce him later on in a bid to get his property(ies). I found no fault in this.

Basically do the opposite of what black women do.

@GbengaWemimo Carelessness is often committed by one person, but the cost is distributed across everyone who loves them.

One of my Christian sisters cheated on her husband The man she cheated with came to Nigeria for Detty December, met her at the mall, and they exchanged contacts He was staying in a serviced apartment building He chatted her up, and she told him she was cooking for her family He asked her to please make extra for him and bring it to his apartment She did so She left her husband and three children at home, told her husband that she was taking the food to a sick church member, and found her way to the other man's apartment They had sex She returned home, and the husband suspected nothing She did this again several times between Deecember and January Then the other man returned to the United Kingdom and blocked her Apparently, the man was married She felt used and dumped by the other man She went online to do a deep research on him and discovered who his wife was, and also saw that he had children She reached out to the man's wife on Facebook and shared evidence of cheating with her out of anger The wife of that man confronted him He told her this sister was the one who seduced him by putting a love potion in the food she brought to him He said he jokingly asked her to send him food, and she appeared with it, and from that moment, he lost his senses The man's wife reached out to this sister's husband Shared the same evidence this sister shared with her and everything her husband said about the love portion Guess who has been thrown out of the marriage now? The UK man is still married despite cheating, (Love potion) was his excuse to his wife My Christian sister has rented a room close to the Nasarawa border where she is managing with her three children The husband is alone in their terraced apartment now Guess whose phone is not resting day and night? Guess who the husband calls all the time to rant? Guess who the wife calls all the time to intervene so that she can get food and other things for the children Guess who the sisters' parents and siblings call constantly to beg and plead on her behalf It is I. I didn't do detty December I didn't eat the food she cooked I didn't eat the love potion I didn't sleep with anybody I am the one praying, and calling, and listening, and begging I am the one keeping vigil till 2 AM with the husband because I know if he is left to himself, he would get into a car, go to a club, pick up a woman, and slip into deviant behaviour The prayer is for him to cool down and reconsider his wife and children for the sake of Christ and accept them back into his life To ensure that prayer can be heard, I am mounting guard so that another woman won't come into the picture and complicate things I didn't kill my mother; she is still alive Don't kill me for my mother, I am still young Stop doing things that you will make other people pay for in cash, kind, and labour Remember my stripes, as Apostle Paul would say I cannot deny my own brothers and sisters in the faith, even when they misbehave I would prefer, however, that they do not misbehave in any way Dear Christian sisters, please don't cheat on your husbands for any reason Walk away from the union if he is abusive, does not satisfy you sexually, is broke, you are bored, or looking for excitement Take a short break, go to your parents' house, or go and visit a relative Do everything in your power not to cheat, no matter the temptation Defending a cheating spouse is difficult Defending a cheating wife, regardless of circumstances, is a thing of shame You don't have to get married If you choose to get married, don't cheat Don't put me in a position where your husband will ask me, "Can you take it?" and I will be stammering... This is a plea Thank you -GSW-

@HeartMattaz Right now I'm off the grid in that department… but she's got good taste.

@icantfigurehow you have a mail. She is asking if you are single and she is scared to message you. HeartMattaz

“Don’t follow a divørced woman as your friend, even if she’s your sister. Teach her to either reconcile with her husband or remarry. They will tell you men are not important, but still go behind and do otherwise. There’s something you people need to stop, just because your marriage is broken doesn’t mean you should break other people’s marriages.” — Woman of God reacts as she lays c#rs€s on husband snatchers.

Remain with your classmates, because I can tell you that in the New Nigeria, you will not be a leader unless you attended a school and people know your classmates.
— Peter Obi

@Hipsy_afya lol

The way she looked at dad then back at her mom😭😭😂she was in disbelief that it backfired 😩😭😂

The Last Sunday Dinner There was a woman named Maya; brilliant, warm, and the kind of woman who could make a stranger feel like family in five minutes. She met Daniel at a mutual friend's gathering, and from the moment he saw her; laugh, really laugh, something in him settled. He told his best friend Marcus that night: "That's the kind of woman you build something with." For four months, everything was a melody. Sunday dinners. Long phone calls. He introduced her to his mother which, if you know men, you know that means something. Then came one evening. Maya, comfortable now, let her guard down at a dinner with his colleagues. She drank a little more than usual, got loud, and made a joke that embarrassed him in front of people he respected. It wasn't malicious. She didn't even know she'd done it. Daniel smiled through the night. He never mentioned it. But something shifted quietly, like a door closing in another room. He stopped mentioning the future. Trips they'd planned became "we'll see." The word "we" slowly became "I." He was still present, still affectionate but he was loving her from a distance he had already decided on. Six more months passed. Maya was deepening her feelings, rearranging her life, investing in a future he had already quietly withdrawn from. When the end finally came, she was devastated not just by the loss, but by the realization that she had been building on land he'd already sold. The Wisdom in the Wound The elders say: "A man's mind is a courthouse. The verdict can come before the trial is even over." The painful truth is, Daniel wasn't a villain. He was a man who made a silent decision and lacked the courage or the language to communicate it. That is its own flaw. But Maya's lesson wasn't about being perfect, it was about being perceptive. Because here is what nobody tells women: "A man can water a plant he has no intention of keeping." He will show up. He will call. He will even say "I love you" because men can compartmentalize affection and intention in ways that feel foreign to a woman whose heart operates as one whole thing. What Maya Learned She learned that discernment is not paranoia, it is wisdom wearing practical shoes. She learned to watch not just what a man says, but where he is placing his future in conversation. Is your name in it? Are there plans? Is there movement? She learned that comfort can be a trap, that the moment a relationship feels "safe" is often the moment a woman unknowingly lowers the very awareness that protects her. And most importantly, she learned: "You cannot be so busy being loved that you forget to observe whether you are being chosen."

Men are extremely calculated when it comes to dating. A man can date you and at first see you as a wife, but you can do one little thing, just one, and that can automatically cross “wife” off in his mind. The sad part is, he often won’t tell you. He’ll continue dating you even though he no longer sees you that way, because men don’t always view time the same way women do. The only way to protect yourself is to be on your game as a woman and stay discerning.

@DOgbijo Congratulations

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@jon_d_doe I was earning below 100k before I left Nigeria in 2023.

Question: Is there any graduate of 1st class or second upper in Nigeria that is earning below 100k?

@jon_d_doe She has lost out on the other men. She thought they had good intentions for her 😂😂😂 No reasonable man will stay committed to a woman that cheated on her man to be with him

Her eyes don clear now. You better move on or else, you go see shege banza. You Dey wear another man boxer and singlet, Kai. Your story would have been “believable a bit” if the other lady was also in the video putting on singlet and boxer. I’m assuming you left that part out because it never happened 😂😂😂 Another man Dey call you Queen. Lack of boundary / easy access / flirting disguised as help 😂😂😂. Not just that, una even Dey call join too Go and do better in your next relationship. I can bet that both relationships with the other men were not just limited to “help” only 😂😂😂

Please make sure you that you read the entire screenshot in this DM. It's my conversation with a 27 year old lady 👇.

happy workers day! 💪🏽

“This is ste@ling! Officer, give him back his phone. This is exactly how they k!ll£d an innocent civilian three days ago.” — A confrøntation between a man and a Nigerian police officer in Delta state, as he accuses the officer of taking someone’s phone.

In Arandun, Kwara State, a 16-year-old girl, was locked up in a police station for three days, even though she had committed no crime. Her brother had stolen someone’s electric generator, and when the police could not find him, they arrested the innocent girl instead. Her family, neighbours, and community members gathered at the station to protest her detention. The police were told she was underage but showed no concern. No one knows what she went through during those three days in custody.

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This is the picture of the police criminal gang leader who intercepted me at Ajao junction on Wednesday morning being 22nd of April, 2026 while going to work at exactly 05:55am. I saw a colleague by name Comrade chinedu . As i cleared to pick him up, they double crossed me with korope bus without reg number. They forced my colleague out of my vehicle and forcefully collected my key from me and pushed me to the back seat and three of them jumped inside my vehicle all dressed in police uniform, well armed and one on mask. They drove off and turned under NAHCO bridge and headed towards Mile 2. On getting to Cele express, they cleared before the bridge and forced me to transfer the sum of 200k into a named first Bank acct and this transfer was made at gunpoint at exactly 6 29am.Immediately they confirmed the alert, they all jumped down from my vehicle and fled into their korope and zoomed off towards Mile 2. Attached below is the receipt of transaction and the picture of their leader. I reported the incident at the police station, showing them the picture of the gang's team lead but the Nigerian police force has not been forthcoming in their investigation. ✍🏽Aare Feyisayo

Fellow Nigerians, good morning. I woke up this morning after my church service with a deeply reflective heart, and despite every constraint, I felt compelled to share these thoughts with you. Many people do not truly understand the silent pains some of us carry daily—the private struggles, emotional burdens, and quiet battles we face while trying to survive and serve sincerely in difficult circumstances. We now live in an environment that has become increasingly toxic, where the very system that should protect and create opportunities for decent living often works against the people—a society where intimidation, insecurity, endless scrutiny, and discouragement have become normal. More painful is when some of those you associate with, believing you would find understanding and solidarity among them, become part of the pressure you face. Some who publicly identify with you privately distance themselves or join in unfair criticism. We live in a society where humility is mistaken for weakness, respect is seen as a lack of courage, and compassion is treated as foolishness—a system where treating people equally is questioned simply because you refuse to worship status, tribe, class, or power. Personally, I have never looked down on anyone except to uplift them. I have never used privilege, position, or resources to oppress others, intimidate the weak, or make people feel small. To me, leadership has always been about service, sacrifice, and helping others rise. Let me state clearly: my decision to leave the ADC is not because our highly respected Chairman, Senator David Mark, treated me badly, nor because my leader and elder brother, Alhaji Atiku Abubakar, or any other respected leaders did anything personally wrong to me. I will continue to respect them. However, the same Nigerian state and its agents that created unnecessary crises and hostility within the Labour Party that forced me to leave now appear to be finding their way into the ADC, with endless court cases, internal battles, suspicion, and division, instead of focusing on deeper national problems and playing politics built more on control and exclusion than on service and nation-building. Even within spaces where one labours sincerely, one is sometimes treated like an outsider in one’s own home. You and your team become easy targets for every failure, frustration, or misunderstanding, as though honest contribution has become a favour being tolerated rather than appreciated. And when you choose to leave so that those you are leaving can have peace, and you step out into the cold, you are still maligned and your character is questioned. Despite all your efforts to continue working for a better Nigeria and engaging people with sincerity and goodwill, those who do not wish you well continue to attack your character and question your intentions. There are moments I ask God in prayer: Why is doing the right thing often misconstrued as wrongdoing in our country? Why is integrity not valued? Why is the prudent management of resources, especially when invested in critical areas like education and healthcare, wrongly labelled as stinginess? Why are humility and obedience to the rule of law often taken to be weakness rather than discipline? Let me assure all that I am not desperate to be President, Vice President, or Senate President. I am desperate to see a society that can console a mother whose child has been kidnapped or killed while going to school or work. I am desperate to see a Nigeria where people will not live in IDP camps but in their homes. I am desperate for a country where Nigerian citizens do not go to bed hungry, not knowing where their next meal will come from. Yet, despite everything, I remain resolute. I firmly believe that Nigeria can still become a country with competent leadership based on justice, compassion, and equal opportunity for all. A new Nigeria is POssible. -PO

@adedayoagarau There’s a tool like this built by @TruthNigeria123 . You can filter by state or local government. The bloodshed is too much nttmap.org