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@mortalamycoil @DrGipps @chefsevenn nope🤣. You clearly have not tried a decent fish and chips doused in salt and vinegar.

@DrGipps @j_cshrink @chefsevenn {{sigh}} the point is that fries are *always the right call

Be honest, what’s your first thought when you see this meal?

@mortalamycoil @DrGipps @chefsevenn 🤓

@j_cshrink @DrGipps @chefsevenn alright smarty pants

Is nonchalance something to aspire towards? What about being earnest? Trying your best and failing (or succeeding!). Being impacted but moving forward regardless? These qualities seem worthwhile to me.

@DoctorPerin By this definition most folks would be eligible for an AuDHD diagnosus as this seems a fairly common human experience!

The laymen understanding of neurodiversity is starting to look like being sorted into a Harry Potter house.

@mortalamycoil @DrGipps @chefsevenn Yes but that's fries. Fries amd chips aren't the same! (And not chips as crisps...)

@DrGipps @chefsevenn If you want fried fish and a jacket potato just order that - fries should be fried 🍟

@mortalamycoil When a warped version of compassion became the highest virtue,

Doing a training in p/d sv & astounded at the “ethics” day where i learned it is unethical to refuse to sv sh*t therapists bc being critical won’t improve their work. I’d like to be an astronaut but desire ≠ ability. When did we agree there would be NO bar to this work?

@mortalamycoil Camden market is a lot of fun!

Camden, Saturday morning

@AlobhaPatrick Why quote tweet it at all then? Unless the question is literal and you are really wanting to care but just need a reason

Honestly who cares? I cannot see one practical or clinical reason to care.

Social media turns us all into teenage girls:

@jesusrglez Yeah but then you gotta git gud. You can't have sloppy light saber game on your wedding night

I wasn’t brave enough to ask my wife if we could do this.

@mortalamycoil @FeistyKittyPie Group skydive

@FeistyKittyPie Omg what the hell is going on with the three on the right? Terrifying!

I need this sign all around my house.

@FeistyKittyPie The grift is just so boring at this point. Can only hope we are getting closer now to the constant hype cycle going bust. Poor Freud must be knackered - running around in so many heads rent free a century after he was put in the ground so charlatans can try to make a buck.

OK I used to appreciate some of David Burns' work but at his ripe old age he really should not be writing BS like this to grift. Fuck you David. You should be Feeling Bad.

I don't think people realize the degree to which so many social and political influencers live lives totally disconnected from what they say online. I know a lot of these people and Ive seen what's going on: Trad wives who sleep around, leftists who hoard money, social conservatives who are gay, feminists who chase men, fitness influencers take ozempic instead of using their own diet plans, both the libs who are performatively non-judgmental about polyamory and the manosphere guys claiming to have harems are almost always in mongamous relationships, wife guys who cheat, feminist men who abuse women, dating coaches who can't get a date, marriage counselors who are divorced, women who hate whiteness always date white men, racists with black girlfriends, feminists dating racists, uber-libs and trads are of course dating (and fucking), the feminst influencers and a number of based religious patriarchy types live exactly the same way - they have gender roles but their moderate. Almost all of these people are theater kids at heart, and everything they do here is a performance. Nothing you see online is real and you need to remember that.

@DrGipps @psychfox I mean sometimes it's a cult of many people, just none of em patients

@psychfox No

Is therapy just a cult of 2 people?

@mortalamycoil In some ways, better days

@j_cshrink lol fair point but consider also that he wrote the paper in the dark ages of dial-up internet, Nokia bricks and VHS porn. I suspect people read more in 1996 ! 🤷‍♀️ 🕯️

from Kernberg's rather amusing paper entitled: THIRTY METHODS TO DESTROY THE CREATIVITY OF PSYCHOANALYTIC CANDIDATES 13. Assign always double the number of publications that one could reasonably ex- pect students to absorb from one seminar to the next. Ask them ...

@mortalamycoil Different demographics i guess! (He says defensively...). I mean if you're working under Kernberg you must really wanna be there. Feel like one does not trip up and end up in his class 😂

@j_cshrink 🫣🙏🏼

@mortalamycoil "Assign always double the number of publications that one could reasonably ex- pect students to absorb from one seminar to the next." - GOD i was i could expect any ongoing reading to be happening 😭

recent or new developments in theory or technique, including, of course, any ideas that might be germinating in the minds of the students."

@drhingram Breaking a finger would give me a visceral reaction though

I love this chair by Jean-Michel Gadoua but I’m worried it might scratch the floor

@jesusrglez @TyTroncoso She's not even remotely attractive... .....🤤🤤🤤

@TyTroncoso 😍😍😍

Cc @jesusrglez

i have come to feel in recent years that the science of therapy is overvalued to the detriment of the art of it. Dynamic (alive&ongoing) formulation=necessary, shared sense of a problem=necessary...rigid formulation at expense of process=unnecessary