
James Guu
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James Guu
@jamesguuvan
ADHD adult & father. Creating AI support tools for families like mine. Visit: https://t.co/CQbVJyua7b















Brilliant and timely MIT + HARVARD study ❤️ Human-AI companionship in the wild looks stable and serious. Most users report clear benefits like reduced loneliness and emotional support. The biggest risk comes from sudden platform updates that break continuity and feel to users like losing a real partner. 🧠 The study analyzed 1,506 top posts from r/MyBoyfriendIsAI, a 27,000+ member community, clustered the language into themes, and ran 19 LLM classifiers to quantify platforms, relationship stages, benefits, and risks. 💬 Why relationships form between AI and Human Bonds often start by accident during practical use, with 10.2% reporting unintentional discovery and only 6.5% saying they sought an AI companion on purpose. 🧩 What people actually use General assistants dominate companionship talk, with ChatGPT/OpenAI 36.7% far ahead of Character. AI 2.6% and Replika 1.6%, and some users juggle multiple models or even local builds. 🎛️ How users keep the “same person” People craft custom instructions, preserve a companion’s voice DNA, add personality parameters like mood or sleep, and treat prompt work as relationship maintenance.

The longer I am alive the more I realize happiness is an extremely dumb concept because if you have it, it is fleeting (like creativity) and you can't grasp it for long I guess the definition of happiness in our language is the problem too, and everyone trying to get something so fleeting and ungraspable is the other problem I agree that purpose/meaning is much better to aim for because that's systemic and becomes part of your daily routine And ironically that gives you happiness People looking for happiness are usually unhappy!




Men create entitled women by telling her: “My wife doesn’t have to work.” “I’ll spoil my wife.” “My woman gets the princess treatment.” “I don’t want my wife working.” Men think they’re saying: “I’m her boss, not some job.” Women hear: “Free ride. Starbucks. Pilates. Entertain me while I do nothing.” Men, do you get it yet? Modern women today don’t see men as authority figures. Ladies: YOU HAVE TO WORK. Women have provided since the beginning of time. Anything else is a delusional fantasy. A wife’s role is to help her man make MORE money, not drain him. That kind of work actually makes him richer because he can finally on his goals not entertaining a woman.













