J'lan Oliver

empathy burnout is real, im tired of understanding people.

Being perceived my becoming is nasty work, but necessary for success.

Some people enter your life to show you how your boundaries need to be stronger than your empathy and love.

I really be making the worst decisions.

The “new” Avatar movie is basically season 2 of Korra.

Damn nothing new with vampires & witches to watch?????? Hollywood losing me bad

Adulthood is realising no one cares about you, and the show must go on.

Your partner shouldn't be talking to: -their ex -your ex -someone who clearly likes them -someone who used to like them -someone they used to like -someone who's waiting their turn -someone who disrespects you This isn't being toxic, this is called having boundaries...

there’s no universe where the person who unbalances your nervous system is the love of your life

Some connections only survive because you keep lowering your standards.

Dating in your 20s -30s is realizing chemistry isn’t enough. Character matters.

detach. let it end. wish them well. let it hurt. let it be accepted. let it heal. let it go. move on.

Heavy on...I ain't even mad at you. That's just who you are. That's your character. You will never change. Be that, but I won't ever deal with it again..

The hardest part of wisdom is learning to stay silent when the ego wants to speak.

leave after the first red flag because it never gets better.

My final act of love

Shorten the space between ideas and execution.

i don't want a woman to ever settle for me. go find your dream man, and if you can't find him, don't come trying to use me in the process. i want mine clingy, reassuring, nasty, unapproachable, God fearing & eyes on only me.

horrible era to be an adult