Yall… USAA has lost their fucking minds.
Look at this insurance quote I got for two vehicles for my sons and I.
Of course having two teenage drivers bumps it up but yall….
@USAA y’all have lost your fucking minds.
I have had zero wrecks.
I had one ticket when I was 32 years which wasn’t anything crazy.
My one son still has his permit and my older son has one speeding ticket that he went to whatever drivers course was but it was five miles over.
Maybe it’s BECAUSE YALL SUCK AND HATE MILITARY …
….anyway.
I don’t think a lot of men really want to know why women’s desire fades. Every time women try to explain it, a lot of men get defensive instead of listening.
But the truth is, if a woman consistently does not want sex with her husband, there is a very good chance she is not actually enjoying the sex they are having. Obviously, medical issues are a different conversation, but a lot of the time desire disappears because the sex was never that good for her, or because he became complacent and stopped making sure she was enjoying it too.
Then, instead of addressing that honestly, he starts begging, pleading, sulking, or acting wounded over sex that is objectively terrible for her. And nothing makes a man less desirable faster than turning sex into another chore she has to manage emotionally.
A lot of men let themselves go too. People love to talk about women letting themselves go after kids, and I agree that it happens, but I see just as many men doing it. Desire is not owed because you have a marriage certificate. It has to be maintained by remaining desirable and making sure the other person actually enjoys having sex with you.
That said, most people don’t enter marriage assuming it will become sexless. So if you have completely opted out of the sexual relationship and see no repair, you have to be honest with yourself.
You cannot expect a man or a woman to remain sexually faithful forever when you have decided the sexual part of the relationship is over. If you love them, care enough to figure out where the desire went if you actually value the relationship.
And if you don’t love them, and you are just comfortable, then let them go find love. Or be honest enough to allow them to have a sexual relationship outside of you. Don’t let your selfishness and inability to work on things be the cause of their pain.
Remember, no one signs up for marriage with the intention of becoming a monk.
@csstone1161@jodyknowz@Kloktklo@brianatheroux I'm not a religious person, but can you not read past the first sentence or something? It's a UNION of TWO PEOPLE. His body belongs to her, her body belongs to him.
I think that second sentence is what you're leaving out on purpose to suit YOUR agenda.
@sholnufff@jodyknowz@brianatheroux the person I am responding too, made a point of leaving out the part about the husband.
either read the thread in sequential order or don't respond if a statement makes no sense to you.
@jodyknowz@brianatheroux I love how you mentioned the wife not having control over her body but not that the husband doesn't ha e control over his...
And it's right there in your image
That scripture basically confirms what OP said
@jodyknowz@brianatheroux I don't think you understand this verse. It doesn't give a man right to rape his wife. A man is supposed to take care of his wife as something valuable and treat her lovingly. Not fulfilling her own romantic and sexual needs is not showing love.
Its so funny how many women this post triggered. Relationships are about communication. When one party shuts down, everything falls apart. Marriage comes from the Bible, and non-believers still do it and wonder why they aren't happy. If you don't believe, don't do it. Simple as that.
@RaySeventh@LeahnNovash@brianatheroux Sex is about connection. If you're not truly connecting with your partner, then it won't be good. It's as simple as that. Most people aren't understanding what the crux or the issue.
@LeahnNovash@jodyknowz@brianatheroux Lmao. Me personally, i think spouses are entitled to good sex but hey, maybe your view of sex for the sake of sex without pleasure is actually a good idea and doesn't somehow lead to resentment.
@Ashleyn0911@brianatheroux And after reviewing your replies. It seems you're a radical feminist, which explains why you can't adequately reason with rational thought.
@brianatheroux It's literally in the Bible. Your body is no longer yours. People dont understand the basics of marriage, and that's why so many people have problems. You only withhold sex from your partner to fast and pray. Thats it. Every other reason is bs.
Most people would just put out the fire. This guy chose a different path.
A police officer arrives at a field to address an unauthorized open fire. The officer informs the individual that they are in violation of local village ordinances and must extinguish the fire and leave the property.
The individual is highly non-compliant, refusing to follow the officer's commands, claiming ownership of the land, and repeatedly citing "constitutional rights" while refusing to cooperate.
As the interaction progresses, the individual reaches into a bag. The officer, perceiving a threat that the bag may contain a weapon, draws their service firearm and orders the individual to keep their hands visible.
A tense standoff ensues where the officer repeatedly attempts to de-escalate by ordering the individual to walk toward them and move away from the fire. The individual continues to argue, claiming they are hard of hearing and refusing to comply, leading the officer to keep them at gunpoint while awaiting backup.
The video concludes with the officer maintaining distance and control of the scene until backup arrives to assist in securing the individual and the scene.
The suspect was charged with resisting/obstructing, felony battery or threats to law enforcement, and disorderly conduct. He later took a plea deal, pleading no contest to resisting/obstructing and disordely conduct. The battery or threats to law enforcement charge was dismissed. He was ordered to pay $504.50.