TopherTheeSag

none of the people who have tried to belittle me live a life l admire. and that's enough for me.

@blackishpress Why are they still carrying this?! We didn't care then and we dont care now! Getting smacked is a risk you take when you talk shit for a living bffr.

Wanda Sykes says she likely won't host the Oscars again, and talks about the moment between Will Smith and Chris Rock "Y'all gotta realize, I was working that night, and I watched my co-worker get popped, at work, you know what I'm saying? That's not supposed to happen. I was upset, like physically upset about it. And then it even sickened me more, watching everybody just sit out there and not react. And then to give that man an award afterwards, I was like, I'm done with y'all." Sykes says Smith called her to apologize: "Yeah, he did, he called, but you know what? I was actually physically sick. I had a, I had a sinus infection, so I didn't pick up, but he left a message. I received it. I accepted. I'm good." 🔗 instagram.com/reel/DWhAnzUAb…

@iMansRule @Lush_Beauty1 SYBAU

Growing up without guidance does not just delay you. It distorts how you see yourself. You step into adulthood already behind, then get judged for not knowing rules nobody taught you. That creates frustration, self-doubt, and sometimes anger that has nowhere to go. For men, it gets heavier because nobody really checks in. You are just expected to figure it out. So you either stay stuck in resentment, or you make a hard shift into responsibility. Here is the part most people will not say directly. Your past explains your position, but it does not excuse staying there. At some point, a man has to become his own teacher, his own structure, his own discipline. That is not fair, but fairness is not part of the equation. Men who rise from that background build something different. They build awareness instead of autopilot. They build systems instead of relying on luck. They become intentional because they had no other option. And that becomes an advantage if handled right. The mistake is comparing your timeline to people who were guided early. Different starting points mean different timelines. Focus on direction, not speed. Learn basic life skills deliberately. Money management, communication, health, discipline. Fix one area at a time instead of trying to repair everything at once. And most importantly, drop the need for validation from people who did not equip you properly in the first place. You do not need their approval to move forward. You need structure, consistency, and patience with your own growth. A man who builds himself from confusion becomes far more solid than one who was carried.

Having parents who didn’t prepare you for literally anything in life, judging you for being “behind” as an adult is definitely a canon event for a lot of neurodivergent people.

@RichyrichX20 Well she doesn't pay people so she should have plenty of money

Honest question. wtf does she do for a living when she’s not on the show?

@medusa___8 In 5 years no ones going to care about music from her. It's too much to fast, there's nothing to grow into. There's a reason it takes decades for others to do these things and it's not because they are less talented or popular. She's a veteran in her group but a rookie soloist.

Pour moi Lisa est entouré d’une équipe qui veulent simplement lui faire brûler des étapes pour avoir le nom de «  première idol kpop à » mais ça décrédibilise juste son impact. Au lieu de laisser mûrir ces projets musicaux pour laisser le succès venir petit à petit

“Of course BTS didn’t depict Howard as an HBCU”

slavery is worse, far worse, than the worst oscar bait slavery movie you've ever seen. physically and emotionally. whites think slavery was just whips and chains, like they were livestock, but livestock was treated better.

I’m kind of over f*gs with ill informed think pieces about drag race. Go to a drag show. Support the art form if you actually gaf instead of thoughtlessly communicating that the ONE way you choose to consume it should be cancelled 😭 And also fuck you idk…

glad twitter is giving lashings to the people who say drag race needs to be “ cancelled “ or “ take a break “. idc how “ bad “ drag race gets i never want it to end idc idc idc

@cuntneycox @YallQunt They're being obtuse. Let's just move along, chile 🙄

@YallQunt @luvsickboy12 i think they’re saying it’s not just a gay black man’s issue. it’s all black men regardless of creed or orientation.

Maybe we should also be asking the black gay men why they keep subjecting themselves to be fetishized by other races and mistaking it for acceptance and equality

White people don’t hear the saxophones. YALL ARE THE SAXOPHONES!

they really created the perfect abuse system because the parent company is absolved and everyone shits on the sublabels, only a matter of time before other kpop companies do something similar

yk when black kpop fans voice their opinions or concerns i think everyone should just shut the fuck up & listen. thank you

full shade I only want to be in community with black queer people who promote and advocate for femininity, faggotry, and trans people

Please get that spongebob dancing musty white guy off my timeline I'm begging you

@edwardbrgr Its so underrated I try so hard to get people to watch it. She should have swept awards season while it was airing. Its truly my favorite show of all time. Honestly everyone on the show is great.

I feel the urge to rewatch this show but I just need to find a week of free time to watch the entire thing again from the start Tatiana Maslany reinvented television with Orphan Black the same way James Gandolfini did with The Sopranos and Bryan Cranston with Breaking Bad. Yes, my praise for her goes as far as that. Her performance in Orphan Black is revolutionary!

So the big thing that is going to come out of this is that the US is losing militarily to Iran and Russia, and would probably lose to China. The problem was that the defense budget was just a racket to make people rich and was never set up to fight a 21st century war.

the irony of imperial scholasticide is that they’ll bomb your schools, universities, & libraries— the very existence of which demonstrates that there was, in fact, a vibrant intellectual culture & community—& then insist on calling you uneducated barbarians.