Maria Esposito

Breaking! @OfficialPDC protects the female category in darts Well done @Deta132 for fighting to restore fairness to all female darts players “As a result of its review, the DRA is satisfied that to achieve fair competition in darts, only biological females should be eligible to compete in women’s tournaments regulated by DRA Rules.”

So having been compared to a holocaust denier by a local cllr (who was once a friend) Stroud Brewery and Taproom have cancelled the event organised by GlosWomen. @robjessel16 & I will be taking advice.

No. Do not "dress how you please" thank you very much. I was walking up Islington High Street a few weeks ago and a giant bloke who must have been in his 70s was wearing a bra top and a black skirt that was so short his bum cheeks were showing. I felt violated. I was being forced to participate in his sleazy sexual fetish. We don't get to dress how we please. That is not how a properly functioning society works. We have rules of propriety and about what is, or is not normal. You wouldn't go down to the shops wearing your nightclothes, any more than you would attend a funeral in a bathing suit, or go to a wedding wearing gym clothes. Whether we are aware of it or not, we all follow rules regarding dress and our personal presentation and behaviour when in public. But these unspoken social rules like so many others, have been broken by transvestite men and we're all just expected to put up with it. No. Men should not wear women's clothes in public. They should not be sporting false breasts. (See attached. @UniofOxford should have sent Mr Matt Rattley, They/Them, straight home for showing up to the workplace in this disgusting manner). They should not be wearing full make-up and wigs. None of this is normal. Pursuing 'inclusivity' to the detriment of the wider society is not normal. The erosion of sex boundaries regarding dress and public presentation was a precursor to the God-awful catastrophe the West is now mired in. Shame was a powerful behavioural regulator, but that has been jettisoned in favour of every individual (nearly always a man like Mr Rattley) pursuing what makes him feel happy/affirmed/safe, blah, blah, blah, and sod everyone else. Behaviour that should have been kept private, in the bedroom, is now flouted with impunity all over the streets and offices and schools in the name of 'inclusivity'. The "dress how you please" approach completely ignores the fact that we are part of a social group and our behaviours impact others. And, it is also wildly developmentally abnormal because it encourages egocentricity. Toddlers and children are by nature egocentric because their brains are underdeveloped. Their executive functions have not come online because the neurons in their prefrontal cortex are not yet: (a) numerous enough; (b) connected; (c) myelinated. They are therefore only capable of seeing the world from their own perspective. Their primary 'drive' is with meeting their immediate needs and getting instant gratification, (whether this is pulling a pot of boiling water down on their heads, or wearing their favourite fireman or fairy outfit to nursery.) Much of good parenting therefore involves being a patient 'guardian' whilst the young brain matures, and in teaching children that they are not the centre of the universe and that they cannot, indeed, do (or wear) "whatever they please". But when we say that transvestite men can "wear whatever they please", we are giving them license to regress to an earlier stage of developmental functioning and behaviour. We are giving them license to put their ego desires above all considerations of propriety, decency and social convention. I call this 'Neo-toddlerism'. No other group in society is given this freedom, so why transvestites? And, it's been three weeks and I still can't get the horrible sight of the elderly bloke in his black bustier and mini skirt tottering up Islington High Street. He did the equivalent of wearing a firemen's outfit to school, and in doing so he made me (and every other woman) a wholly unwilling participant in his sordid sex-fantasy. No. Do not "dress how you please". It's time society starts saying "no" to Neotoddlers and TTPs like that grubby bloke and like Matt Rattley, (They/Them). It is time for transvestite men to go back to following the damn rules. Like the rest of us!