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@ned714
Former engineer. Current observer. Daily soaking in /ai/china/reading/music/movies/sports. Liberals never believe in authority. Follows ≠ endorsements.
Hangzhou, China Katılım Ekim 2012
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日本70岁法学教授高仓良一把自己被中国女子“崩老头”的经历整理成书,希望通过现身说法警示更多中老年群体。
高仓良一在退休后的独居生活中因情感空虚与财务焦虑,通过SNS平台认识了自称“爱子”的中国女子,随后陷入其精心设计的情感陷阱,总计损失925万日元(约合人民币45万元左右)
女子亲切的叫他“哥哥”,不断奉承,展示所谓“5191.5美元盈利”的截图,还用“我们的秘密♡”、“一起开启新人生”等甜蜜话语制造亲密感和共同梦想,诱导他参与“外汇/资产管理”项目,最终让高仓教授放下了戒备,无视银行柜员多次警告给对方转了925万日元。
高仓教授在书中详细复盘了骗子的“洗脑手法”:精准共情、制造秘密感、用甜蜜未来画饼、逐步升级金额。他坦言:“我本以为自己不会上当,却在欲望与孤独的影子中一步步坠落”。



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The operation of a vast state machinery cannot rely solely on one emperor; it requires an entire bureaucratic system. Because in those days, there wasn't even telephone communication—everything was extremely primitive.
The establishment of a bureaucratic system is crucial to the functioning of the entire country. In particular, whether the subjective will of the state apparatus can lead the country in implementing policies down to the grassroots level is extremely important.
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@ned714 There are many schools but less influential in Warring Period.
What you described is more or less Spring Autumn period.
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Ancient Rome was famous for its laws; how about Ancient China?
Before the Warring States Period (475–221 BCE), the two main schools of thought on governance were 帝道 (無為) and 王道 (德治). The first promoted non-interference in people’s lives, letting the natural order flow. The second emphasized empathy and believed human nature was good.
After years of wars, kind but non-fighting people were culled while the fierce survived. The Warring States Period saw more than 5% of the population killed directly in slaughter, and mass graves can still be seen today in Shanxi province. Governance gradually shifted toward militaristic states that used laws to centralize power instead of distributing it among nobility.
There were three goals:
- Centralize power under the king, as many states at the time were splitting power among establishments that were not incentivized to change.
- Promote grain production and taxation efficiency, as wars were purely driven by the supply of food and men.
- Abolish inheritance of nobility titles and reward based on military achievements, so that the state would have unlimited men for wars.
Sweeping reforms known as 商鞅變法 led to the rise of Qin. Other states adopted similar reforms less thoroughly, fearing overthrow by their own establishments. Qin, the weakest and on the brink of collapse, had nothing to lose.
On centralizing power:
- Laws stated that the king held absolute power, no matter how ridiculous. Citizens had no right to doubt or express opinions and owed unquestioning obedience.
- All activities and exchanges required real-name identification (similar to 實名制).
- Reporting law violations was encouraged; failure resulted in execution.
- Violating orders led to execution of entire villages (連坐, collective punishment).
- Executions were extremely cruel, ranging from being torn apart by five horses to chopping off noses or hands or tattooing faces for lighter offenses.
- Executions of 700–800 people a day were normal; rivers ran with blood for days.
This absolute terror transformed society to stop questioning the laws and focus only on compliance.
On promoting productivity and taxation efficiency:
- All able-bodied people were dedicated to farming and military service, while other industries were discouraged or banned.
- Nobility lands were redistributed to private citizens, and taxes were introduced on private lands.
Before this period, farmers kept all grains from their private lands but worked assigned time on nobility lands. The government noticed far lower production on nobility lands because farmers cared less for them. Thus, nobility lands were redistributed and taxes on private properties introduced.
On abolishing nobility inheritance and rewarding military achievements:
- Nobility lands could no longer be inherited without capturing enemy heads.
- Capturing enemy heads was rewarded with land, official ranks, housing, and slaves.
This gave lower classes a path to rise while higher classes had to keep proving military success to retain ranks. It gave Qin almost unlimited men willing to die in wars.
Yet such reforms had weaknesses. While they enabled Qin’s quick rise, this approach could not govern in peacetime.
Within just 15 years after Qin conquered China, it fell because people could not endure the tyrannical laws, especially collective punishment. But the spirit largely remained in later dynasties, where the law was the king and the king was the law. There was a famous exchange: “漢家自有制度,本以霸王道雜之,奈何純任德教,用周政乎!” from the 10th emperor of Han, who lectured his son that a king had to be both cruel and kind to govern. That set the governing style for the next thousand years.
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What I mean is that, in many cases, the will of the emperor also determines the direction of the country's development.
But to achieve stability, in addition to culture, some fundamental national policies are essential. Just like Qin's rapid expansion policy. From a state-led perspective, farming and warfare were basic national policies. This policy allowed Qin to develop and grow quickly. Farming meant cultivating the land, which provided abundant food, and with food came a large population. Warfare meant expansion and the plundering of land.
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我看到这个新疆的儿子娃娃说,如果阿根廷夺不了冠他就吃屎。然后我去看了一下,他的这个视频已经删掉了。
说实话,我觉得男人嘛,一个钉子一个眼,还是要有点血性的。
wen@Jvewen
今甜决赛他两肯定有一个要吃屎 谁来了也不好使 真神也没用 我说的
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@JAKEVIN16 @aisuru5yarikata @Chinaview0022 在日本这个环境,明明知道双方都有这样的情境下,你的销售是怎么做呢?比如说你越客气,我就越觉得你就是在伪装,因为日本文化有这样的伪装的情况,是吧?
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@aisuru5yarikata @Chinaview0022 这个太偏颇了,就跟业务员一样,哪个不是满脸笑容的处理事情。
我自己的跟日本人交流的经验是,我对人家好,不管他领不领情,至少我心里过得去就好。一次两次熟了之后,大家也都对我很好。
破冰,嘴甜,到哪里都适用。
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要中國那片土地立法⋯⋯比登天還難⋯
因為人民的素質教育太低⋯⋯
再加上極權統治⋯⋯
還有吃貓狗文化⋯

Samson@GweiloX
無法釋懷,真的,不屠村都沒法放下這件事,整條村沒有一個好人,旺旺流浪兩年多,沒一個人想著救助一下,哪怕只是帶去絕育,或者最低限度拍個照片發小紅書找人幫忙,一般人看到都會肯眾籌救助的。而且那五個畜牲不止一次欺負旺旺,難道村里的大人都是瞎的嗎?所以說村里沒有一個人是無辜的。
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@StayMoonNoon 我父母都来新加坡住过,我母亲90年代还去过美国,而且我姥姥姥爷都在美国住过一段时间,我姥爷还是在美国过世的,我两个姨和两个表姐还有一个表弟都常在国外,按说我母亲是有见识的,只能说这几年国内洗脑太厉害了。
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我父母80多了,已经记忆力衰退的很厉害+半失能了,还是不依不饶的劝告我,要好好工作赚钱,不要到处旅游,外面的世界很危险,日本人很坏。。。
当然我一句都没听,但也不敢直接回怼他们,只能哄,假装自己还在上班。
达芬七Seven@davinci_seven
跟一个北美长大的台湾兄弟聊天 他说他上个月又被他妈电话训了一顿 不是因为他做错了什么 是他妈打来提醒他 不要喝酒 不要抽烟 少吃油腻 要努力工作 他说妈我已经39岁了 结婚七年 房子两套 存款七位数 我上礼拜刚签了一个VP级别的offer 他妈说—— 那也不能骄傲 你要继续努力 他说他挂了电话坐在书房里想了很久 突然意识到一个恐怖的事: 他这辈子可能永远等不到那句"你做得很好"了 不是他妈不爱他 是他妈的"教育模式"里面tm没有毕业按钮 在她的操作系统里 孩子永远是一个需要被纠正的项目 东亚父母真的是要多鼓励自己的孩子
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@TigerKingByte 過去半年是歷史上第一次出現大規模中國普通人接觸西方規則的情況。
這個影響很可能會滲透到數十年之後。
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