Ngoboka Francois

Our bedrock has left us early. Hardworking and love marked her journey. You will remain forever in our memory. RIP Mum.

I remember April 1994 as if it were yesterday. This short testimony goes to the youth, but especially to those who dare to speak of a “double genocide.” I was not hunted. But I remember how Tutsis were hunted. I remember conversations with my Tutsi peers. Fear in their eyes. Total despair. Wondering where to hide. I remember Tutsi neighbours trying to return to their places of origin, hoping to find safety, and never making it. Some were killed on the way. Others were killed when they arrived, in places they believed would protect them. I remember churches becoming places of animosity. Places of slaughter. And I remember not understanding how people could suddenly become so cruel. There was a roadblock near our home. People were stopped and asked to present their IDs. If your ID said Tutsi, you were to die. If you had children, they were to die, no matter their age. If you were pregnant, the unborn child was to die first. The unspeakable had become normal. There was a nearby forest. Killers had given it a name, CND. And we would hear them say they had taken people to CND. That is how death was spoken about. Casually. As if it meant nothing. No one questioned it. Those who could ask were the same ones killing or giving the orders. At no point during the Genocide against the Tutsi did I hear of Hutus being hunted for being Hutu. Tutsis were hunted. Systematically. Ruthlessly. Yes, some Hutus were killed because they were mistaken for Tutsi. Yes, some Hutus were killed because they refused to kill, or because they chose to hide and protect Tutsis. Yes, many Hutus died on the way to exile, mostly from cholera. But they were never hunted to death for being Hutu. Let us not distort history. Let us not equalise what was never equal. To the youth, Rwanda was once dead. What you see today did not exist. And yet, we rose. We rebuilt. We chose unity over division. Today, Rwanda stands strong, among the fast-developing nations, guided by visionary leadership under H.E. Paul Kagame. Under Inkotanyi, who stopped the genocide when the international community failed to act. Our dignity was restored. Today, amahanga aratwubaha. This is not something we can ever take for granted. We must stand together to protect our country and our leadership. We must stand together to fight any harm against Rwanda. We must stand together against any form of genocide ideology. We must stand together against denial, so that “Never Again” becomes a reality. Today and forever. As our President said, Rwanda cannot die twice. #Kwibuka32

Artwork by @NuruFreddy beautifully illustrating #Rwanda’s tragic history, resilience and transformation journey! #kwibuka32 Remember - Unite - Renew #kwibuka32

Thank you Governor @GregAbbott_TX 🙏🏾!

This child (I’m not sure which country they’re from) defended the Rwandan flag until the very end and won the game.

Dear Women in Marriage, I wish to share my story as a testimony to all of you walking through this sacred journey called marriage. My name is Sofia, I am 39 years old, a divorcee after 13 years of marriage, and a mother of three beautiful children, two boys and one girl. I got married when I was 23 years old. At that time, I was young, inexperienced, and too naïve to fully understand what marriage truly meant. My husband was a good man of caring, home-loving, and responsible. Yet, in my youthful ignorance, I mistook my desire for freedom as strength, not realizing that marriage itself requires maturity, patience, and understanding. By the age of 31, I already had three children. Life became a routine of motherhood and house management to caring for my husband, tending to the children, and ensuring everything ran smoothly. Two of my children were already in school, and the youngest was under the care of our nanny. I finally had some freedom to move around, go shopping, and do things on my own. Then, one ordinary evening while shopping, something happened that changed my entire life. As I reached for an item, I felt a gentle touch from behind. Turning back, I saw a man smiling warmly at me. He greeted me politely, and we exchanged a few words. He was charming, well-spoken, and carried himself with confidence. When I was done shopping, he insisted on paying my bill and walked me to the car. I felt seen, admired, and appreciated. Later that evening, I couldn't stop thinking about him. His kindness reminded me of what my marriage had been missing or at least what I thought it was missing. Two days later, he texted me, asking if we could meet for coffee. I agreed. We talked for hours. He was attentive, understanding, and seemed to say everything a lonely woman longs to hear. By the end of our conversation, he suggested we go somewhere private to continue talking. I didn't resist. We booked a room, and that evening, everything changed. The intimacy we shared made me feel alive again. But what I didn't realize was that moment of pleasure would cost me everything I had built for years. When I went back home, I started comparing him to my husband. His words, his touch, even his presence. Suddenly, my husband felt boring, weak, and unfulfilling. I began to avoid him and withheld intimacy, believing that the man I had met was what I truly needed. Our affair continued until the man I was seeing asked me to leave my husband so that we could start a new life together. Blinded by emotions and lust, I caused fights at home and finally walked out of my marriage, believing I was walking into happiness. Today marks three years since I left my home. But I can tell you this from the bottom of my heart — there is nothing special out here to celebrate. The man I left my husband for turned out to be nothing close to the man I abandoned. After just three months of living together, he began coming home late, avoiding me, and entertaining other women. He even started reminding me that I had children with another man. The same person who once made me feel wanted began to make me feel worthless. I have suffered greatly for the choice I made that evening in that shopping mall. I lost my home, my husband, my children's respect, and my peace of mind, all for a moment that was never worth it. Dear women, if you are married, please value your marriage. Do not be deceived by attention, flattery, or momentary pleasure. The man who can make you a wife is far better than the one who can only make you a girlfriend. If you have challenges, work on them. If you feel lonely, talk about it. But never destroy your home because of what looks exciting outside. It fades quickly. I don't know if my husband will ever forgive me, but I've made peace with God and with myself. My story is not to seek sympathy, but to warn and guide others who may be standing where I once stood. Learn from me. Protect your marriage. Value your husband. And above all, guard your heart.

FACTUAL CLARIFICATION ON SANITATION WORKERS IN #KIGALI Recent claims circulating on social media regarding the treatment of street cleaners in #KigaliYacu are inaccurate and misleading. Since last year, street cleaning services across major roads of the City of Kigali have been delivered through structured Youth Cooperatives. These cooperatives not only ensure the cleanliness of the city but also provide organised employment, improved livelihoods, and access to social protection for their members. The facts are clear: ▶️ All staff receive their salaries on time. Any irregularities, when identified, are addressed immediately. ▶️ Since the establishment of the cooperatives, salaries have increased by 40%, driven by improved efficiency and better management of resources. ▶️ As part of this improved system, low-cost items such as brooms are gradually acquired by the workers themselves. This approach reduces operational costs and is one of the key factors that made it possible to achieve the 40% salary increase. The cost of a broom represents less than 2% of a worker’s monthly salary. ▶️ All workers are paid through formal banking systems, enabling contributions to the Rwanda Social Security Board (RSSB) pension benefits. ▶️ In districts such as @KicukiroDistr, members participate in the INGOBOKA savings scheme, which provides structured support during social and family events; and will soon help them pay for Health Insurance for their families. ▶️ Recent Cooperative-run shop established allow members to access essential goods at affordable prices, with flexible payment arrangements. ▶️ All cooperatives operate under formal contracts with the City of Kigali that safeguard members’ rights, welfare, and working conditions. These systems reflect a deliberate and ongoing commitment to protect the dignity of street cleaners, improve livelihoods, and ensure structured and accountable service delivery. The @CityofKigali remains firmly committed to continuously strengthening these systems and addressing any identified gaps through appropriate channels. Rwanda will continue to progress through collective effort, starting with recognising and valuing essential workers whose contributions are vital to national development, including street cleaners. Thank you.

Survival, despite the burdens of life

🚨 The 2025 Labour Force Survey is out!

Money or Passion: Which drives you more? 💬 @rubstafford1 explains why passion is the ultimate fuel for any entrepreneur or professional. If the money stops, will you keep going? Watch the full episode here: youtu.be/hpaKY2pG5k4?si… #IngaziRw #NextChapter #Rwanda

Le Rwanda est un pays sur! #InvestinRwanda

➡️Rwanda's economy grew by 9.4% in 2025, outperforming projections and confirming the strength of our macroeconomic fundamentals. The performance reflects consistent policy execution, prudent macroeconomic management, and sustained investment across productive sectors of the economy. For businesses and investors, the signal is clear: we continue to provide a stable, predictable, and pro-business environment, anchored in strong institutions, ongoing reforms, and a clear long-term development vision.

🩺 Episode 3: We discuss the common causes of persistent coughs in children, the differences between viral and bacterial infections, when parents should seek medical care. Watch: youtu.be/ax0QR7cNElc #healthybeginningspodcast

Me administering physical fitness to my two wives in the village after reading on Twitter that they need to unfat.

Rwanda's economy grew by 9.4% in 2025, surpassing the projected target of 7.0% according to the official GDP report released by @statisticsRW. The performance reflects strong, resilient growth across sectors. tinyurl.com/yc8cmeh9

At Jobs for Youth Day, Olivia Africa shared how she turned a #COVID-19 setback into a thriving soap business employing 18 people. The @WorldBankGroup is working with partners to ignite momentum for youth employment in #Rwanda. #JobsForYouth Read more: worldbank.org/en/news/featur…

Scholarship Alert for Rwandan students! 🇷🇼🎓 Apply for the Government of Rwanda – NTU Singapore Master’s Programme in: ✅Smart Manufacturing ✅Artificial Intelligence ✅Materials Science and Engineering More info at bit.ly/4sdbwZY

📢 This week on INGAZI This one is interesting 😋 Imagine going from barista → founder 🔝 This is the journey of Stafford Rubagumya from Stafford Coffee Brewers. 🎙 The full episode drops this week. Stay tuned 👉 @ingazi_official?si=RzWFa8Dy0xkSiAed" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noopener">youtube.com/@ingazi_offici…⁠ #YouthInspiration #IngaziRw

“It is deeply ironic to hear the DRC accuse Rwanda of undermining a culture of peace in the Great Lakes region. Rwanda has spent the past 32 years rebuilding a nation completely rendered to ashes by the 1994 Genocide against the Tutsi. Rwanda unfortunately understands more profoundly the catastrophic consequences of hatred, division and war. That is precisely why Rwanda has placed unity, reconciliation and a culture of peace at the center of its national reconstruction.” 🎥 Rwanda’s Right of Reply delivered by First Counsellor @EdNguweneza during #HRC61’s Panel Discussion on Human Rights and a Culture of Peace. 🔗 Read the full statement: rwandainswitzerland.gov.rw/actualites/inf…