FMS isn’t all the necessary for me to get but I still want it. My nose is a HUGE source of dysphoria for me.
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female2theymab
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female2theymab
@queencypionate
gay & effeminate FtM transsexual. priv: @earringmagicftm. T: 5/19/25, DI: 6/9/26.
he/she | 19 Katılım Eylül 2020
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God forbid I wish I looked like the other men in my family
emberflux ⚢@emberflux
yes, "looksmaxxing" is racist. next question?
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@ginnnnnn05 @boymodercherry “Label hoarding” really feels like overcompensating with not having a real sense of identity lmao
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 yeah that's why i added 3k for random expenses. all of those are also costs of top surgery.
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 If you’re going to make a claim like that, you should be able to back it up. And those few thousand dollars really add up, that’s more than $300 less a month, seriously limiting someone’s ability to save money.
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 it was literally just the first numbers that came up when i googled it. this isn't a serious debate lol idc about sources? trans women r paid roughly 10 cents less per dollar iirc? so if the average trans man makes 20 dollars an hour, she'd make 18. so 36000 a year not 40000?
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 Flight, pain medications, long hospital stays, time off work, all those things add up.
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 obviously there's a gap but it's not so significant a trans woman could never ever get surgery. flights to Turkey r like 2k. just go there get your surgery for 15k and spend the same amount as i will be for top surgery?
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 Do you have a source for that? And are you sure that that’s what it indicates and not trouble accessing or affording ffs? Trans women are paid less.
I’m paying less than 10k for top surgery in the US + to get surgery in Turkey, you still have to be able to afford to go to Turkey.
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 like half of trans men get top surgery, 10% of trans women get ffs. surely that indicates that more of us need top surgery than they need ffs, given it's like ten grand in turkey, which is quite a bit less than top surgery here
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 Trans women do not have easier transitions than trans men just because trans men often have to get top surgery to pass, because trans women often need to get a more expensive surgery in order to pass. Ffs IS less accessible, passing IS harder for most trans women.
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 genuinely what is your point here? if you're ftm why are you trying so hard to minimise our problems cuz some trans women need ffs
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 and the same thing applies to trans woman with masculinized faces!!!!!
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@queencypionate @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 yeah so building pecs doesn't magically make my f cups disappear actually. fat redistribution only does so much.
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 Telling a girl who masculinized a lot during puberty to “just wear makeup” is the same as telling a large-chested trans man just to bind. Hell, HRT makes your chest deflate over time and increases your ability to build muscle so you can just build pec muscle.
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 When you work against bone structure it’s very obvious, it might look good in photos but people are 3D in real life
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@missingcategory @poondood Not saying they’re faketrans or anything, I just think it’s a different mentality on transness
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@missingcategory @poondood I think a lot of trans people view transness kind of as a subculture and community more than anything else and dressing in the “trans fashions” makes them feel like part of a group
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Why do certain ftms purposely make themselves look & act like caricatures
Ichor𖤓@ichorthewolf
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@susurrojapones @nonagesimus99 Easier to change than a low-pitched voice and a face changed by testosterone puberty.
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@nonagesimus99 it's quite not easy at all if you have a chest or a high pitch voice
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@logariithm @nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 A significant amount of trans women need ffs to be able to pass, which, out of pocket, is more expensive than top surgery.
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@nonagesimus99 @cutebeast4392 are you forgetting about like. boobs. they don't just fall off. I won't ever pass until i can get surgery how is that easier
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@Strawberrat @nyanqueer_wren “Rape must include penetration to be considered rape”, even as a legal definition is still incredibly flawed an is based on patriarchal definitions of what “real sex” is
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It is NOT rape. Use a DIFFERENT TERM, you can add more negative connotations to something's effects on yourself without calling it “rape”. You're watering down a serious term.
Keep that word out of your mouth if you're gonna use it like this.
amber ଳ@amber_toffee
have u considered the possibility that male puberty is a form of rape and we are suffering from ptsd
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@FemmeNb @apollyon_255 4. Also, us talking about our dysphoria the choices we make to minimize it aren’t all trying to force it on others, I’m happy and glad for you if you’re not as dysphoric as me!
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@FemmeNb @apollyon_255 3. if I could dress however I wanted to and not care I would, but I do, because I want to be seen as Male. Subculture isn’t innate to a person, dysphoria more than often is.
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Replies really tell ya why some trans folks can live in accepting areas & supportive social circles & still hate themselves- BC YOURE NOT BEING YOURSELF!!! You’re putting your body under, not even a microscope actually, but a DEEP SPACE TELESCOPE picking apart your physical body-
⭐️ | 𝙩𝙨𝙪𝙠𝙖𝙨𝙖 𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙢𝙖 | 𝙨𝙝𝙚𝙙𝙩𝙬𝙩 ཀ@caterpillarboy_
apparently other trans guys don’t want piercings?? and people generally don’t want piercings because they have “connotations”? ??? unsaid connotations btw is this a popular opinion??
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