Kemz
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“I am not a feminist”🤡
Mind you, between yesterday and today, multiple young ladies have been raped and molested by multiple men in Delta state Nigeria in the name of culture.
Let me repeat that, a day is set aside to rape any woman you see outside somewhere in delta state and I’m talking 2026.
As a Nigerian woman, you have to be extremely dense to come against feminist. You think you’re bigger than the misogynistic system that guides us?
You think you’re more special than the girls who were gang raped in Uni yesterday?
Nigerian women don’t even hate men enough, all we do is ask for equality and freedom. Imagine living your life in a country where it’s allowed to gang rape you .
I don’t even pray this on my worst enemies!
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@Teeniiola Most Nigerian households spends so much time and attention training the girl child, while ignoring that the male child too needs same discipline.
Hence we have too many weak and senseless young men, who would equally end up being fathers too.
So unfortunate!
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@Teeniiola Women have really suffered in the hands of men, this is barbaric
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Saw where you were talking about mot knowing where to start from as regard potty training your daughter. Coming from you who’s a mother for the third time, but you went all out on someone who’s just a mother once doing it all alone.
I feel women to women we should extend grace, and our first instinct shouldn’t be to prove how we are better when other women talk about their challenges.
It wasn’t fair and I hope she actually gets over it. You need to do better with how you somehow tend to invalidate other women’s struggles tbvh.
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Modern motherhood is being lived in a very different world from the one our mothers and grandmothers knew, yet the expectations placed on women have not adjusted to that reality.
In earlier times, motherhood existed within community. Children were raised in clusters, not isolation. There were aunties, neighbours, older siblings, and extended family who shared the work. A mother could cook while another watched the children. A woman could rest without guilt because help was close and normal. Motherhood was demanding, but it was not lonely.
Today, many mothers are raising children in isolation. Nuclear families, migration, and economic pressure have stripped away communal living. One woman is expected to do the work of many. She mothers, provides, nurtures, disciplines, teaches, and still maintains emotional stability. Support is no longer assumed. It must be begged for, scheduled, or paid for.
Modern motherhood also exists alongside economic strain. Many women work full time while carrying the same domestic expectations as those who stayed home in earlier generations. There is little room for rest. Burnout is common, yet rarely acknowledged.
This is why many young women are hesitant about motherhood. It is not hatred of children. It is clarity. They see mothers exhausted, unsupported, and judged. They see women losing themselves and being told it is normal. They see that love alone does not protect a woman from overwhelm.
There is also fear of doing it alone. With rising divorce rates, fragile partnerships, and weak support systems, motherhood feels like a high-risk commitment. Many women ask themselves not if they can love a child, but if they can survive the system that surrounds motherhood today.
Motherhood has not become less meaningful. It has become heavier. Without community, shared responsibility, and realistic expectations, it feels like a burden too heavy for one person to carry.
If society wants women to embrace motherhood again, it must rebuild support around mothers. Not praise them from afar. Not romanticise sacrifice. But show up in practical, consistent ways.
Motherhood thrives in community. Without it, even the strongest women will hesitate.

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@VenitaAkpofure @spill_circle Happy birthday Mamacita ❤️ most beautiful. Forever young , God bless you queen🌹💕
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