@chuncmoder typically boymoders get clocked as a fag minimum
so it depends
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world's third accidental detransitioner
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give a reputable source or give me death follow is not endorsement 50% chance you are a fetishist if you obsess over a demographic
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isn’t the whole point of boymoding that you maintain cis male privilege instead of being perceived as a trans woman bc you can’t pass as a cis woman
PathologicalWise@wise_prism
Boymoders do not have male privilege and trans men do, whats so hard to understand?
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@burnthelilacs @wulfhildaa @BraiththeBrave gotta disagree
people are just going to call both trans and there is nothing gained
it is the situation we are currently in
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Over is the era of being valid.
Now comes the epoch of invalidation
Trans has become a gatekept community and you're not invited.
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@gracemodermind last i checked the majority of the T is B
they cannot be separated
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how about some T without the LGB for once? fuck cissoids
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@wulfhildaa no, because sex/gender identity is a separate concept from gender itself
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I’m curious about this, do you all think of “gender” as synonymous with “gender identity”? I always thought of “gender” as the category you’re placed in by society, and that being “transgender” means you want to change your gender to align with your gender identity.
Aisling@burnthelilacs
@wulfhildaa 99% of the time when trans people talk about gender we're talking about gender identity, no?
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the site is completely failing to function rn holy fuck
i can barely view comments or load fyp
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@s3pt3mb3r_m00 they are separate numbers,
i would however expect them to correlate
i do recognise low male low female sex identity exists (androgynous)
the only solution there is blockers
idk what the consensus would be,
i don't know if that makes someone trans or not
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@replymoder @EPM106 Looking closer at your images, you say half of nonbinary people who specifically identify as trans do not want hrt. Where are you getting that specific information?
From what I see, you have that 50% identity as trans, and 49% want HRT. There's no correlation between the two.
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i think “cissexual nonbinary” is totally fine epistemically
Queen of Nuance 👑@autumnrain80
What’s your most transmedicalist take?
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@dandelionCedar there's transmascs? who actively do it
we do have examples
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why do validity politicising larpers pretend to be trans women and then trans women get the blame
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@rlycrossedup does thinking i'd be unwelcome based on leaflet and inforgraphic information alone, not actually meeting people and going there count?
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This is really important, I want to test my beliefs on whether this is as common in general as it has been with me and many friends.
Medically transitioning trans people - have you ever been excluded from, or made to feel unwelcome in local irl trans spaces by non-transitioners?
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@_flowerbeanie__ "twink fucker"
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big words coming from "a cis"
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@StillUnsung less fear with interaction across sex/gender due to treating any maleness or femaleness similarly
leading to more varied experiences and more information to go off to make decisions
idk
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Huh, why do bisexuals vote *further to the left* of homosexuals?
Surely there's gotta be some consistent explanation, because its a signifcant gap and consistent across men and women
YouGov@YouGov
🧵/ How would Britons votes, two years since the 2024 election: by sexuality Heterosexual Ref: 26% Con: 21% Lab: 18% LD: 13% Grn: 12% Rst: 4% Not heterosexual Grn: 40% Lab: 18% LD: 13% Ref: 12% Con: 8% Rst: 2%
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@hellspatisserie i think to get to that point would require the general sex discrimination ones to apply first
because even if they can be overturned in a case
a separate legislature can also be removed,
and requires way more political power than anyone has rn
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in the U.S. this would probably mean demanding specific protections on the state level where possible pending a friendly executive; in the UK it probably means pushing towards an outright amendment of the Equality Act 2010; unlikely immediately but the ball must start rolling
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overwhelming takeaway for trans rights with regards to the U.S. Supreme Court judgment today and the UK High Court judgment in 2025 is that, fairly or not, trans people need specifically enumerated rights in legislation rather than relying on existing protections under sex
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@chuncmoder negative androgyny just means low male traits and positive androgyny just means high male traits atp
doesn't even mean high male and female traits anymore
nor is it negative i think it should just be low and high or called maleness
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i have no take beyond i’m so glad i negative androgyny mog tf out of this positive androgyny cel
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@cheese_2449 blocking and reversal
instead of transition
but it's very similar if not considered the same
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@DebunkGunk no amount of reporting her gets her removed off this site
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“The Shinigami Eyes plugin doesn’t have a problem, have you considered you’re just a transmisogynist?”
The plugin in question:
jelly ''cat thing'' 💜🚯🏳️⚧️@ks_spamz
I do not recommend using Shinigami Eyes as a way to decide who to and who not to interact with. Awhile ago a lot of transmasculine, intersex folk, and their defenders were mass flagged by what I can assume was a group of hateful queer people
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@Michaeldudufudu michael orthodox please lock in
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@ShellTerminal @Altermerea the prior is discrete and mutually exclusive
you're either trans or cis,
you cannot be in between, or both,
it is not analogue
the latter is a hue spectrum/axis
a hue can also be defined by blending hues
the problem with conflating gnc with transness
is it hurts trans people
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@Altermerea How does language mean in general again we can see red and blue, one person can say look I'm going to call this purple because there's a mix of red and blue.
It is not useless because words have meaning it is descriptive terminology all of those definitions are descriptive.
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So, in other words:
What does transgender mean? It means whatever the person I am currently talking to thinks transgender is.
Which is useless to me as a word and worth pruning out of lexicon not meant for descriptive terminology.
Shell Terminal@ShellTerminal
@Altermerea @AprilPapke @MaggyBernsTumor It does have a well-established meaning I've read that citation from wiki. The terminology has not changed meaning every week. Not 7 different meanings 🤭
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@anna_maria1776 yep, but moderated would have the same issues as unmoderated
it is mainly used by trans women and tbh
there's some people that really should be red
and some people who are red that should be white
almost never anyone who should be green and is red though
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@Altermerea @AlexxiAlexxi99 Is it just unmoderated markings by any user, if so I could see how that could cause some issues.
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For some reason, the phenomenon of an AFAB trans woman, that is—a birth-assigned female whose womanhood is expressed in a transfeminine way—seems to be captivating the public imagination a lot more than an analogous, inverse equivalent: an AMAB trans man.
I wonder why?
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@fordemdolphins she does not want that
but that is already the reality
or it is just denied outright
because you can instead "appreciate your sex"
cis people do not recognise dysphoria as legitimate
recognising it is medical does not mean having to wait for diagnosis, DIY and OTC both exist
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waiting 5+ years for a gender dysphoria diagnosis is in the benefit of exactly no one but the world that doesn't want us to exist
Wulfhilda@wulfhildaa
“being trans” being popularly understood as a medical condition, which is liable to cause dysphoria if not treated with hormonal medication and reconstructive surgery, is in the best interests of people who are trans
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