Dibakar Dutta (দিবাকর দত্ত)@dibakardutta_
Rich influencers in India often pretend to be 'middle class' to sound relatable!
They frequently share sob stories (most of which are fabricated) of 'humble beginnings' to appeal to the masses.
Comedian Vir Das has recently claimed that he came to Mumbai with 'very little' and made it big in life. Wow, a beautiful story of introspection!
For those who don't know, Vir Das is the grandson of India's first ambassador to Bhutan. Brajbir Saran Das was a politician, diplomat and an IPS officer.
He served in top positions at Air India and the Airport Authority of India.
His grandson Vir Das went to 'The Lawrence School in Sonawar', where the annual fees are over ₹10 lakhs (as of 2026).
This comedian went to the United States for his bachelor's degree in the 2000s. Of course, he had 'very little' when he came to Mumbai.
Vir Das once did a comedy special about '2 Indias.' I come from the other India.
My grandfather fled East Pakistan to escape religious persecution during Partition and lived as a refugee in India.
After losing centuries of generational wealth overnight, my family worked tremendously hard to go from a refugee rehabilitation camp to having our own house.
The upbringing I received was starkly different from my grandfather's lived reality. I was privileged to study at an English-medium convent school, pursue higher education at DU without taking an educational loan or worry about living costs in Delhi.
This is a privilege which is still not available to millions of young men and women in this country. I understand this perspective and so have never claimed to have 'very little' of anything.
Do you think a socially aware comedian like Vir Das doesn't understand this? He does and still tells you sob stories of his 'humble beginning' at Bandra studio apartment.
But he isn't the first one. I have seen one of my favourite YouTubers, Ranveer Allahbadia (who went to Dhirubhai Ambani school), talk deeply about his 'struggles'.
We have all watched the infamous interview of Ananya Pandey deliberating about her 'struggles' in the film industry.
I know some people would now tell me that everyone has their own set of challenges, despite a privileged background. And I totally agree with it.
But the upfront disclosure of privilege is important. In the absence of that, you are trying to convince the masses that you are one of them.
You are not.