Xans | Hypnotist + High Performance Hypnosis@xansnds
You seem to fundamentally misunderstand what a masculine core is.
Your masculine core is your conviction in your beliefs and feelings. It's your ability to always act on your feelings and recenter yourself anytime you get lost back to your core.
It's not some fake red pill stoic alfa male idea of what masculinity is.
Masculinity is whatever you decide is for you based on what you feel to be true.
It's not what some red pill cuck says it is. It's not what some stoic religion says. It's not what some bullshit ideologies says to be true. It's not what the headlines say. It's not what your parents say. Etc.
It's what you decided it is for yourself, and based on how you feel.
Sinatra, Picasso, Cary Grant, etc., had conviction in what they believed in, enacted that, and shared that conviction with the world.
They became famous as a byproduct of their specific flavor of conviction. It happened to align with society in that snapshot of history that equated to receiving fame.
And their flavor of masculinity happened to, in some cases, as you described above, be chaotic, insecure, and even to cry in public. They did what they felt was true/right at the time.
Having a masculine core doesn't mean you are perfect. It doesn't mean you don't have feelings. It doesn't mean you are some stoic robot that executes mindlessly, striving for some red pill ideal of what other men think you should be.
It's whatever you feel you should be. Whoever you feel you should be. Whatever you feel is right. And then acting on that, regardless of what other people think , and staying true to yourself.
I can be emotionally chaotic, deeply insecure, cry in front of women, still have a strong masculine core, and still be incredibly attractive to women.
You are the one who thinks you can't. So you aren't. And you suppress your very life force as a result.
You extinguish your own masculinity by not doing what you want to do.
