Sarah Gex
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Sarah Gex
@sarahgex
welcome to my soapbox
Santa Monica, CA Katılım Kasım 2011
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Really hoping I don’t turn into a bitter old lady who would insinuate a young person is lying about their husband’s passing just because I don’t agree with them on a Twitter thread
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo Then you’d say you were a widow. I’ve never known a single widow to not say that lmao
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@theopposum1234 @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo What do I care if you assume it or not? I don’t know you. You questioned the validity of me saying I’m a widow by pointing out my verbiage for being “weird”
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo Lmfao, no you gave the impression you were divorced with that statement.
No one would assume widow based on “used to be married” which is why I said it was weird. Lolololol
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They’re now going straight to “ oh you don’t care who your husband is jacking off too? WHAT IF IT’S CHILDREN?!”
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@_celia_bedelia_ As far as you know. But if you don’t give a fuck who he’s jacking off to, then I guess you wouldn’t care if he did
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@ArlingtonDiva @_celia_bedelia_ She said “he can masturbate to whoever,” but she didn’t really mean “whoever.” That’s all I’m saying
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ Maam you haven't been reading. She doesn't care right now because she feels like she knows him well and trusts him. In the future if she was given a red flag for something inappropriate she would address it.
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@ArlingtonDiva @_celia_bedelia_ Yes, so that is why you wouldn’t want your SO masturbating to your in laws. We do care who they masturbate to. That was my whole point. There are lines
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ I'm not talking about legality, I'm talking about relationships. Some people have a parent child relationship with their in-laws, especially if they have lost a parent. So they might be as close to them as they are to a real parent. I see my brother in law as a brother.
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Some of us don’t have to worry about our husbands sexualizing our families. You know that right? I don’t worry about it not because I wouldn’t care if he did, BUT BECAUSE I TRUST HIM AND HE DOESN’T.
Sarah Gex@sarahgex
@_celia_bedelia_ @JaneDashley Also that’s weird being okay with your husband sexualizing whoever he wants to. Your mom? Your sister? The nanny? His coworker? Your best friend? Like you’re fine with being married to someone who just sexualizes any woman? Because I’m assuming you do in fact have boundaries
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@theopposum1234 @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo Exactly you were insinuating I was divorced and pretending to be a widow
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo Because “used to be married” gives the impression that you’re divorced, not widowed. It’s weird.
I’m not making rules you melodramatic walnut. I’m speaking my opinion. Lmfaoooo. Jesus Christ.
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@theopposum1234 You keep saying things like “girlypop” and now “toots.” It’s giving “old creepy trying to belittle a younger woman”
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@ArlingtonDiva @_celia_bedelia_ That’s not true. She said she didn’t care who he masturbates to. And I brought up several examples she would care about.
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ You don't get it. She isnt giving him permission to do anything. She's just not monitoring it. Of course if she found out somehow she might want to address but she's not standing over his shoulder or asking for reports because he hasn't given her a reason to be concerned.
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@ArlingtonDiva @_celia_bedelia_ In laws don’t count as incest honey, look it up.
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ Your SO's mom and sister are family so I think it could incestual to fantasize about them.
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@AnAngelADay @theopposum1234 @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo So you think 27 is a normal age to be a widow? Got it. How did I disrespect him? I simply said he died because he literally did.
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@sarahgex @theopposum1234 @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo I think 27 is very young. And if you don’t want to respect him in his afterlife, that’s fine with me. It’s your dead husband.
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@AnAngelADay @_celia_bedelia_ Made up? Violent porn is real and men really watch it. And it’s very normal to not want to date them.
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ It’s very yikes that you made up a whole scenario in your head to get mad about actually. That’s very fucking weird.
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@ArlingtonDiva @_celia_bedelia_ Then why is there so much porn like that? Supply happens when there is a demand. I’m not saying every man watches it, but enough men do where they keep making more and more violent porn. And clearly we don’t want to date men who watch it. So why open it up to “whatever?”
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ Do you personally know men who watch that? Because you seem to think it's normal & it's not. Most people wouldn't assume their SO would do that because it's extreme. & You missed the point, which is just that she doesn't monitor his fantasy life. It's called healthy boundaries.
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@sleepmancer @JaneDashley @_celia_bedelia_ Obsession with what? This is one twitter conversation. I’m not thinking about how awful the porn industry is every second of the day. It’s not even in my top 100 of things I think about
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@theopposum1234 @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo Why is it weird? I can talk however I want to talk. You make the rules on what I can say? You said it’s weird because you wanted to discredit what I said.
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@sarahgex @_celia_bedelia_ @MimiSchmoo No, I’m saying it’s weird.
Again, getting assbent over something that wasn’t actually said.
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@melancoptimist I mean if she has a high body count because she’s a sex addict, she might have similar issues as him. But if she was just having fun and living life, her body count won’t have an effect on the relationship like any addiction will.
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A woman choosing to date a man who struggles with pornography because of an addiction that was forced onto him from a young age (often times so young that he could not consent to it) is waaaaay different than a man choosing to date a woman with a body count
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Sarah Gex retweetledi
Tara moved to Israel five years ago from Texas.
Her message to the Palestinians living in Palestine is simple: 'Leave or we will kill you!'
Perhaps this conflict isn't that complicated after all...
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@AnAngelADay @_celia_bedelia_ Yeah it’s very yikes that there are men watching violent porn. And I wouldn’t want to date them and neither would most women. Which is why I would never say “I don’t care what my husband masturbates to”
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