Mr. Schmitty

Hit me with the harshest reality truth.

if abortion is murder, then every time you ejaculate into a tissue, you're committing mass genocide. let's be consistent

A good way tell if we’re in love with a person or a fantasy of that person is the degree to which we feel compassion for them. That is, the degree to which we care about the things *they* care about. If we’re mostly in love with a fantasy, we’ll usually care less about the concerns of our partner that don’t relate to our fantasy of them. We might care about how much they enjoy having sex with us, or how in love with us, or how strong our connection is. Because those things feed into the fantasy. But we’ll probably spend less time thinking about their personal concerns that don’t relate to or center us. Fantasies, after all, are there to gratify us, not for us to serve. Whereas if we’re in love with the actual person, we’ll likely spend a lot more internal and external energy on celebrating their joys, commiserating their sufferings and supporting them in their flourishing. Even the little mundane and unglamorous trials and successes that make up their day to day. Developing these compassionate qualities towards them not only indicates true love but also helps cultivate deeper love. Practicing compassion and sympathetic joy for those closest to us helps us see them more clearly and care more about what they care about. It also makes it easier to communicate with and meet the needs of our partner. Because we’re paying attention to what they actually care about. Perhaps counter-intuitively, it also allows us to develop stronger boundaries. By more clearly seeing our lover, we can more cleanly separate them from our fantasy of them, which demerges them from projections that actually belong to us. Romantic love and compassionate love may feel like different kinds of love. But actually the latter is deeply supportive of the former, and the deepest forms of the former start to look increasingly like the latter.

This woman lost her life because she was fully gripped by years of media indoctrination that told her that she’s living in 1930s Germany and interfering with ICE is akin to fighting Hitler’s nazis. Her death is tragic for many reasons (starting with the fact that it was totally avoidable), but mostly because she sacrificed her life for a belief that isn’t real. She is yet another casualty of the brainwashed cult of the American media.

Brooklyn Center, Minnesota: An ICE agent is seen slipping onto his back and then accompanying a female detainee into a porta-potty, while another agent waits in a car outside.

Women not pursuing men is crazy because as a woman u can looksmaxx to a 7/10 and 99.9% of men will wife u up if u go after them. U can literally have ur pick.

WHAT?