@yabaleftonline U get mind borrow 2M, me wey borrow 130k, I never rest since, hard lesson learned, never borrow from any online loan service ever, I dey get 2M offer then, if I collect am I for dey in serious financial crisis now.
From my DM.
Please I just need your advise on what to do in my marriage.
I lost my job a year after I got married, which was about five years ago. I had to relocate with my wife and son to a new city.
She was about to start serving then. I got her a good place to serve while I was jobless, basically living hand to mouth. She finished her service and started a baking business, which my family supported by attending courses.
So she was basically managing the house while I was still moving around looking for jobs.
At one time, I had to buy a car to start up Bolt. The car kept having issues until I sold it after a few months.
I invested the money back into her business while I looked for another source of income.
She got pregnant for a second child and at 7 months, she had to stop production as the pregnancy was disturbing.
Bills were paid from the monies saved until we had almost nothing again.
She gave birth 3 months back and I expended 850k because she delivered via C.S. Her mother came for Omogwo and has long gone back.
Now this is the case, 7 months to delivery she stopped allowing me to have sex with her up till after her delivery.
Now it's past 3 months after delivery and she has still refused to allow me to touch her.
She kept on coming up with excuses. First it was about cigarette smoking, something she knew I had been doing even before we married.
I tried to explain how difficult it has been to stop, and even made efforts to stop or reduce, but that didn't work.
She complained about the house rent after the landlord embarrassed her over it. I looked for money and even went as far as borrowing to pay, but that still didn't work.
She complained again that I stopped been romantic, I told her I can only try my best by helping with domestic chores, but she should understand that I am being drained psychologically, following the fact that I don't have a job and it's shameful for me watching her carry the family burden.
Now I've been able to secure a job, which is relatively better than none. At least my monthly salary is 120k.
Now, she still don't want to let me touch her, complaining again that she doesn't feel like it for now.
Omo, Supreme High Chief I Don tire oh, make conji no end my life. And I keep having this temptation to cheat.
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@EmmyKing100@OurFavOnlineDoc This is the brainwashing she was talking about; what s!lly belief? You are only a Christian because you were born into your family/society; do you know you would have been a Buddhist or Hinduist if you were born in China or India? and this your bible and jesus wont be a topic 4u.
"Christianity is brainwashing. I am not your typical Nigerian christian and I don't want to be. At the time Jesus lived, he was accused of witchcraft and that's one of the reasons he was killed but 2,000 years later, we're worshipping him."
- Nancy Isime
“People thought I was p%ssessed and called me a w+tch” — Nigerian herpetologist Taiwo Okikiola opens up about using social media to raise awareness about snake conservation
@instablog9ja Why them no go call her whitch because many have lost there way they have forgotten there root as an African. They have trow away there power in other to serve a foreign God that doesn't exist anywhere.
@FabrizioRomano Planing to Signing 3 midfielders just to replace one that left(Casemiro).
Why not just get a good replacement for Casemiro that left? An elite midfielder that can fill that void. I'm just wondering what happens to the likes of Mainoo.
🚨 Manchester United want to sign one more midfielder after Tielemans and Andrey Santos.
Plan to add one more defensive player after Casemiro’s exit — not over yet.
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@jon_d_doe You cheat & U beat & U are expecting sweet fruits of labor. E go bitter gan. & e go too bitter when u old & alone or with a younger women who doesn’t love U
Ask ur wife for forgiveness, be sincere &change your ways, let her see that u are a changed man & committed to the marriage
@instablog9ja This is such a ridiculous take.
You’re giving men more reasons to cheat by suggesting the consequences for them aren’t that serious.
Cheating is wrong, whether it’s the man or the woman.
There is no justification for cheating on your spouse.
@instablog9ja This might sound weird but trust me it’s also works It’s will help dem crave 4 each other more evn in Marriage, anything u Dey get anyhow go esy quick tire u naturally thrrr marriage might last longer then pple wu sleep on the same bed and same room with there wives