Mike - Eater of Steak 🥩
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Mike - Eater of Steak 🥩
@steakeatermike
Class of ‘21 but still early. Low time preference is the best time preference. Fan of small towns and the two-lane roads that take you there.







No debt Ideal weight 8 hours of sleep Mental health on track Right nutrition Zero Alcohol This was my peak I was 8










I am really tired of the doomer accounts who offer no solutions and make false, sweeping generalizations. All this does is poison mens' minds and strip them of agency. The guy in this example is low T and acting effeminate. "She won't initiate! I do sweet things for her and it doesn't work!" Zero understanding of polarity or female psychology. Zero backbone or edge. If your modern woman doesn't want to have sex, it's because this is your modern man. I have revived scores of dead or diminished bedrooms, and there are two near-universal variables: a) Inability to anchor regular sex to connection and relationship health (it's not simply a personal want) b) Unwillingness to make their woman uncomfortable (she will lose your investment if things don't change) Related to these problems of course is the ubiquitous "nice guy" behavior which attempts to trade gestures for sex and validation, and is an automatic turn off, because it's supplicating and manipulative. The only thing that modern relationship advice gets correct about female libido is that stress does crash it, so don't expect an overworked woman to be in the mood. But even this doesn't mean you do things to make her approve of you. Intent matters, and she can smell it. Women are a reflection of you. If she wanted to sleep with you earlier and she doesn't any longer, it's because she has sussed out how much your self-esteem is contingent on her receptivity. It's less that she dislikes sex, than that she dislikes taking care of your emotions. Your problem is that you have linked the two together for her through your own lack of differentiation. The married men who grasp this, consciously or unconsciously, have great and consistent sex lives that only deepen as the years go on.





