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@PASChildAbuse @docbhooshan The child psychiatrist, when counselling children of separated/divorced parents, MUST keep in mind the possibility of the child's alienation, meaning their viewpoint isn't theirs alone, but is instead a brainwashed indoctrinated one. Like members of a cult !! #ParentalAlienation

@docbhooshan How I wish child psychiatrists accessing alienated children knew this or kept in mind while submitting reports to family courts!! Kept in mind how their reports itself could be used by alienating parents, coercively controlling parents, to alienate the child further.

Psychotherapy for Children Parents are quite keen to know what happened in the psychotherapy session. This is natural. A good therapist makes it clear right in the beginning that if there is any risk (serious / permanent self harm, suicide or hurting others) , parents will be brought on board immediately. Still some parents insist on a debriefing with the child after each session. Most children have no way / power to resist parents on this quest. This typically results in parents trying to direct what the child "should" tell the therapist. Manytimes even commenting on therapy work and suggesting other things to the child. This invariably kills the therapy process. Lack of privacy, ownership and agency makes the child lose hope and they simply give up. This is how a well intentioned parent can harm therapy process. Some parents take it well when they are alerted about this. Many take offence and take the child away from therapy. It is unacceptable for them that their own child is exploring his own mind with someone else other than them. Some are worried that they have somehow harmed therapy process child and that is the real reason of mental health issue. They want to be part of the therapy process to correct the wrong. They should meet the treatment team separately to address this concern.

After reading #AtulSubhash’s suicide note, I was so moved that I called and spoke to three different male friends of mine who are facing a similar situation. I mean I knew the situation roughly, but did not know what a procedural nightmare the whole thing was! The judicial process is corrupt, time-consuming and frustrating. Judges, particularly female judges as are common in family courts, are often without empathy for the men and pressurise the men to ‘settle’ without even hearing the merits of the case. In all three cases, women have weaponised access to their kids as a means to emotionally blackmail the man, and while I can’t say how good my male friends were as husbands, I can say with a great confidence that all three were great fathers. It is cruel to withhold access to children from the fathers and the system that enables it as a tactic to pressurise the man is heartless and insensitive. Whatever maybe the other concerns, wherever possible, courts should give joint custody to both parents. #JusticeIsDue

Divorce does not break children. Narcissistic parents do.

Hope Indian Family Court judges understand, what a rickshaw wala realizes and knows very well!! #SensitizeCourts Stop #ParentalAlienation

No surprises as to what is on repeat in the Northern Music Co offices today...

@narendramodi Sir, any chances of having Shared Parenting Law for our children..? if not.. kindly tweet so.. let our children not be victims of false Hope..

Parental alienation is child abuse and domestic violence.

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@JLR100320 Targeted parent for over 7 years and counting. Peace to all of us going through this

#ParentalAlienationAwarenessDay 2024 is tomorrow. To all the parents & their children & my children suffering from this terrible abuse: I hurt with you and I hurt for you. May relief to all our pain come soon. Hold on. Be strong. And love big until we reunite once again.

Father hires top lawyers (Shyam Diwan, Meenashi Arora, Prabhjit Jauhar) & goes to Supreme Court over visitation order violation. 🏛️. However, Supreme Court is not inclined to entertain the complaint/contempt petition🚫 What can fathers do if mothers violate visitation orders?🤔

@docbhooshan With rising divorce rates, parental conflict is unavoidable. What is avoidable however (& entirely in the alienator's hands), and what causes even worse consequences, is one parent deleting the other parent from the child's life completely, thereby ensuring #parentalalienation

#Parenting If i have to choose ONE thing that is most harmful for psychological health of children it is - Conflict between parents. Fear, insecurity, sadness, hopelessness... you name a negative emotion and you will find that parental conflict triggers that in children.

@docbhooshan it’s been a tightrope walk for me , thankfully my faith in my God, never allows me to hate on my ex husband and i manage to never spillover my sadness onto my children. they share a good rapport with him and his family.

@docbhooshan Beg to differ... conflict is of course damaging, however, far more damaging is loss of a parent (& half of family / roots) due to conflict, as seen in 60 studies across 14 countries on 250,000+ children youtu.be/29jFOEyV_S0?si…

@SoulVersified @docbhooshan Shared Parenting/ Co- Parenting takes care of most issues that occur due to conflict, litigation. But no one wants it.

@aarambhmr It is unfortunate, and most damaging to our children's generation, for #FamilyCourts to not act upon or investigate the possibility of #ParentalAlienation when the child is with the #CustodialParent for a prolonged period of time, which is the very least that should be considered

It is irony tht a child <18 not mature enough to cast a vote but a child of 11-12 years is considered mature enough by Courts to deny access to noncustodian parent as such child do not want wish to meet parent ignoring that child can be victim of #ParentalAlienation @aarambhmr

Why alienated kids need to learn the truth -from 2 former alienated kids #ParentalAlienation #childrendeservemore #strongertogether #nevergiveup #PowerToFightPain