Dr. Kabir Menon

Men and women run entirely different psychological operating systems. ​When you expect her to think like a man, or him to process like a woman, you aren't communicating. You are just colliding. ​Here is the raw blueprint of the psychological asymmetry. 🧵

@JustMariner In fact, this has got nothing to do with patriarchy or feminism. Its about legal equality enforcement.

@thepsychedoctor Patriarchy hai... Aaisa chomu log bolte hai.

Atul Subhash went on record and left a 2 hour video clearly saying who is responsible. Yet Nikita walks free, and is still workinh. Twisha commits suicide, implicates no one, yet media trial deemed husband guilty and bar association suspends him. Similar case. Different outcome?

@Sriiiii09 @ndtv @republic @IndiaToday Nobody bothers. That’s the problem. Legal equality should be a must have, not optional. Be lenient with both genders or punish both. Biasedness is not right.

@thepsychedoctor Hey shameless media @ndtv @republic @IndiaToday Bother to have any look?

@Spamfromk You need a bit of an emotionally immature man to handle women. The kind of drama, chaos and shit tests women do, emotionally mature man will instantly walk out. He won’t stay there to handle her. Women think many of her toxic traits as normal. Mature man will call it toxic.

just googled at what age a man fully emotionally matures and it deadass said 43 years old… i’m out 😭 Why do women mature faster than men?

Waiting period for final court order 🇵🇱 Poland – 24 days 🇦🇺 Australia – 18 days 🇪🇸 Spain – 7 days 🇨🇦 Canada – 6 days 🇬🇧 UK – 6 days 🇮🇳 India – more than 10 years minimum

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A typical example of how a greedy woman wants to save all her own money for personal lifestyle, luxury, shopping, and “independence” — while expecting the husband to spend his entire salary on the family. When the husband asks for equal contribution towards household expenses, children, responsibilities, or family planning, suddenly it is labelled as “financial control” or “crime.” Marriage is becoming dangerously one-sided: His money = family money Her money = only her money No partnership, no responsibility, no accountability. This mindset is becoming beyond repair.

@DeepikaBhardwaj None of these decisions are about right or wrong. It's about trying to look woke. Taking the woman's side and punishing the man in a similar kind of case is hypocrisy. Perhaps it's all for the woman vote bank.

Wife of Judge Aman Sharma is still a Judge though she's also an accused in abetment to suicide case. Wife of Atul Subhash is still in Accenture though she's also an accused in abetment to suicide case. Judge Rita Kaushik got a promotion though she was first person named in Atul Subhash suicide note. Do they not deserve justice ?

@dream_explorer7 @SayantikaSays I think the author meant formal education and not practical education. Also you will be surprised to know - many working women have zero skills about life's challenges. I know some homemakers who are way more active and skilled in day to day life challenges than a working woman.

Doctor....I mean the education..not a degree.. Education gives confidence to stand and rebuild again from any down. If a woman locks herself in the kitchen it means she's not my type..my type of woman is active in society. I love the life when I travel with my wife.. I don't want a wife to cook for me..it's my choice

Dear men if you had to choose one which one would you choose - > highly educated woman with good income but won't do household work after marriage > less educated woman with no job but can cook and will do all household work

@_nandini07 She will rate herself 9/10 and feel she deserves a 10/10 man. Successful men will rate her low. Some will reject her, some will ask for dowry. Poor men will rate her high. Most of them will want to marry without dowry. Guess who will she choose? - Rich man who wants dowry.

Men on normal days : We are providers. Men on odd days : Why can't we demand dowry, if we are successful enough? Beggars!!

@_nandini07 In fact, these successful men should stop demanding dowry and start selecting women on their merit. When these men will start rejecting women because she isn't deserving of him, most women will then realize how delusional and entitled they are about themselves.

A woman's ideal world is a world where resources and money are free, where she has 100% freedom and zero responsibility and accountability. Where she can do whatever her feelings want to do. Any deviation from this becomes her source of stress and unhappiness.

The only reason being women are 100x more entitled and delusional than they were 50 years ago. Every woman feels they deserve the top 1% man, doesn't matter what her own worth is. Anything less than that, and she lives in a constant state of resentment.

No parent or bride ever rejects a well-earning, well-settled groom from a well-off family even if they ask for dowry. If women have such problems with dowry, why not reject this man?

@DharmaDesk01 @ananyashasau Is someone forcing these poor parents to take loans for dowry at gun point? Isn't breaking off the marriage the simplest solution?

Exactly Dowry is straight-up extortion dressed as "tradition", poor parents taking loans to marry off their daughters is pure heartbreak. At the same time, weaponised alimony is crushing good men. Marriage should be a partnership, not a financial trap for either side. True equality is fair rules for both. ❤️

In today’s society, people often blame women for divorces and alimony demands after marriage. But what about families who demand dowry and cars before marriage? There are many poor parents who take loans just to marry off their daughters because they can’t afford such demands. The government should bring a strict policy: no dowry and no unnecessary alimony. Alimony should only be given in cases involving children, and only enough to cover basic living and education expenses not unrealistic amounts beyond a person’s income. A fair system is needed for both men and women.

@ananyashasau Instead of taking loans, why don't these poor parents break off the marriage? Why would anyone want to marry off their daughter in a family who is asking for a car and money in order to marry? Why not reject this groom?

@dream_explorer7 @SayantikaSays One way or the other, life will teach you that education doesn't always translate to maturity and ability to handle situations. It's just a degree on paper. Handling situations is an outcome of life's experiences and hardships.

@SayantikaSays First one.. Well educated women are mature enough to handle situations and support the family Growth Household work is not a problem,even I can manage better

@venom1s These days, nobody can give anyone anything. Both men & women earn, and can take care of everything themselves. Marriage is useless unless you want a legitimate child and lifelong companionship. If a woman can't commit to these two, a man shouldn't marry her.

Her father found a rishta from a well-settled guy working in Canada. She told her father that she won't marry him. She said - I earn myself and I don't want kids. What can he give me? I support her. Such girls shouldn't get married. That guy got saved. Would you marry a girl like her? Also, how are these girls getting rishtas from well-settled guys in Canada? Is it because their fathers are willing to pay dowry?

@SamSiff They give in to their own greed of getting a high-earning, well-settled guy with a well-off family. Taking dowry is tangible greed. Giving dowry is intangible greed. Both sides are responsible. GIRLS - IF HE ASKS FOR DOWRY, SAY NO TO MARRIAGE.

@thepsychedoctor They will give because they want to.. so that they can later blackmail..

Twisha Sharma was reportedly a BBA and MBA graduate from a local college and worked in modeling, acting, and corporate roles. Her estimated income discussed online is around ₹30k–₹1 lakh per month. Whereas Samarth Singh graduated from National Law School of India University (NLSIU Bangalore) with a B.A. LL.B. (Hons), also attended an exchange program at Ghent University in Belgium, and reportedly works as an independent lawyer earning around ₹1–3 lakh per month. Just 1/3rd salary she was earning but cry about being equal? So the real question is: Why are families eager to marry their daughters into highly educated and financially stronger households through dowry arrangements, and later cry “dowry harassment” when problems happen? If equal education, career growth, and financial independence were truly the priority, then why not first make daughters equally qualified and capable before expecting an elite “damad”? Why this obsession with status, money, and upward marriage alliances?