You ever sit and think about it…and realize the only reason it lasted as long as it did is because you kept accepting things you shouldn’t have? You kept being patient. Kept understanding. Kept giving chances. Instead of choosing yourself sooner.
I’m starting to notice a pattern where I’m drawn to men who pursue me strongly at first, but later reveal they don’t have the capacity for the consistency and emotional investment I need…
I never want a man to settle for me. Go find your dream woman. And if you can’t find her, don’t use me to fill the gap. I want mine clingy, passionate, reassuring, unapproachable, God fearing, and locked in on me only.
I realized people only like you when you're easy to benefit from. When you say yes, stay quiet, and let things slide, they love you. But once you start saying no, setting boundaries, and standing on what's right for you, everything changes. Suddenly you got an attitude. Suddenly you're the problem. Truth is, they never respected you, they just liked your silence. I'm not being difficult, I'm being real. If me protecting my peace offends you, that's your issue, not mine.
ngl, it frustrates me that i always want to fix things. like i always wanna talk things out and it’s like….when there’s no clarity, no real ending, i end up stuck overthinking the same situation again and again.
most women aren't crying over the man. they're crying over themselves. the effort they gave, the hope they held, the delusion they fell for, & the reminder that love hasn't rewarded them back.