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2012…

@QueenIbeimo I like your hand beads

Today na Bayelsa dey reign 😁 From insults to discovery Una go alright Las Las as Una dey cry on top our matters When una finish make una Sha remember say I make footwears

@Ony1nyechi That’s actually what they aim for

Those perpetual victims, it will take only two days or less for them to start acting like the Palestinians for a fight they started.

@popsicles88__ The shege you will see if you go back, trust me the ones you saw before na cupcake, however you will do as per the kids, I can’t tell, but going back isn’t an option

I called him and told him to stop that I am not missing him, I'm gone and he should send the divorce paper that I'm waiting. Now he's begging saying that he is sorry, he didn't know what came over him. My children has been asking me about their father, how they miss him and can't wait to go home to see him. I've tried everything possible to distract them from their father but it's not working. My sister said I should give the man another chance, that maybe he has turned in a new leaf and learnt his lesson. Now I'm confused, should I go back because of the kids or should I just return the kids to him and wait for the divorce papers. Marriage would be six years by august. Please advice me.

I was married to a man who never miss an opportunity to make me feel sad. Every little thing I did became a problem, always ready to throw insults at me. He spoke to me without respect, sometimes even in front of his friends.

@Shoyon_2 @minafuropeleke @3rdking2 You need to speak for yourself alone and maybe your associates rather than “all of us get this nonsense character of praising politicians “

@minafuropeleke @tokoni2 @3rdking2 You be Rivers man wetin make you think say you de different from the BY man mentally? All of us get this nonsense character of praising politicians and na the problem be that.

From yenagoa to bonny LGA in rivers state is about 4/6 hours. The journey from Port Harcourt (PH) to Brass Island (Twon-Brass in Brass LGA, Bayelsa State, Nigeria) typically takes 4–7 hours. In terms of land mass, rivers state is 11.077 km Why bayelsa is 10.773km

@EbiTams @EricKAliya I could agree, However that they aren’t doing it, doesn’t mean the blogs should instead post thing that aren’t good and not showcase the good parts while waiting for the “social media” aides

@tokoni2 @EricKAliya THAT IS THE FULL TIME JOB OF SOCIAL MEDIA AIDS OF THE GOVERNMENT, FIR WHICH THEY ARE PAID MONTHLY. How many posts have you seen from social media aids of govt highlighting the friendly environment of doing business in d state?

I blame bayelsa influencers for all the negative bashing the state is getting from idiots that do not even know the road to Bayelsa. You all gave this folk the wrong narrative.

@GeoEcoPol @fvader2 @lifeofpujaa No need to marry then

My mother worked her entire life, at home and in my father’s shop, yet in every form, I wrote ‘housewife’ as her occupation. No one ever taught us that housewives also work, just without pay. Even in farming families, where both parents work in the fields, children are taught to-

@MattBobmanuel @SenTedCruz One devil at a time, let them finish with the one at hand first

@SenTedCruz So what are you waiting for, Maduro no do reach this one before ona carry am. This people keep killing Christians In insane numbers . If you want to act just do it already. Don't give us false hope abeg

Another slaughter of Christians in Nigeria by jihadists, this time on Palm Sunday. Nigerian government officials have created an environment in which Christians are routinely persecuted and slaughtered, by imposing sharia law and looking the other way at violence. Those officials should know that the U.S. knows who they are, and has the tools to hold them accountable. ewtnnews.com/world/africa/p…

@Jaybaba_ @FJeriol Those complaining can’t afford and it’s okay. As a man, if you earn good money in this UK, you will do it. Most times, you no go worry abt what to eat, clean etc. If your finances don’t allow you to, then find a flatmate and level up.

@SirLeoBDasilva Or Technochrats most especially

Maybe I’m too woke but Ministers should be career civil servants and not politicians who want to run for office.

@MJay_Official_ @frankiemindset That’s not 50/50. He is planning on her salary and his combined to run the home, that’s not what he’s saying. He’s the provider and will pay rent, she will support him, not to split rent into half for her to pay the other half.

@frankiemindset Don’t try to color it brother, it’s 50/50. When you’re down and out you need your supporter to back you up. That’s why they’re called a partner.

I’m not doing all that 50/50 nonsense! My money is for the Family, my Wife’s money is for the Family! We look out for each other with love, Mutual understanding and Respect! But one thing is clear, I’ll take care of my Family in the best of my capacity! ❤️

@hybeat1 @Prezain_LJ My point exactly, if he’s at the level where he can’t rent for family or it saves cost to rent with his friends, it’s better he does that, because bringing a wife in to share that rent it’s like his living with a “bro”, - (rent with friends like you said).

@tokoni2 @Prezain_LJ Do you know he can rent where only him can stay comfortable without family? He can even rent with friends.

On the topic of 50/50, here are my two cents. Growing up, my father was responsible for all the bills in the house, ranging from rent and school fees to feeding, while my mum supported in any way she could. My dad never officially assigned any bill to my mum, like saying, “This year’s rent is your turn to pay.” My mum was a Chartered Accountant who earned reasonably well, and not once did she adopt the “my money is my money” mindset or hide her finances from the family. There were days she would go to the market, buy food items, and cook a sumptuous meal for the family without asking my dad for a penny, even though he always insisted on refunding her. She cooked, cleaned, and took care of the family. My dad only cooked on special occasions when he wanted to be romantic. I don’t know how my mum did it, but she always knew when my dad didn’t have money and would step up immediately. She never waited for him before doing certain things for the family. She bought my clothes, replaced my school bags and lunch boxes, and played her role effectively while my dad handled his. When my dad became a Commissioner and our financial situation improved drastically, he asked my mum to relax and use her money for herself while he took care of everything in the house, down to the salt in the kitchen. This is how I grew up, and there was never a day I witnessed my parents having issues over bills or chores. Everyone understood their roles, and they never quarreled about it, at least not to my knowledge. This is exactly how I intend to run my home. I enjoy providing for my family, and it is something to be proud of. Personally, I would not want my wife to pay for anything unless economic realities demand otherwise. Even at that, I cannot be with a woman who sees her money as only for herself and cannot support the family when needed. The moment she starts contributing and begins to challenge my leadership, I would simply make it clear that there cannot be two heads in the home. As a woman, you are working for a reason. While your primary responsibility may not be provision, you should be willing to step up when necessary. You are not doing your husband a favor; you are fulfilling your role as a wife. There is nothing wrong with paying rent, school fees, or feeding the family when your husband is temporarily unable to do so. The idea of keeping all your money to yourself or spending it only on expensive wigs, dresses, and bags is only realistic if you marry an exceptionally wealthy man. The question is, how many such men are available for the number of women seeking them? You cannot leave all the financial responsibilities to a man whose salary is not even up to 500k and expect everything to be sustainable. As a woman, the day you get married, you sign up for partnership, to pool resources together with your husband to build and grow the family. If you do not want this, then it is better not to get married.

@hybeat1 @Prezain_LJ Where would he have lived in the UK if he wasn’t married, would he not still pay that rent, the issue here is the “rent” itself, like someone said get an apartment you the man can pay comfortably pay for, the woman helps with the rest

What brings the topic of 50/50 is mostly people that relocate to the UK for survival. Man cannot carry most of the bills alone, so both parties have to contribute so they can save too. The bills and tax are draining for one person to shoulder; even citizens over there share bills. From your own story, you are not from a struggling background. I grew up seeing my dad provide for the family and my mom supporting in her own little ways too. But with this current economy, if you are not rich, you'll definitely need a supportive partner. You know why most guys are not getting married now? Most of the reason is financial. If I can be struggling as a single guy, then I add a family with a wife, saying 'my money is my money' while 'your money is our money. Make everybody do wetin work for them sha

@Kabiyesi_09 @TheDrAfolarin Showing empathy doesn’t require tears

@TheDrAfolarin They don't realise health workers have to stay strong & positive for the next patient while also showing empathy for all patients. U asked the right question. B4 u criticise think & ask urself, "will i be comfortable if I walk into an ER with my Mom & i meet all d Drs crying?"

How would you feel if you brought your wife in an emergency and you met all the doctors and nurses crying and they refused to attend to you. We are trained to keep working while having empathy.

@Burzy007 @TheDrAfolarin Very wicked lots.

@TheDrAfolarin Most don't have a single empathy. Lost my cousin last week Thursday around 2am. His mom was traumatised as she was there when he gave up. The Nurses couldn't even sympathise with her. Same with the Doctor. No one was asking them to cry but at least show some empathy.

@TheDrAfolarin Most Health workers lack basic empathy, you may be different but majority do not really care and nobody said they need to cry to show empathy, there’s never any sense of urgency or compassion, like the people are chickens, abeg!

It’s poverty that makes some of you argue about 50/50. I don’t think there’s any man who has the capacity to fully take care of his home and still wouldn’t do everything he can to support his family. There are many things women do that money can’t compensate for. At some point, one person has to do more. But as a man, always have a 100% provider mentality. You may not be able to afford everything right now because you’re still building, but do your best to grow and increase your capacity. I believe that as God blesses you and you’re able to provide 100% as a man, please do. Don’t allow strangers online to dictate how you run your family.

@GovvmentJ Yes o, let’s promote and post pictures

Have you heard of Peremabiri Rice Farm/Mill in Southern Ijaw, Bayelsa State??

@Uncle2Triplets @EdetRichy They could try, it begins from one state and who knows, it may have a headway

@EdetRichy I agree. He should stay longer—but they won’t allow that.

Abia state will be the new phase of Nigeria if they continue like this.

@EbiTams @EricKAliya Showcasing the good sides also, not just focusing on what’s not good… it doesn’t help especially for those who haven’t been to Bayelsa before

@EricKAliya How's the influencers to blame❓ How did they give the wrong narrative ❓

@Chibeznwankwo @Emarged I no deny, make u sef face your own state government, oh I forgot, una no like to live with each other

@tokoni2 @Emarged You wey na Kai dem take first baf you?

Bayelsa lacks the most important thing required for development; Quality Human beings.