@JJomzw @dk2852 @youwont_win @officialkateGr @Legendrager @bobby_on_mars Most people I know aren't racist. This isnt the new world, you cuckold virgin.
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James Strath
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@dk2852 @youwont_win @officialkateGr @Legendrager @bobby_on_mars Welcome to the new world, faggot. Your words mean nothing; let the actions of these monkeys speak for themselves
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Married women on twitter be like oh noooooooooooooo my husband, who is not allowed to have sex with anyone else, wants to have sex with me in our marital bed tonight oh noooooooooooooo I need to start some discourse about how awful this is
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@saaranghaeyo @tepid_dog_water @the_fem_tm No one is complaining about women refusing sex once in a while.
Your disdain for sex is not more important than men being in sexless marriages.
There is nothing wrong with someone advocating for their own happiness. Stop strawmanning with rape.
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@jamesstrather @tepid_dog_water @the_fem_tm It you think that a woman not wanting to be raped by someone who supposedly loves her is a sociopath, you need to look in the mirror mate. You're the one proposing harm.
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Physically it would not kill us. Emotionally and mentally it will make us hate you and associate having sex with you to something akin to doing housework while simultaneously having a gynecological exam.
Shrimp Trillionaire@fentanylbrownie
I don’t need to get into it as many married men have their own personal minefields to navigate in this regard but the only real response to these legitimately insane ideas is “Would it seriously kill you to just lie back and spread your legs for 10 minutes 2-3 times per week?”
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@coldgorlfever @ChallengCliches @AleppoAteMyFace @grok Why are you so brutally trying to push the "pull yourself up by your bootstraps" narrative to someone assumedly innocent?
You should be advocating for women to contribute to ending sexless marriages. Not this "too bad so sad" sociopathy.
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@ChallengCliches @AleppoAteMyFace @grok in what percentage of cases in the U.S. if the father has applied for custody, he also gets custody in case of a divorce?
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I agree that male desire has been pathologized and it’s high time for a correction. A dead bedroom is also perfectly reasonable grounds for divorce. However, this logic also justifies, for example, pestering her for sex while she’s healing in postpartum or cheating on her. Why can’t she say “no” sometimes? When she has a cold? When she’s very tired? Having unwanted sex creates a vicious cycle that further kills desire because the inability to hold off until tomorrow is immature. Surely a man can sense the difference between duty sex and desirable sex?
wanye@xwanyex
Both sides of this debate, in my view, are unwilling to confront the issue head on, which is to say that men get horny and want to have sex and they’re annoyed if they can’t get it from their wives, who they feel on some level are obligated (and should want to) provide it. From the men’s point of view this is something that they desire, something that they want, something that they enjoy, something that only their wives can give them, and the general message is that this is at bottom not a serious concern. Neither side wants to take this seriously. Women just say outright that this is a crass, unimportant concern, so then men, some of whom seem to agree with that assessment, try to frame it as though the sex is really about connection and feeling and emotional completeness and really you need to have sex with us because this is how we express love in a relationship. The only way through this is just to say directly that men get horny, they want sex, and it’s very annoying when their wives won’t give it to them. The women in their lives either take this seriously and treat the concerns of their husband as something worth caring about and addressing, even if part of them thinks it’s kind of base and crass, or they don’t. And so while for many men it’s not really true that the sex itself is about connection and emotion, the lack of it is absolutely about denial and rejection and an unwillingness to provide something that the man feels is so simple to provide. From the man’s point of view it’s just like, actually I am very simple, actually my needs are very simple, actually it is very simple to provide for me what I need and what I desire, actually you have all the tools to provide it, actually it’s not even a little bit complicated. And yet.
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@hihiitsspy @wwaytooyoung @lilsauerkraut_ No one owes anyone anything. Sex isn't some special magical thing that is uniquely owed or not owed.
People have all kinds of expectations, and society has duties that they hold others to, and sex will always be one of those things. Rightly so in my opinion.
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@jamesstrather @wwaytooyoung @lilsauerkraut_ Two people in a happy marriage are both excited to engage in frequent sex. Nobody owes anyone sex at any given moment, which is what the entire point is!
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Acting like your husband being attracted to you is somehow traumatic is hilarious to me
emily may@emilykmay
married women, have you ever said yes to sex because you didn't want to deal with his moodiness if you said no?
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@hihiitsspy @wwaytooyoung @lilsauerkraut_ The core ethos in the femisphere is that men are not owed sex no matter what.
If you're not addressing that point you're just obfuscating.
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@wwaytooyoung @lilsauerkraut_ Yes, the highlight of half the people on here is to engage in a good faith debate with people who believe differently, and the highlight of the other half is to simply insult those who disagree with them.
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@isabasilisk @st_louis_stan When are we allowed to expect sex?
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@st_louis_stan The problem is that it becomes a negative association. Many times the making out might lead to sex, but if the husband acts disappointed by the initiation not leading there, then she will be less likely to do it again. This expectation is actually the root of many dead bedrooms.
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"Come along, husband, time for our nightly non-sexual makeout session that may or may not lead to sex depending on how I feel"
emily may@emilykmay
there's a sex therapist who has a ritual of making out with her husband every night before bed, and so many of the comments on her posts are some version of "but what if he gets turned on and I don't want to have sex" and i need men to understand and prioritize non sexual touch.
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@DroverSabr54018 It would work on me for sure. Good strategy for you.
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@rachallison1 @HakureiRyan This is a pretty universal experience for men. I'm over it now because it was in the past but I did so much for a "Christian" woman who I thought was the most godly woman. She said "God wasn't calling her to her to be with me".
She ended up marrying a guy who cheated on her.
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@HakureiRyan You’re missing my whole point and continuously saying “yall” as if speaking for all women based on your own limited experience, so I’m just gonna wish ya the best and carry on
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Just FYI, there’s difference in finding something *attractive* and having it as a dealbreaker/standard.
I’m sure most women WOULD find those 3 qualities attractive. Doesn’t mean any or all of them are necessary or expected in order for her to date you lol. This negative attitude is probably not working in your favor, though
HakureiRyan@HakureiRyan
@rachallison1 It's actually because they're no different than atheist/secular women and have the same unrealistic "6 foot, 6 pack, 6 figures" standards that they have. They are no less sophilistic nor hypergamic and in many ways are actually worse than that atheist/secular woman.
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@Molaau6 Idk why I remember you saying something like that. Apologies.
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@saaranghaeyo @TectusVulpes @the_fem_tm I don't care who agrees with me or not.
People deserve to have happy relationships. Whatever it takes to get that done is necessary.
If a woman can be happy giving a guy sex even if she doesn't want it, because there are other benefits to her, that's fine.
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@jamesstrather @TectusVulpes @the_fem_tm And the man child who blocked me after spitting his dummy out and having a huge temper tantrum is going to spam your replies to agree with you.
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@saaranghaeyo @TectusVulpes @the_fem_tm You don't get to decide whether there's a middle ground.
I have fucked my wife when I didn't want to. It wasn't rape. I just did it because I knew she was horny.
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@TectusVulpes @the_fem_tm I can't believe this person with the mental age of a toddler having a temper tantrum is actually allowed to get married.
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@LavenderKn19901 @DarthDude39971 @the_fem_tm Tell them how to make you enjoy it. No excuses. Problem solved.
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@DarthDude39971 @the_fem_tm That's the point. ITS NOT ENJOYABLE TO THEM. Yes it could be, but the partner does not care to make it so. They want them to just lay there and do their "duty". Disturbing.
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@tepid_dog_water @the_fem_tm The husband is welcome to leave. Why does the wife have to leave? She's fine being with her husband without sex, he's the miserable one.
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@hilosfemi2 @N01N30 If women start shaming men for having a lot of sex and treat them as inferior, then it will be a thing.
It's your responsibility as women to create this standard.
In fact I think it would be great if you did.
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sex is used as an insult for women “i fucked your mom” “suck my dick” “your mom is whore”,women that have sex are “sluts” while men arent, people refer to sex as “cracked” “used” “smashed” “destroy her holes” and still have the audacy to talk about sex as “intimacy and love”
aidifk@aidifk61385
@lullabystarlust Why is sex so fucking bad to you? It's the ultimate form of intimacy
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Men who idealise foreign women, particularly Asian women, make me chuckle. You lads have no idea how good you have it with white women. Asians, particularly East Asians, will grab you by the nutsack and tell you to your face daily that you are pathetic and don’t earn enough money. White women will go to work five days a week and dutifully split the bill because their boyfriend has “anxiety” and he has to rest at home.
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@jamesstrather @spencerconway16 @awakenorder I'm just a short mens advocate man. Idc about dating and aesthetics. I don't if I'm short or another mans tall. Such is life 🤷
I just care about the welfare of short men, since it is apart of the status quo and zeitgeist to openly bash us with impunity. That's all
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Good to see tall guys admitting my original point.
They got it good, they're not effected by misandry. This guys based. He's right, they have nothing to cope about. The system serves them.
You're saying nothing wrong, tall king. Keep it up, spitting facts.
spencer conway@spencerconway16
@escapetcm Look at you crying fucking loser 🫵😂. You say “talloid” like that’s an insult (that’s like saying “oh yeah, well you have a big penis” and thinking it’s an insult) and “coper” like we have anything to cope about.
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@MenaceDayz2831 @mailpilled @militantsoulja_ Post yourself then dude stop acting like yall are just the hottest thing going when you’re some ugly ass insercure person I will dox you and make you show your ugly face
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@MenaceDayz2831 @ArnoldHumphrie5 @militantsoulja_ I don't know if that's true but it is, it would be most likely because the modeling industry is the product of white first world nations.
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@ArnoldHumphrie5 @militantsoulja_ Yeah that must be why white people only take up 10% of the world but somehow take over 60% of all models I guess people are into the less facial structure apparently
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@JayRawler @joop2you17208 @militantsoulja_ The problem with the dating app data is we only really have it white countries. Obviously in white countries people would prefer white men to date.
In reality most people prefer their own race.
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@joop2you17208 @militantsoulja_ Asian men are actually below Blacks, but you guys are a close second. Only the trashiest of Asian & White women want anything to do with Black guys. Women of all races seek out white men. I don't need the data to know this is true... but the data is there too
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