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@hiidekihyuuga @Cr7Godbrand Id rather propose that fertility would be a more important characteristic. In any case we are from different countries so there is a chance that our experiences on this topic would vary.

@Malidfor @Cr7Godbrand Padrão de beleza das mulheres n tem a ver com infantilização, mas com a dinamica de genero bilateral em que os homens representam força e as mulheres fraqueza e delicadeza. Da mesma forma, o padrão de beleza masculino é oposto sempre idealizando caras grandes.

Notice how ‘manchild’ is a term, but ‘womanchild’ isn’t. There is no equivalent term for immature women. This means that society holds men to a higher standard of maturity as they age, while it's more acceptable for women to retain a childlike mentality. The cultural references, like "Forever 21" or the song "Girls Just Want to Have Fun," also reinforce this idea that it's okay for women to embrace a childlike mentality. 🤷🏿‍♂️ “ I just a girl”.

@LordChoalith @BrianAtlas Obviously as I stated in my other comments the patriarchy is bad but I dont understand how Im a "ragewhore" when youre the one cursing at me. I guess I cant really expect level headed conversation from someone who uses the word "ilk" in 2026...

@Malidfor @BrianAtlas If you discount the Wealthy and Elite men, then Woman are collectively in a vastly higher strata of status, privilege, and legal protection than men are right now. We're offing ourselves at five times the rate, failing in Schools, and it's not because "We made the system".

The problem with feminism is that all forms of it take the following to be self-evident: - Society is Male Dominated - Male dominance privileges men over women - While some men can sometimes be harmed by this system, the system itself is set up to privilege men and subjugate women for mens express benefit. Meaning that oppression of women is to mens' benefit and in their nature. Meaning men are innately inclined to oppress the people with whom they have their closest emotional bonds. Which is contraindicated by even the slightest examination of society and history. Yes, history. Whatever factoid you're reaching for to counter this, consider what the situation for men was. Voting rights? Men paid for their vote with civil and military conscription, women never have. Domestic violence? As a culture, we still have trouble believing that female perpetrated domestic abuse even exists. Genital mutilation? Illegal for women, legal for men. Reproductive rights? Men do not have the legal right to forgo parental responsibilities, even if they had sex forced on them as a child (that we don't call rape because women are legally immune to that label) while women do. Patriarchy starts from a position of men as monsters, and women as victims. That has yet to be evidenced, and indeed appears to have negative predictive ability.

@LordChoalith @BrianAtlas I see you have a lot of anger but I did not blame men for the patriarchy. Obviously class is a big factor because like I said the patriarchy is a note negative for men and women alike. Obviously wealthy ppl would benefit from it more. (Continued)

@SirMysticJedi @_michellefury @LisaMurphyDJ @Liz_Wheeler Idk I've never said that.

@Malidfor @_michellefury @LisaMurphyDJ @Liz_Wheeler But I thought it was a woman's role to have children and if she can't then she's a failure of a woman and of no use.

No, gay men should not to allowed to buy babies via a surrogate. No, single straight men should not be allowed to buy babies via a surrogate. No, single women shouldn’t be allowed to buy babies via a surrogate. No, married heterosexual couples shouldn’t be able to buy babies via a surrogate. Is that clear enough for you? Surrogacy commodifies a baby, reducing the child into a product to be purchased, grossly violating that child’s human dignity. Surrogacy then robs the baby of mother and/or father, all to gratify adults who think their desire for a child trumps the wellbeing of the child who deserves an intact natural family. Surrogacy in all circumstances is a gross violation of natural law. It should be illegal. This should not be a controversial opinion.

@Crayonhauler @JonnyNFTENERGY @mondoggg Idk if you phrased it wrong when you say that its unfortunate that a child receives more support than a father. Unless maybe you meant to say mother knstead of child. I do agree that it is sad though.

@Malidfor @JonnyNFTENERGY @mondoggg I agree the audience could be different but pretty sad a father gets less support than some kids who may or may not even turn out to be the friends of the child.

My son told my wife today that he doesn’t love me because I don’t spend as much time with him as she does. I’m the sole income earner in our family of four and try to never work between 5pm and his bed time, and walk him to school every morning. What’s even the point of working this hard if your kids don’t even like you.

@DeanAbbott Do you have examples of what that line is to you? Thats all Im really curious about. If you dont want to share though thats fine.

@Malidfor Im not being hostile. I think its obvious "as far as possible means" among other things "as far as possible without endangering them".

Coddle your children as much as possible. Shield them to an extreme degree. Prevent them as long as possible from even knowing that ugly, evil things exist. Protect their innocence to the last second possible. There's almost no such thing as being "overprotective."

@Tgee62Gee @NFLD_Jack @OurOwnNation @RedGuit This is about the Jewish people not the Hebrew people. Judaism is a religion. Ofc all Jewish aren't white but there is a good number that are.

@NFLD_Jack @OurOwnNation @RedGuit The Hebrew people are of middle eastern descent- and you’re trying to say they are white?

“58% of Child molestors are White dads” data point is interesting I wonder how it would change if they actually recorded Nonwhites correctly

@Noir15662 @chudhapa Idk I love my father, he taught me how to braid. Everyone loves girl dads.

@chudhapa there is no "raising a girl right" either she becomes a whore or hate you for not aftually becoming a whore

all that for a random Chad to break her heart and give her a life long trauma... I dont wanna raise a daughter

@LisaBritton I wont say youre wrong because this is your lived experience. Just because my life isn't the same doesnt mean youre wrong. I dont think its a problem for you to shift values.

People are on here telling me I’m wrong—Decades of girlboss, anti-men, anti-family messaging hasn’t had a negative impact on ANYONE I’m literally writing about myself and my childless friends who 𝘥𝘰 say we were negatively influenced and now have “what-ifs”… don’t gaslight me.

@CashBSpazzin Exactly, sometimes he wasn't a master manipulator. Sometimes you just wanted him bad enough to ignore the bad behavior. I genuinely dont believe most of these situations are just him switching up. 10 years ago your friend told you what was up and you called her a hater.

Y’all be making men sound like brilliant wizards . They’re not that smart to be fooling every woman . If we the most educated group, we sure get fooled by mfs with GEDs

@SimpPolice911 Isn't he like 41? He still could've picked better though.

A young rich black man and all you could settle for is a 50 year old worn out whore. Black men are never beating the allegations

@Simon_Ingari I mean the women who really want to become mothers dont let the career stop them. If we had maternity and paternity leave this wouldn't really be so much of an issue.

Woman: I want to get pregnant at 18 years. “You’ll ruin your high school education.” I want to get pregnant at 20 years. “You’ll ruin your college years.” I want to get pregnant at 26 years. “You’ll lose focus on your career.” I want to get pregnant at 31 years. “You’re getting late to have kids.” I want to get pregnant at 36 years. “High-risk pregnancy.” I want to get pregnant at 40 years. “You’ll likely give birth to a baby with abnormalities.” Society: “Why is the population declining?”

@DeanAbbott Thats why I ask because as far as possible to me sounded like as long as you can control it. If thats not what youre saying then you could just say that and give your example. Idk why youre being so hostile when I just asked you what you meant.

@Malidfor I think reasonable people with common sense would understand that I am not advocating putting children in danger. Do you see where I say things like "as far as possible "?

@NataniaMarshall I've never met someone who has had 5 abortions. Thats a lot of money.

Isn’t it sad that our world normalizes having 5 abortions, but having 5 children is seen as insanity? Crazy.

@Rich_Cooper Why is it always a sandwich? Do you not eat steak?

'Stunning' would be this same woman making her man a sandwich with a smile, this ain't it...

@DeanAbbott Ok because I think a lot of people aren't understanding what else you mean. Im not even trying to be obtuse when I ask what do you mean. Im really wondering.

@Malidfor I think it's obvious I mean something else.

@DurableMLecture The message in the first two is not to disobey God because God gave direct instruction to Adam and Samson. The message in the last is not to scheme against your father or commit fraud. I dont understand sexist christians.

When Adam took Eve seriously, they were both banished from paradise. When Samson took Delilah seriously, he was captured by his enemies. When Jacob took his mother seriously, he almost got killed. The fall of society began when we started to take women seriously. There's a lesson in there.

@BrianAtlas As a feminist myself I think these genuinely are important issues and I don't see how feminism means a disadvantage for men. You can split the financial load, split family time more evenly, hold women accountable for violence when they are in the wrong and so on.

@BrianAtlas Depending on the culture youre talking about women weren't even allowed to pay to vote. For example the ancient Greeks did not consider women to be citizens and to vote you had to be a citizen. To the rest of your points thats an example of patriarchy. (Continued)

@BrianAtlas When he becomes a victim to an older woman people congratulate him and tell him to man up to his responsibilities. On top of that if he is upset by it then he's called gay. Feminism should benefit everyone because the push is for equal treatment. (Continued)

@BrianAtlas Men and women can shirk responsibility but if you want to do that then you have to pay. On the rape angle this is also a patriarchy issue. Under the patriarchy men are supposed to love sex and sleep with women because thats manly. So when he becomes a victim (continued)