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@JapaCode @Glory9Glory I know say you never see fine girl before and you’re seeking my attention.
You have gotten your 40 seconds of attention, now dey go
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Just going through some comments both here, Faceboook, IG ,
I just dey smile because many people were focused on asking, don't he have friends who can help him go back?,
My dear, when you're in deep sh!t, you will understand that 95% of those your contacts are useless, they're just occupying space, if you are able to get one or two that can help you once, be grateful 💯
Chinenye Glory@Glory9Glory
My husband still regrets coming back to Nigeria 2019 to visit his family, He was kidnapped that same year, was later released after paying huge amount of ransom which affected his traveling back , When we think, things are getting better again for him to go back, His elder brother was kidnapped,ransom was demanded , Hubby sold all his resources and assets just for his released because his four kids was still very young and the wife, But even after the ransom was paid, he was still killed, no body to retrieve, At the same time, hubby lost everything to them,and was also in so much debit which has been cleared by God's grace Instead of staying without anything, he decided to borrowed little money and get second hand Keke which he is managing now but has been in a bad shape since last week So to the f@@l that was calling me an Igbo beggar just because I committed on a giveaway, may Nigeria happen to u too This was my husband before Nigeria happened to him and now 🙏🙏🙏
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@EmarIkoro @GloriousGod01 And then 1 guy who's got all his ass cleaned up & doing very well due to good support system will come here to mislead pple abt moving abroad. Nigerians wey no fit fix 1 tin in more than 69yrs, not evn original drugs... Na funds dey hold me, i dont want to live here anymore😡
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Only gullible people will listen to such talk.
It's better to clean in a place where you can have a little savings than to insist on living in a place where you barely feed.
Sometimes ago, I left teaching job to start painting, not because I don't love teaching but I like to feel my pocket.
All my friends who remain abroad, are doing far better than me.
The only reason am still here is because I don't have the funds yet.
Many people still don't yet understand the damage APC has done to our economy and how it is eating everybody and everything up.
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My friend in the UK called me today and offered to fly me out. Visa money, flight money, everything covered.
I said no.
He told me there was no plan waiting for me there but that I could find a cleaning job or "at least escape Nigeria." I told him to send the money instead so I could put it into a business here.
He was disappointed. That's his business.
I have zero interest in relocating abroad without a plan. I am not leaving Nigeria to go and clean toilets in the UK because someone wants me to feel like I have arrived. That is not an upgrade. That is a relocation of suffering.
I want to be established here, build something real, and then travel abroad on vacation as a man with options. Not as someone who fled.
The only reason I would ever consider relocating is to make serious money, and even then, it must be a concrete plan. Not a cleaning job. Not a "you'll figure it out." Not a one-way ticket to survival mode in someone else's country.
Japa without a plan is just poverty with a foreign accent.
Nigeria has my frustrations but it also has my vision. I am staying.
Above all, love God.
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@EzekielOluwada6 @naughty_libra07 So women are programmed to be dummies or what? So there's no better way for this lady to handle this situation than this? Y are u all so unfair to dat guy, if he's ur brother, will u say all this? So most 9ja women can't be accountable & responsible enough to communicate?
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let’s be honest too, the guy wasn’t just a victim of love, he was also part of the problem. He was earning over ₦2 million, yet couldn’t build structure, save properly, or follow a clear process. Instead, he chose to pour everything into the relationship, almost like he was trying to secure love through money. That’s where greed comes in, not just greed for love, but greed for control and access through shortcuts instead of doing things the right way.
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We’re only hearing his side, but one thing is clear, the man invested heavily (emotionally, financially, time) without clarity, boundaries, or control of his own situation.
The same thing happened to DEMOLA, He spent years funding a woman abroad, rent, bills, everything. He believed “love will fix it.”
She kept him at a distance, always had excuses, and avoided accountability.
One day, he found out she was engaged to someone else.
The same pattern:
Over-giving
Ignoring red flags
Staying in long-distance confusion
No structure, no accountability
Over-investing without reciprocity
Ignoring obvious signs (distance, lack of intimacy, secrecy)
No firm boundaries
Letting love override logic for too long.
The Bottom line is:
Love is not enough. As a man, if you don’t lead with clarity, boundaries, and self-respect, you can lose years to a situation that was never truly yours.
@𝗼𝗻𝗲𝗷𝗼𝗯𝗹𝗲𝘀𝘀𝗯𝗼𝘆@OneJoblessBoy
❝If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have been justified. Mayowa travelled abroad 6 years and for the small money I had, I was sending money to Mayowa everytime. Since 2021, I didn't see Mayowa again..❞ Roby Ekpo cries out about his previous marriage to Mayowa Lambe.
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@naughty_libra07 @EzekielOluwada6 Na everything u dey agree to or u're just begging for engagement to ur posts? So if dat lady is ur sister, u will advise her to treat a fellow man so cheaply instead of doing her part to be responsible & accountable? Y do u men often excuse women's obvious wickedness?
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@EzekielOluwada6 I agree with you..how could you be pouring money into love with no solid backup
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@olajideobe All of dem claiming to b non-simps on dis App ar all simps, there is no nation under heaven where men simp & lick women's anus mor than in Nigeria. Nigerian men ar d greatest enablers of female entitlement globally, they're d only set of men who pay women to love & tolerate them
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Dear young men,
Lend me your ears and please come listen to this:
(A.) Misogynist, narcissist, toxic, stingy, selfish, wicked, patriarchist, broke man, too controlling, unforgiving, immature, nonchalant, too strict.
(B.) Real man, intentional man, nice guy, cool guy, big boy, àgbà baller, my helper (aláàánú mi).
If a lady has never called you any of the names listed in class A at some point in time in your life but you have oftentimes been addressed with one or two names in class B, there is high possibility of you being a simp.
If you're in your mid 20s to late 30s, you can choose to be whatever you want to be in life, but as a big brother, I will strongly plead with you never to be a simp. If you fail to heed the warnings today, you will bite your fingers and cry tears of agony tomorrow. It is only a matter of time.
Mo wí tèmi náà. Ẹni tó bá létí, kó gbọ́. Ọlọ́run yóò wà pẹ̀lú rẹ.
🚶🚶🚶🚶
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The truth is, you'll hardly see a woman travel to Nigeria to marry a man she thinks isn't big on certificates.
Having spent time in matchmaking, I can tell you for free that women wants a man that can take 80% of their bills away unfortunately.
I have seen cases where the lady traveled to Nigeria, marry the man, went back to the US and withdrew the application she filed because she said the guy is poor and visiting his family house, she was disappointed.
So, if she will fly out there to marry you, you better be worth it, else she's not committing to it...... sad reality.
To me, that's wrong and it is selfish.
This is why most of them go their separate ways afterwards.
Before I married, I had a medical doctor here in Canada and US, who were on me for marriage, PhD holders, top guys academically, UK, US, Nigeria...... they come like they're perfect, they are so full of themselves, and each time, i tell them, YOU CAN'T LOVE ME!!!
I don't see love in them... I can't see me live in them.....
I am a strong advocate for love and I don't joke with it....
LOVE SPEAKS.... LOVE IS NOT SILENT.....
Loving a man/woman is in isolation of whom they are academically, socially,......
We chase the wrong things....
Life is fickle and you can't control that....
Things happens and will always happens.
Everyone is lying and running emotional scam and it is becoming alarming.
Many women abroad will keep missing it and sponsoring idiots that will continue to lie to them because they only want someone that will buy them beach houses upon arrival....
That brother that looks emaciated, hungry, hopeless, jobless, helpless, can actually be the best thing that will ever happen to you....
PLEASE KNOW THIS THAT MEN DON'T FORGET A WOMAN THAT HOLDS THE TORCHLIGHT IN THE MIDST OF THEIR DARKNESS.
There are lots and lots of men abroad, who are sincere and genuine but because theyre not articulating or bagging those degrees, you conclude they're below you....
Girl; marriage is far from that.....
ThankGod you're in a working system, that means you've gone ahead to set the pace for comfort.....
Start looking into their soul and not their tired faces......
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@Temmy_omoileri Madam these people don't tell d real tale. His case is different from d average poor nigerian who's barely struggling to keep afloat! Someone like dat will regret greatly in 5yrs if he rejects dat offer. These pple shld tell us abt dia support systems which made dem refuse d ofa
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My husband has this mindset too. He traveled to the UK, but went back 09" against all advise to remain. He said he came to visit and he must respect the law of their land by returning back.
Different people with different opinions on how they want to do things and I honestly don't meddle.
As long as you have the capacity to bear the consequences of your actions, enjoy it.!
Glorious God@GloriousGod01
My friend in the UK called me today and offered to fly me out. Visa money, flight money, everything covered. I said no. He told me there was no plan waiting for me there but that I could find a cleaning job or "at least escape Nigeria." I told him to send the money instead so I could put it into a business here. He was disappointed. That's his business. I have zero interest in relocating abroad without a plan. I am not leaving Nigeria to go and clean toilets in the UK because someone wants me to feel like I have arrived. That is not an upgrade. That is a relocation of suffering. I want to be established here, build something real, and then travel abroad on vacation as a man with options. Not as someone who fled. The only reason I would ever consider relocating is to make serious money, and even then, it must be a concrete plan. Not a cleaning job. Not a "you'll figure it out." Not a one-way ticket to survival mode in someone else's country. Japa without a plan is just poverty with a foreign accent. Nigeria has my frustrations but it also has my vision. I am staying. Above all, love God.
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@BlessingCh73232 @GloriousGod01 "I wont take that either" cos u hv solid leverage & robust support systems here, ur case is different & u pple shld b very realistic wit these tins. D average nigerian who has nothing to hold on to here wil most certainly regret in 5yrs if he rejects d offer. Tell d real tale!
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@GloriousGod01 If there's no concrete and secure plan already on ground, I'll also pass. Is the country hard? Yes.
Are we navigating? Yes. That's atleast far better than relocating to premium suffering.
I won't take that either.
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@joe_elizab35510 @iamokedi @GloriousGod01 Madam u pple shld stop deceiving gullible nigerians. Tell us d tins giving u leverage & d support systems u hv here dat mks u want to stay. Most Nigerians hv nothing to hold on to & by dis post, u're motivating dem to stay. Let them know they'll regret in 5yrs wit nothing here
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I don't want to leave and go to a foreign country with out a plan and money to survive. The stories from the abroad of people that left home full of hopes but disappointed along the line. It will not happen to me because when I am ready to japaa, I will be prepared. Everyone has what they can tolerate. For now, we are struggling for a better Nigeria.
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@blaq_en_belle @GloriousGod01 @STACEYLUXUbs Madam cut d drama. Y didn't u ask him what gave him courage enough to turn down such an offer. He refused to mention his support systems & i just pity any1 wit no support or leverage here who'll listen to him. His case is different & he's trying to mislead uninformed pple
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@GloriousGod01 @STACEYLUXUbs I tell people too, when you plan to japa, have a plan.
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@angeloozoeze @GloriousGod01 Forget Nigerians who love deceiving uninformed pple. He refused to tel us what gave him confidence & courage to refuse dat offer, he didn't mention his support system & leverages he has to b able to say NO. Those who hv nothing who'll listen to him will most definitely regret
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@GloriousGod01 Simply laughable... The same cleaning my guy used to buy plenty land and build house after staying for 5years in UK
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@BlueNorth_Info @GloriousGod01 Just listen to yourself. Both of u are deceivers of gullible pple. Did he tell us his support systems & d leverages he has for him to b courageous enough to refuse dat offer? I pity whoever has nothing who'll listen to him, such a person will no doubt regret after 5yrs... U know
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@GloriousGod01 If you move just to figure it out, you are entering a high-risk zone. Predators and bad employers love plan-less migrants because they know you can't afford to say no to a bad deal.
Building here while you have your sight is a thoughtful move.👍👍
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@EmarIkoro @GloriousGod01 These pple are just here to deceive gullible & uninformed pple. He didn't tell us his support systems & leverages dat gave him courage to refuse. I pity whoever has nothing dat will listen to him, he'll regret forever. That's how they mislead without giving clear guidance
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Your opinion your choice.
My eldest brother left this year January, he is a barrister, practicing law in Abuja working under the government with real estate agent as side hustle.
He left all of that for a taxi driver job in the US. Give him 2 more years and you can't compare him with his colleagues who he once work with.
I regretted ever stepping my footsteps back into this country and this year is the final "call to action for me"
Business, love, hope, marriage, job, sanity and freedom hardly survive here.
My world view, The world belong to me. I live where it gives me peace.
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@Latifat_writes @GloriousGod01 Sisi Eko, don't listen to dat guy pls. U dont kno d tins dat gave him courage to refuse dat offer, u dont kno his support systems & leverages. I pity any1 wit little or no support system who'll listen to him, in 5yrs he will regret greatly. These pple mislead dia gullible fans
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@GloriousGod01 "Japa without a plan is just poverty with a foreign accent." This line got me wondering what some people are sacrificing just to stay abroad.
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@wealthypips_ @GloriousGod01 I made this point. Dis guy must have enough courage in his support systems here & dats y he refused d offer. I just pity those who will listen to him but hv little or no support system here, they will regret absolutely in 2 5yrs if they reject d offer. Dem dey confuse pple
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@GloriousGod01 E nor still easy for who Even get plan talkless of who nor get plan.
But you see that business when u get, do you think it can survive the uncertainties in this country?
Take the risk while you’re still young o.
Gods favour is still at play, and everybody story different.
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@GloriousGod01 U did not tell ur fans what gives u courage & gives u leverage enough to hv confidence in staying, ur case is different & I hope dis post doesn't mislead those who are barely surviving above water... If u're like dat, don't listen to this guy, run & leave, else u go REGRET!
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@Presh24rq @Glory9Glory Dis 1 touch am😅😅... Mgbeke wit empty block head😅😤
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@JapaCode @Glory9Glory If I respond to you now, you will say I have insulted you.
Carry your smelly corpse and leave my comments section.
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@omnet_Blueco @Yng350 @OneJoblessBoy Every man was a simp at some point in his short life, its just unfortunate most of u come online to over criticise other men when they encounter women's evils. I hv bn a simp, I owned it wit my chest! If u've never bn 1, congrats but I know most 9ja men ar spineless b4 dia women
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@JapaCode @Yng350 @OneJoblessBoy Ok I understand your anger, I can see already you're a simp or you have been used also, sorry you will heal 😊
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❝If I had a kid out of wedlock, I would have been justified. Mayowa travelled abroad 6 years and for the small money I had, I was sending money to Mayowa everytime. Since 2021, I didn't see Mayowa again..❞
Roby Ekpo cries out about his previous marriage to Mayowa Lambe.
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@Temmy_omoileri 9ja ladies of 2026 that see their legs as passport to men's wallets? Otilo.. I've always said it, black people were never truly made to fall in love, we are too poor, too deprived, too disadvantaged & too shortsighted to even see true love evn when it stares us in d face. Too bad
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IT IS CLEAR THAT A LOT OF PEOPLE DON'T KNOW WHAT LOVE IS IN MARRIAGE.
GO AND LEARN LOVE.... GO AND LEARN THE BASIC NEEDS OF LOVE...
GO AND GIVE YOURSELF TO LEARNING AND KEEP YOUR LEGS CLOSED AND YOU'LL HAVE CLEAR VISIONS.
LOVE NEVER DIES!! IT IS HUMANS THAT FALL AWAY FROM LOVE...
LEARN OR PERISH.
Temmy@Temmy_omoileri
The truth is, you'll hardly see a woman travel to Nigeria to marry a man she thinks isn't big on certificates. Having spent time in matchmaking, I can tell you for free that women wants a man that can take 80% of their bills away unfortunately. I have seen cases where the lady traveled to Nigeria, marry the man, went back to the US and withdrew the application she filed because she said the guy is poor and visiting his family house, she was disappointed. So, if she will fly out there to marry you, you better be worth it, else she's not committing to it...... sad reality. To me, that's wrong and it is selfish. This is why most of them go their separate ways afterwards. Before I married, I had a medical doctor here in Canada and US, who were on me for marriage, PhD holders, top guys academically, UK, US, Nigeria...... they come like they're perfect, they are so full of themselves, and each time, i tell them, YOU CAN'T LOVE ME!!! I don't see love in them... I can't see me live in them..... I am a strong advocate for love and I don't joke with it.... LOVE SPEAKS.... LOVE IS NOT SILENT..... Loving a man/woman is in isolation of whom they are academically, socially,...... We chase the wrong things.... Life is fickle and you can't control that.... Things happens and will always happens. Everyone is lying and running emotional scam and it is becoming alarming. Many women abroad will keep missing it and sponsoring idiots that will continue to lie to them because they only want someone that will buy them beach houses upon arrival.... That brother that looks emaciated, hungry, hopeless, jobless, helpless, can actually be the best thing that will ever happen to you.... PLEASE KNOW THIS THAT MEN DON'T FORGET A WOMAN THAT HOLDS THE TORCHLIGHT IN THE MIDST OF THEIR DARKNESS. There are lots and lots of men abroad, who are sincere and genuine but because theyre not articulating or bagging those degrees, you conclude they're below you.... Girl; marriage is far from that..... ThankGod you're in a working system, that means you've gone ahead to set the pace for comfort..... Start looking into their soul and not their tired faces......
Mission 1, British Columbia 🇨🇦 English